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By *unner6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bicester

I've always considered "Spontaneous" meets part of the fun of this hedonistic and somewhat Bohemian pathway.

Very hard to find anyone equally keen, nowadays. I'll admit I've had a couple of bad ones but there have been fantastic times too. And there's still a chance to chat, discuss likes and dislikes, exchange pics, etc. beforehand.

I can think of worse things to do on a Monday evening... how about you?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It's Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's Sunday"

And afternoon

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By *unner6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"It's Sunday"

Yes - but my status and proposed meet show I am looking to meet on Monday evening.... zzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's Sunday

Yes - but my status and proposed meet show I am looking to meet on Monday evening.... zzzz"

How spontaneous is a meet planned for the next day?

Mrs likes spontaneity, I tend to be more organised, but it works for us, I do the arranging and she can be spontaneous when it arrives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love spontaneous meets… have it in our profile. But would have to be with someone regular though

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No I don't do that. Too often it feels desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me anymore

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By *inkyAddamsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

As long as the attraction is there, we’ve got a free house. And they’re genuine I guess why not xx

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Who's near is great for spontaneity...planning it isn't spontaneous.

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By *unner6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"Who's near is great for spontaneity...planning it isn't spontaneous. "

Yes, I'd agree with that. I was interpreting "spontaneous" to include not meeting socially, first. although I still like to meet in a public place (e.g. hotel reception first, for everyone's security).

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Tried to be spontaneous Friday at a hotel meet. Could not get a single man to join us at all. It does happen.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Used to be spontaneous but after too many scary situations they’re now a no no unfortunately, just not safe anymore

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"It's Sunday

And afternoon "

I realise there is an OP, but I have to say afternoon too!

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By *unner6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"Used to be spontaneous but after too many scary situations they’re now a no no unfortunately, just not safe anymore "

Sorry to hear that. I did once have a woman come straight to my hotel room (that was part of her fantasy) and that particular meet was fantastic. But I’d always advocate meeting in public first - even if it is just for a few moments. I think you can form an opinion about someone quite swiftly.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"Used to be spontaneous but after too many scary situations they’re now a no no unfortunately, just not safe anymore

Sorry to hear that. I did once have a woman come straight to my hotel room (that was part of her fantasy) and that particular meet was fantastic. But I’d always advocate meeting in public first - even if it is just for a few moments. I think you can form an opinion about someone quite swiftly."

Yeah, most of the time it’s fine but it only takes one time going too far and it’s enough. My last hotel meet was a couple and ended with the police doing a welfare check on me at silly am, hence the caution now, clubs tend to be the safe bet

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By *unner6969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bicester


"Used to be spontaneous but after too many scary situations they’re now a no no unfortunately, just not safe anymore

Sorry to hear that. I did once have a woman come straight to my hotel room (that was part of her fantasy) and that particular meet was fantastic. But I’d always advocate meeting in public first - even if it is just for a few moments. I think you can form an opinion about someone quite swiftly.

Yeah, most of the time it’s fine but it only takes one time going too far and it’s enough. My last hotel meet was a couple and ended with the police doing a welfare check on me at silly am, hence the caution now, clubs tend to be the safe bet "

Omg - that sounds awful

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I believe that at least the first meet must be social. I give this advice to everyone and end up doing the mistake of going for a spontaneous meet myself Except the few good ones, most of them end up being terrible.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I've had plenty of very enjoyable spontaneous meets, but they've been in clubs where I've fucked a guy (or guys) without any preamble, or even knowing their name.

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