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By *esi_maverick OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Hi guys I was wondering if y’all were able to give me some feedback….

Although some of my pics are public but would anyone block when I question people’s preferences

I just got called out by a couple whom thought I was trying to see if they were racist even though all I asked if they had any preferences for my lond

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Hi guys I was wondering if y’all were able to give me some feedback….

Although some of my pics are public but would anyone block when I question people’s preferences

I just got called out by a couple whom thought I was trying to see if they were racist even though all I asked if they had any preferences for my lond"

Do you mean that they state their preferences in their profile and you’re questioning why they have those preferences? Or do you mean that they don’t state whether or not they have any preferences and you’re asking them if they do?

Because they’re 2 completely different things.

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By *esi_maverick OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

No preferences are being mentioned on their profiles!!!!

So I thought I’d ask whether they had any interest….

The reaction I back was unbelievable

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"No preferences are being mentioned on their profiles!!!!

So I thought I’d ask whether they had any interest….

The reaction I back was unbelievable "

Why did you ask them if they have any preferences? Do you ask everyone you talk to if they have any preferences?

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"No preferences are being mentioned on their profiles!!!!

So I thought I’d ask whether they had any interest….

The reaction I back was unbelievable "

Interests or preferences?

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By *esi_maverick OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

The reason why I ask is because a lot people here state that they won’t meet with a particular race!!!!£

So to save time bouncing messages back and forth till they find out who you are I like to ask the question first!!!!!

If the response is positive then the conversation can continue

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"The reason why I ask is because a lot people here state that they won’t meet with a particular race!!!!£

So to save time bouncing messages back and forth till they find out who you are I like to ask the question first!!!!!

If the response is positive then the conversation can continue "

If they’re chatting with you then they’re more than likely to be interested in you, if they’re not interested they’d probably wouldn’t reply or would replace to say they’re not interested. Why don’t you just assume that anyone who chats with you and doesn’t specifically say they’re not interested, is interested?

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By *esi_maverick OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

That’s the thing we exchanged many messages then all of a sudden I’m blocked

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"That’s the thing we exchanged many messages then all of a sudden I’m blocked "

So you exchanged many messages with them and then asked them if they have any preferences regarding race?

Why did you need to ask them that? It’s clear from your profile what race you are so if they weren’t interested then they wouldn’t have exchanged many messages with you.

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By *esi_maverick OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Appreciate your response however I am not able to control people here

If they choose to block that’s their choice

It hasn’t hurt my feelings I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can see you in your pictures. You don't need to ask if they have preferences for particular races. They'll either not reply, say 'No thanks' or carry on chatting.

If they carry on chatting they will have no issue.

They may block you if you say something that is a red flag for them. People have very different red flags. What is a turn on for one person is a red flag for another.

You just have to persevere.

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By *andS1Couple
over a year ago

Poole

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I’ve never asked anyone if they have a preference regarding race, if their profile doesn’t specifically say they’re not interested in white men and if we’ve exchanged many messages, I’d be 99.9% sure that me being white isn’t an issue for them. Why should it be different for any other race?

I appreciate that there are probably more people who won’t be interested in OP because of his race than won’t be interested in me because of my race but that doesn’t mean OP needs to ask everyone he talks to what their preferences are, I’m sure he can make the same assumptions as I do when he’s exchanged many messages with someone.

If I had been chatting with someone of any race and exchanged many messages and then they ask me if I have any preferences regarding race I’d think it was a bit of a strange question to ask at that stage to be honest.

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