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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you

I'm more of a foreplay guy .... Think that's from being a kid and always thought I was a bad shag but great with my tongue

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm more of a foreplay guy .... Think that's from being a kid and always thought I was a bad shag but great with my tongue "

what do you think now?

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Both, sometimes breaking off of one for the other. I'm a cheapskate - spit makes good lube

jk

Wolf

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By *lderguy4funMan
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

lots of 4play is good then slip your cock in her wet pussy then you can always go back to the 4play lol

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you

In the back of my mind its always been therefore so I think it's foreplay first however - once I've cum I can go back and stay shagging forever !!

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By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Both, sometimes breaking off of one for the other. I'm a cheapskate - spit makes good lube

jk

Wolf

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That's actually quite a turn on hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im really not one for banging away for hours

When i have a good session i like 90% forplay 10% shag and even in that 10% i like to stop a couple of times and go back to oral

Any guy who wants longer at shagging than that best be bloody good at variety or i get bored easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im really not one for banging away for hours

When i have a good session i like 90% forplay 10% shag and even in that 10% i like to stop a couple of times and go back to oral

Any guy who wants longer at shagging than that best be bloody good at variety or i get bored easy"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men are good at foreplay, so i do prefer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love fore play being a chef means i am good with my tongue and fingers and not bad with my chipolata either.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love fore play being a chef means i am good with my tongue and fingers and not bad with my chipolata either.xxx"

i have all kinds of images now going thro my head as to why being a chef means your good with your tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im really not one for banging away for hours

When i have a good session i like 90% forplay 10% shag and even in that 10% i like to stop a couple of times and go back to oral

Any guy who wants longer at shagging than that best be bloody good at variety

or i get bored easy"

Spot on Its always good to go back to oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no its no good i have to ask

how do you beat your eggs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no its no good i have to ask

how do you beat your eggs? "

The same way he tenderises his meat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more of a foreplay guy .... Think that's from being a kid and always thought I was a bad shag but great with my tongue "

I do hope you mean young adult

Im very much a foreplay kinda girl it all builds up to an amazing outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mix n match it

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I like a good long hot play first.

A rampant quicky can be nice on occasion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a good long hot play first.

A rampant quicky can be nice on occasion though."

bend over while my game loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay then Pentration

Foreplay then Pentration

Foreplay then Pentration

Tea break

Foreplay then Pentration

Foreplay then Pentration

Foreplay then Pentration

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I like both, but if I could only choose one it would be foreplay all the way

Hours pounding away just gets tiring! Unless we break for more foreplay.

However there are occasions when a quick bend over, let's be having you just hits the spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love foreplay. Always have. Its great to switch around so I can either tease or sometimes if I'm lucky, get the girl to cum over my mouth. Yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont want foreplay.. I want to get straight to it..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's like jelly and icecream or cheese and crackers, you just cant have one without the other, i have to have both!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love fore play being a chef means i am good with my tongue and fingers and not bad with my chipolata either.xxx

i have all kinds of images now going thro my head as to why being a chef means your good with your tongue "
Chefs always need to taste mmmmmmm.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to mix it around a lot, gets boring if it's just kiss, i go down on him, he goes down on me, shag.

But as far as ratios go, 90% foreplay to 10% shag is about right - once we're going for it I like a fairly quick cum.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Lots of foreplay for me. Ideally beginning a day or two before with sexy texts and messages

The 90/10% mix is good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the word fore play...prefer to think of it as fore, during and after play...good sex is not linear...it's more enjoyable with a whole cornucopia of activity not limited by a timeline...

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I don't like the word fore play...prefer to think of it as fore, during and after play...good sex is not linear...it's more enjoyable with a whole cornucopia of activity not limited by a timeline..."

Good point.

Good job I'm a timetraveller then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

based on Monday night I can recomend the following recipie;

Talk (couple of days is fine for this)

Flirt in a local establishment (1 hour)

Drive home touching legs and 'things' (15 mins)

Kiss. Long wet ones, but go easy on the tongue play for now. (5-10 mins)

Foreplay. I get my cock sucked (45 seconds)... (room for improovement here)

Foreplay. I entertain the lady (15 mins)

Walk up stairs, blindfold and tie hands to bed (2 mins)

Foreplay. I entertain the lady and am thankful for the rubber sheet (15 mins)

‘Penetration’ (15 mins or until creamy)

Release victim, sorry partner

Kiss (long wet ones, tongue play acceptable now), hold, gently rub and lick for a further 10 mins

Wanton ‘Penetration’ (time undisclosed) …. sigh and breathe

Eat and drink (15 mins)

Drive her home (20 mins)

Hot chocolate, good book and bed (30 mins)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a lot of foreplay love to be kissing and licking all over then some penetration and back to playing it makes it far more enjoyable to see a lady pleasured that way mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a starter main course and desert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"based on Monday night I can recomend the following recipie;

Talk (couple of days is fine for this)

Flirt in a local establishment (1 hour)

Drive home touching legs and 'things' (15 mins)

Kiss. Long wet ones, but go easy on the tongue play for now. (5-10 mins)

Foreplay. I get my cock sucked (45 seconds)... (room for improovement here)

Foreplay. I entertain the lady (15 mins)

Walk up stairs, blindfold and tie hands to bed (2 mins)

Foreplay. I entertain the lady and am thankful for the rubber sheet (15 mins)

‘Penetration’ (15 mins or until creamy)

Release victim, sorry partner

Kiss (long wet ones, tongue play acceptable now), hold, gently rub and lick for a further 10 mins

Wanton ‘Penetration’ (time undisclosed) …. sigh and breathe

Eat and drink (15 mins)

Drive her home (20 mins)

Hot chocolate, good book and bed (30 mins) "

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh but I love sucking cock. I've had oral for up to an hour at a time and given for extended periods too. Losing yourself in oral sex is divine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh, lots of foreplay.

Starting with kissing and slowly discovering while undressing her, one button at a time. Lots of touching, kissing and teasing with my tongue, everywhere.

I really enjoy oral but seeing a woman enjoying what I'm doing is a massive turn on for me.

I'm not threatened by toys either, it's all good so long as there's no pain.

Of course, penetration is great too, I love the feeling just as I enter as much as the long strokes.

Then, with a regular partner, I love to go to sleep spooning, holding each other, cuping her breast or resting my hand over her warm pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh but I love sucking cock. I've had oral for up to an hour at a time and given for extended periods too. Losing yourself in oral sex is divine "

Yes, yes, you are sooooooooooo right! It is such a wonderful build up to the love making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh but I love sucking cock. I've had oral for up to an hour at a time and given for extended periods too. Losing yourself in oral sex is divine "

I forgot to add, you are my kind of lady!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I normally start with my 'Funky's naked dance of love®' to the theme tune of Tales of the Unexpected. That usually gets them in the mood. Then I like to talk about myself for a few hours, then I hit that shit yo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh but I love sucking cock. I've had oral for up to an hour at a time and given for extended periods too. Losing yourself in oral sex is divine "

Beats my 45secs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of sounding like a 'Top Tip' out of Viz comic - For those who, like us, can't make up their minds one way or the other, could we suggest a threesome?

Foreplay and penetration simultaneously.

Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the word fore play...prefer to think of it as fore, during and after play...good sex is not linear...it's more enjoyable with a whole cornucopia of activity not limited by a timeline..."

Spot on!

Formulaic A to B to C sex is not for us - we much prefer variety. However in answer to the OP's question, I'd say that plenty of play (fore or otherwise) is a necessity. Lots of teasing,oral and stimulation!

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you

does this heat make you change your % of foreplay Vs Shagging .... its far to hot for all that hard banging -) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This heat makes me extra horny, it's never to hot for a good banging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find sex without penetration no point... Don't really do much foreplay with meets except those I am comfortable with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more of a foreplay guy .... Think that's from being a kid and always thought I was a bad shag but great with my tongue "

foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the risk of sounding like a 'Top Tip' out of Viz comic - For those who, like us, can't make up their minds one way or the other, could we suggest a threesome?

Foreplay and penetration simultaneously.

Problem solved.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both I greedy poppyxc

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I love foreplay to heat the pan so to speak but if it went on for hours I'd be bored and frustrated cos there comes a point when I really need to feel a cock in me, so in an hour session let's say I'd opt for 15 mins foreplay and 45 mins shagging in various positions with lots of snogging, touching etc going on at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't have one without the other in my book and why shouldn't you have both, LOTS of both lol

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By *arks38Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"This heat makes me extra horny, it's never to hot for a good banging "
fancy meeting up i agree 300 percent lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of fore play then some fore play then penetration love to tease my woman first

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't understand the choice. It's both for me - or forget it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the choice. It's both for me - or forget it!"

geezalick

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By *anyoufeelme OP   Man
over a year ago

near you

I understand there has to be a degree of both however the original context of the post was around how comfortable are people at each stage ... I've found several woman who would be happy to have foreplay all night and not feel the end for penetration ....

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