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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you

Then they ghost you afterwards.

I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you

Then they ghost you afterwards.

I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it "

What are the other options?

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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at


"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you

Then they ghost you afterwards.

I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it

What are the other options?"

Nothing I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you

Then they ghost you afterwards.

I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it "

I personally would chalk it up and move on. A mature adult will communicate if they have an issue. If they ghost, then they either can't communicate or just wanted to fuck and flee.

Either way, I wouldn't view them as worth any more of my time.

Plenty of men that don't pull that crap. Good luck x

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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at


"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you

Then they ghost you afterwards.

I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it

I personally would chalk it up and move on. A mature adult will communicate if they have an issue. If they ghost, then they either can't communicate or just wanted to fuck and flee.

Either way, I wouldn't view them as worth any more of my time.

Plenty of men that don't pull that crap. Good luck x"

Thank you I appreciate your reply

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If they imply that they want more than a one off I'd be a bit miffed. Otherwise as long as a 'thanks for a lovely time' message was received I'd just assume they didn't want to see me again. We have had incidents of people going off radar after they've met us only to reappear months later asking to meet again. I'm not too keen on that but I'm aware that they owe me nothing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also I think you need to harden yourself somewhat.

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By *untobehadMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

It’s a bit rude but that’s what some people are like on here !

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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at


"If they imply that they want more than a one off I'd be a bit miffed. Otherwise as long as a 'thanks for a lovely time' message was received I'd just assume they didn't want to see me again. We have had incidents of people going off radar after they've met us only to reappear months later asking to meet again. I'm not too keen on that but I'm aware that they owe me nothing "

Well communication was flowing until we met etc now nothing

I understand ppl are busy sometimes not even a thanks for a good time not for me tho

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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at


"Also I think you need to harden yourself somewhat. "

Very true

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If they imply that they want more than a one off I'd be a bit miffed. Otherwise as long as a 'thanks for a lovely time' message was received I'd just assume they didn't want to see me again. We have had incidents of people going off radar after they've met us only to reappear months later asking to meet again. I'm not too keen on that but I'm aware that they owe me nothing

Well communication was flowing until we met etc now nothing

I understand ppl are busy sometimes not even a thanks for a good time not for me tho "

I think it depends on your attitude and expectations and if they coincide with the people you meet. Did you get what you wanted from the encounter?

Guard your heart and don't make yourself vulnerable, people will exploit that.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough


"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you

Then they ghost you afterwards.

I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it "

They're probably on to their next any hole's a goal pursuit. So yeah, no worries is the best way.

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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at


"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you

Then they ghost you afterwards.

I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it

They're probably on to their next any hole's a goal pursuit. So yeah, no worries is the best way."

That's true

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

everyone i meet i assume ill not meet again its swinging unless you've ask for and both agreed on more then its nothing more than a meet .. if anything regular comes from a good meet then great but ill be honest alot id not want to meet again even if the meet was good ...its all part of swinging

and its not ghosting ...ghosting is when some one your in a relationship with or know very well goes quiet on you not strangers or people youve met a couple times with swinging

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

They're not worth your time or any thoughts. There's always something better to focus on or someone else to talk to

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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

Thanks for the pep talk everyone

Just going to say chuck in the fuck it bucket

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for the pep talk everyone

Just going to say chuck in the fuck it bucket

"

I might need to get one of those

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you

Then they ghost you afterwards.

I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it

I personally would chalk it up and move on. A mature adult will communicate if they have an issue. If they ghost, then they either can't communicate or just wanted to fuck and flee.

Either way, I wouldn't view them as worth any more of my time.

Plenty of men that don't pull that crap. Good luck x"

Great response! And definitely the way to deal with it. Don’t sweat it. You probably aren’t the first and you certainly won’t be the last.

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