FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies with a couples and singles profile...

By *mfromEmtastic OP Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Asking out of intrigue here... I recently started using this singles profile in addition to our couples profile to help set up surprise hotwife meets- Boss knows and is completely happy about it and its clearly stated we are a couple on the profile.

Anyway - my question is this - for those of you who have done similar or been on in both types of profile did you find the style and attitude of messages varied slightly? Being on the singles profile has certain been an eye opener in terms of the bluntness and pushiness...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking out of intrigue here... I recently started using this singles profile in addition to our couples profile to help set up surprise hotwife meets- Boss knows and is completely happy about it and its clearly stated we are a couple on the profile.

I don't have experience of being on a couples profile but being on here as a single women sometimes I horrible

I think if men could see some of the messages that we received they might understand a little but more

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By *ilthyParamedicMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

I don't have experience of being on a couples profile but being on here as a single woman sometimes I horrible

I think if men could see some of the messages that we received they might understand a little bit more "

A friend of mine used to be on here as a single. She showed me the messages she used to get and I was gobsmacked.

I genuinely wonder how some guys think that approach will ever get them any fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the messages sent to couples vs single woman profiles are very different. Made me turn gay.

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By *mfromEmtastic OP Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"Yeah the messages sent to couples vs single woman profiles are very different. Made me turn gay.

This might be the answer!

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We have a ff account with a friend, haven’t used it for a while pushy is certainly a word for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too have had a couple of messages that were questionable, to say the least so I can imagine what messages to women must be like. My female friend is getting a profile on here and I have tried to pre warm her that she will have unwanted messages, she is bi but I know that even if she put lesbian she would still get men messaging inappropriately. I'm straight but they still message me

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

ive both this my single and our joint both are used from a cuckold point of view .... i dont let guys get to me if they are nasty or childish or plain stupid i take that as a blessing and block ..

i dont allow them to treat me any different if they do i block they sure do try but thats ok because these things all add up as a filter my block list is massive i know i can see the last 250 but i know for a fact its in the 1000s but again thats good anything that is a natural filter is good ..

i think maybe us ladies should stop moaning about the affect of a nasty message the more we do they more they will send ....when all you have to do is laught then block job done...

over the years ive watched many women and couples join and what many leave and yet alot of guys dont understand why there are so few women or couples on here lol ...

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By *mfromEmtastic OP Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"ive both this my single and our joint both are used from a cuckold point of view .... i dont let guys get to me if they are nasty or childish or plain stupid i take that as a blessing and block ..

i think maybe us ladies should stop moaning about the affect of a nasty message the more we do they more they will send ....when all you have to do is laught then block job done...

over the years ive watched many women and couples join and what many leave and yet alot of guys dont understand why there are so few women or couples on here lol ..."

Good on you, me neither, I have a handy screenshot of the "no reply is not rude " section of the site rules which is handy

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We have a couples and a single (f) account. The messages on my single account are pretty horrific, so it’s pretty dormant now (though might be resurrected to exclusively chat to single fems in the future).

Vixen x

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

I used to have a single profile but the messages I got were just so rude and pushy.

It just wasn’t worth the rudeness

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep the messages I get on my own profile are v different,even with v high filters on.

We block single men on this profile as we're only after meeting couples though we still do get couples not reading our profile ,but not the really graphic messages or meet nows /cock pics .

Miss

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

also a simple screen shot of his face pic and the message just in case they try to rejoin

do guys not realize that when couples and women get together they mention these guys via word of mouth we all share we all show each other the nasty message and share the profile and face pic so others know too what a knob they are and all off site too so no rules broken

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By *enAndReginaCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I was thinking of setting up a profile for Regina, but she prefers me to do most of the fabmin anyway.

Reading the posts here I think I might keep it the way we have.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm not actively looking to meet at the moment so rarely use it, but I definitely get more random messages on my single profile.

Lets just say that I've blocked a lot of single men on my single account, mostly because they haven't read it. I'm only looking to meet women.

I even had one guy who was adament that most women who say they're not interested in meeting men are just saying that and can't wait to jump on his cock... Hmmm I think not mate.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not actively looking to meet at the moment so rarely use it, but I definitely get more random messages on my single profile.

Lets just say that I've blocked a lot of single men on my single account, mostly because they haven't read it. I'm only looking to meet women.

I even had one guy who was adament that most women who say they're not interested in meeting men are just saying that and can't wait to jump on his cock... Hmmm I think not mate.

Nita"

I point out that my profile states gay and they reply with more cock pics. Apparently lesbians would still want cock or be happy with a man 'just' giving them oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah the messages sent to couples vs single woman profiles are very different. Made me turn gay.

This might be the answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a shame that so many single boys ( I say boys because real men know how to treat a woman) screw it up for the rest of us guys who know how to think with our brains and not just our cocks.

I'm probably one of the few that reads the profile before scanning through the photos to see if I'm attracted. And yeah there are loads of singles and couples who I would love to mail and see if we hit it off but they have age ranges that are usually 5 to 10 years younger than me..so I don't waste thier time by trying it on when I know I'm not what they are looking for even though I don't look as old as I am.

I'm sorry to hear that so many ladies on here have to or have had to deal with immature knuckle draggers.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We have always been told to set up a single profile for my wife as she wants Girl Girl play but have decided against this as we know all the crap she would get.

Mr Easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs had a single account previously and some of the messages were shocking! And the volume is crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a single women’s account and in fairness I did get lots of best described as silly for want of a better word however I also had a few really nice messages

One of the guys I now have a couples account with ( husband is aware ) we only meet couples on this account so at least something positive came out of it I’ve since closed the single account as like the previous singles has said I got lots of silly messages and am now happy with couples account with my husband and my other couples account with the added bonus of I see him on my own sometimes

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Becky had a single female profile but for some reason Fab decided to change it to a couples profile..

But yes, the type of messages she received on her own profile were pretty foul mainly.

I can’t imagine any of these approaches working..

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By *ongTallPcockMan
over a year ago

Wexford

I whole heartedly agree with you babes, Some of the stories I've been told are absolutely horrendous. I do scratch me head and wonder how the f were they raised at all

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Great thread!

Mr Abz here. We both have solo profiles for hotwife and hothusband meets which we both have access to.

The messages on mrs Abz’ solo account are very different. I think guys think “hotwife” is interchangeable with “couldn’t give a shit who I sleep with, it will probably be the first guy to put in zero effort”.

In the main, guys tend to be respectful on this profile, but on hers, the sheer volume of messages and the lack of effort put in makes it basically unusable.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have a couple profile with a friend and this one. And I can't say that there has been much difference in the messages.Both accounts have tight filters so neither get a lot of mail and most are fine. And on the rare occasion a message that is rude or out of line comes through on either account but they just get deleted anyhow. I am long past letting some random gobshites on here annoy or upset me.

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