FabSwingers.com forum: How many women/men you have had sex with in your life

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1,2,10,20,50? ...

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

In bed with a married couple now

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It would be rude to say

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Under 20 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped counting I am in the lower middle off triple digits

Lot more men than woman though boosting those numbers up

also clubs and such numbers are easy to boost

Mean went for a spa day at the start off the month was in 2 hours and had add 5 more to my count things start to go haywire when you add in stuff like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One woman no men

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know. More than 1 and less than 200

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

Depends if we are talking sex or making love ? Making love-1 having sex loads !!

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Way to many

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By *azzolatinoMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

30 + women and about the same men…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In bed with a married couple now"

Do they mind you messaging?

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By *azzler2Man
over a year ago

halifax

Not enough yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

If you mean non oral, then:

Beth - around 20 guys, since 1989

Melv - 4 ladies, since 1982!

Beth is way more attractive than me!!

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

9 - Xeno

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By *iniskirtCouple
over a year ago

Paisley

One for both of us x

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Not enough of either haha, Mrs xxx

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

This is a swinger site, isn’t it? I can’t remember how many men I’ve been with but I can count the women on one hand

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By *andZ30Couple
over a year ago

dumfries

1 for mr 7 for mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full penetrative sex - less than 10! I’m pretty particular about that side of things…

But all the other stuff? I lost count a long while ago.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"In bed with a married couple now

Do they mind you messaging?

I reckon he's in with you guys

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By *tag - Vixen Cpl xCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

1 for Mr 9 for Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe some people slept with 1 person and on a swingers site

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't believe some people slept with 1 person and on a swingers site "

Maybe they have ambitions to increase their tally?

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"I can't believe some people slept with 1 person and on a swingers site "

Agree with you, perhaps I'm more explorative than I first figured.

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By *ulie RobertsTV/TS
over a year ago

Southampton

More men than women

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

What we find quite funny is Alyson has fucked nearly more men since we got together than she had before we met

so rough guess would be 22 (ish) men for her (a handful of women played with as well) and 5 women for myself since we started swinging....roughly 35 - 40 women prior to starting this journey

(can't remember exact figures

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I have no idea.

Why would I want to count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 1, less than 1,000.

I think?

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By *nkednkinkyMan
over a year ago

Fraserburgh

Stopped counting after 100 but it's got to be near 150 now

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Around 50 I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the course of 30 years, I would guess 100 women and one trans woman, with most of the women in my 20's and 30's. None on Fabswingers but a handful at various clubs in recent years. I think the biggest difference between then and now is that I am far more interested in the quality / shared interests rather than just getting my dick wet.

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Lower triple digits for women, one trans woman and zero blokes.

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

Around 150 for me.

Dee

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester

"I can't believe some people slept with 1 person and on a swingers site "

When I first joined a swingers site it was 1

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Me 10 including hubby, hubby was very naughty boy in his time so quiet a few more xx

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
over a year ago

Broxbourne

Kelly 36

Andy over 50

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

A lot. Lost count ages ago. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilts hot guyMan
over a year ago

calne

Far too many!! I was a holiday rep for 10 years!! Got some great story’s.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

7, and only with wifey for the past 27 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up keeping count in my early 20's...

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By *ack and jill 76Couple
over a year ago

Neath

God can't count that much lol

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By *picycouple27Couple
over a year ago

Westmeath

Mr:1 woman

Mrs:2 men 1 woman

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

In the mid to late 70's I was a bit of a womaniser.

Between 200 and 300.

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

Some of these numbers are shockingly low for a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m frightened to say I feel like a right slag

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I’m frightened to say I feel like a right slag

Well don't worry, I'm the male equivalent!! X

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I stopped counting over 20 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 4 women, I'm 32 years old...

Can help but feel that number is alarmingly low but they were all long term relationships...

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester

"Only 4 women, I'm 32 years old...

Can help but feel that number is alarmingly low but they were all long term relationships..."

Well it's higher than my number was when I was 32

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By *ardinal FangMan
over a year ago

Sandy

21 who I can remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeez, I honestly don't have a clue. I would have to sit and try and work it out.

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By *ainbow_RoadWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

No idea and no hope of working it out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought about counting but husbands past was colourful we have 2 children together he has 4 others from different women

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Some of these numbers are shockingly low for a swingers site "

It's not for lack of trying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fabite woman never reveals her deepest darkest secrets

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

It’d take more time than we’re prepared to give to work this out.

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By *oodjenWoman
over a year ago

london

Men 17

Females 4

Coupes 2

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

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By *ohnny3333Man
over a year ago

fleetwood

20 women 2 men full sex

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Including myself Vixen had slept with only 3 guys & 0 women before we started swinging, now her tally is 81 guys & 22 women

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"What we find quite funny is Alyson has fucked nearly more men since we got together than she had before we met

so rough guess would be 22 (ish) men for her (a handful of women played with as well) and 5 women for myself since we started swinging....roughly 35 - 40 women prior to starting this journey

(can't remember exact figures

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I was having this chat with Mr R the other day as its the same for me. I have generally always been in long term relationships so have nearly been with as many people since we joined fab as I was before we met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few.

And yet I had a wet-dream once that was better than them all put together.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Got to own up to more than 50 but very happy to add to that number!

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By *untimeabcWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

About 60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me 9, wife x10 of mine lol

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I can't believe some people slept with 1 person and on a swingers site "

In general I can’t believe how low some of these numbers are for a swingers site.

Personally got absolutely no idea. A few years back when couldn’t sleep tried reminiscing and counting like sheep

but gave up as didn’t help sleeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with fewer than 30.

Had sex with more than 200, but preferred to go home afterwards. :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not entirely sure certainly a few. As I met some men on a regular basis over several years, I wasn't always looking for additional meets even when here previously x

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Alot

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By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

Blowjobs fondling etc 6.

Giving "attention" to ladies for no "reward", about 25.

For full sex 14. All but 1 I can recall their names.

There's I whose name I can't recall because I never knew it.

I can recall them in order though.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

M-F where they have fucked me approx 40

F-F with strap-on around 25

M-F where I peg them. Around 20.

So roughly the 80 -100 mark, where some form of penetration was involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say its not how many its quality of

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I can't believe some people slept with 1 person and on a swingers site

In general I can’t believe how low some of these numbers are for a swingers site.

Personally got absolutely no idea. A few years back when couldn’t sleep tried reminiscing and counting like sheep

but gave up as didn’t help sleeping

Again, I didn't realise a huge tally was a prerequisite for enjoying fab

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By *zBoy123Man
over a year ago

London.

Easily over 300. Not bothered at all if no-one believes me but I was in the surf scene in Australia from 16 to 26 and was very prolific, promiscuous sex was a very normal part of the lifestyle, as was drugs. I know it's over 300 because several years ago I started jotting down names as they popped into my head and the list is now over 300.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Why focus on numbers when you can aim for a credit list in a movie?

I.e.

Foot guy number two

Hot barman number four

Couple walking in the park

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Somewhere above 50. My wife was about 31 before she stopped.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Last time I tried to recall, it was still in double figures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The youthful human beans call it a ‘body count’ now.

I recently tried to count it and, well, yeah so it’s called a body count these days…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Easily over 300. Not bothered at all if no-one believes me but I was in the surf scene in Australia from 16 to 26 and was very prolific, promiscuous sex was a very normal part of the lifestyle, as was drugs. I know it's over 300 because several years ago I started jotting down names as they popped into my head and the list is now over 300.

That is some Rain Man type memory you got there lad. I forgot my mates sisters name yesterday and I’ve known her for two years.

I 50/50 it between Kellie and Ellie

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By *host1100Man
over a year ago

Near Falkirk

"1,2,10,20,50? ..."

I think about 20 !! What seems to be the average ?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Less than 20 but more than 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with 4 women (Should have been 5 but didn't make it over the first fence after the whisky kicked in with one lass)

Oral play 5 women, 1 man.

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Around the 100 mark which I don't think is bad considering age, time in swinging scene and going through a randy teenage era.

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By *oots11Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Sex with 20plus women

Oral with 30plus women 10men

Mrs

Women 3 men ?

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

To say Mr was the more experienced of us and Mrs had been with no one when we got together way back when.

Mr = 3 women

Mrs = over 10 men

Yet to add the mutual lady to our tally.

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By *andyman4uanddiscreetMan
over a year ago

oxford

One would love to make it to two before i an 50

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By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London

"I can't believe some people slept with 1 person and on a swingers site "

That is the assumption though. All people on swinging sites are fucking 24/7 and are insatiable. Whereas the vouches on profiles in general will tell you different. With us it's the dynamic between us as two people. From some of the messages we receive, we can tell there is that assumption that she is a raving nymphomaniac just because we are on a sex site and no realisation that there is a hell of a lot more to sex than notches on a bed post.

To answer the OP, penetrative sex. Him 30plus. Her 1. Include non penetrative. Him not much more, Her another 10 plus.

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By *oulivCouple
over a year ago

Newtown

Holy shit! names list goes like this… Tracey, Heather, Fiona, Ginger Bird, Tall one in Manchester, Petite one and her cousin.. Ann, Against an ice cream van on Bridlington pier, Bev, Mawgan porth beach, Jayne, On the car bonnet…. etc

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By *uckwife69Woman
over a year ago

swansea

Much easier to remember how and when than with who to be honest... been swinging for over 20 yrs and was very promiscuous before so must be mid t9 high three figures ....

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I've never felt the need to count the number of people I've had sex of some sort with...

At a guess...more than 50 but less than 100.

Nita

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It is 30 so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be around the 50 mark....I had a slutty 20s era. This year around 5 so far.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

Over 100 easily

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By *adbod44Man
over a year ago

Leeds

127

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By *teve691000Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Some of these answers are shocking. Some people need to join a vanilla dating site not a sex site. I’m over 100 and that’s because I was very busy between 18 & 30. Then spent the next 6 or 7 years swinging with my now X wife. Visiting clubs 2 or 3 times a month, and lots of in-betweens. My X wife could easily boast a record of around 300 - 400 as she was and still is very greedy.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

a few. Don't keep count. Think it's less than 10 but more than 5

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Mind you if it was with the same person I'd triple & triple the figure

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Hundreds, possibly thousands

I don't count

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

I loose count

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

One

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Loads. I am a legend

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

"Under 20 x"
what in bed with you now.

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
over a year ago

Birmingham/midlands

Not early as many as I had wanted.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Not early as many as I had wanted."

Late starter you'll catch up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 woman

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Some of these answers are shocking. Some people need to join a vanilla dating site not a sex site. I’m over 100 and that’s because I was very busy between 18 & 30. Then spent the next 6 or 7 years swinging with my now X wife. Visiting clubs 2 or 3 times a month, and lots of in-betweens. My X wife could easily boast a record of around 300 - 400 as she was and still is very greedy. "

Again, not sure what's with the aggressive attitude towards people who aren't just shagging anything that moves

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

50-100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us under 20.

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By *am SmithMan
over a year ago

Around and about

Not enough

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
over a year ago

perth

Over 200 most in my younger days alas but lots of kinky fun

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By *ucknutMan
over a year ago

durham

Over 50 less than 100 women. Very few off here always found it easier in normal life than on here.

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By *layboyXXXMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Id say that its around the hundred mark

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By *rdimpsMan
over a year ago

Hull

Not enough.

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By *rdimpsMan
over a year ago

Hull

Does this include the number of times ive had sex with myself, or do i just count as one?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

2 im still learning,

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

40+ Fab Women

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think my number is between 20 and 30 but not totally sure. Luke

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