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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? " Your profile only has 2 public pics of a female, and your looking for couples. Could you not answer this yourself? | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? " Without sounding like I’m taking the pee… You have two public pictures and both are the fem. Your profile picture is the fem! Historically if I post a picture and mark posts a picture over a month my picture gets 250 likes often more he picture might get 1! He isn’t super body positive and everyone seems to care about the female more than the guy… | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? Without sounding like I’m taking the pee… You have two public pictures and both are the fem. Your profile picture is the fem! Historically if I post a picture and mark posts a picture over a month my picture gets 250 likes often more he picture might get 1! He isn’t super body positive and everyone seems to care about the female more than the guy…" The op does say they send clear pictures privately. Are profile pictures about getting fabs rather than attracting who you want to meet? | |||
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"The simple 'honest' answer is that it's their profile and they can show whatever pictures they like within Fab rules. It's none of anybody else's business and they don't have to give a reason or explain themselves. If you don't like the way they use their profile then they are not for you so just move on to another. " Exactly this | |||
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"We are mainly seeking men as hubby only plays with me so don’t see the need to put his pics up. Webe do have some in our friends only pics. Everyone has their own reasons on how they have their profile if you don’t like it then just move on. " That's fair enough, but would you message couples who are listed for full swop...then not send pics of hubby | |||
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"We've loads on our friends album and always send via DM. My post isn't about public photos on accounts, it's about having photos on full stop. " We have pics of both of us and then face pics in our friends section | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? Without sounding like I’m taking the pee… You have two public pictures and both are the fem. Your profile picture is the fem! Historically if I post a picture and mark posts a picture over a month my picture gets 250 likes often more he picture might get 1! He isn’t super body positive and everyone seems to care about the female more than the guy…" Absolutely the same with us. We have 3 male pics and 18 female pics. Female pics get lots more attention. Don’t know if we’ve ever noticed a couple fab one of our male pics (attention seeking comment , lol ) | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? " Am I missing something here, or is it meant in irony? You’re posting as a couple, querying why couple’s profiles have just images of the F and yet lo and behold your profile is the same. As is ours… I think each person/couple has their own unique reasons which we should respect even if we don’t agree with them. For us, Mr has very identifiable tattoos and quite a public personal life which although being on here isn’t illegal or career damaging, he wishes public and private to be kept completely separate. We do share pics - including face pics - of us both with couples/women who we trust (or who are far away) but having our images accessible for all is something we wouldn’t be comfortable with, especially when we have been identified a couple of times with the handful of blurred ones we have. Good luck. X | |||
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"We are mainly seeking men as hubby only plays with me so don’t see the need to put his pics up. Webe do have some in our friends only pics. Everyone has their own reasons on how they have their profile if you don’t like it then just move on. That's fair enough, but would you message couples who are listed for full swop...then not send pics of hubby " No because we are not looking for that | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? Am I missing something here, or is it meant in irony? You’re posting as a couple, querying why couple’s profiles have just images of the F and yet lo and behold your profile is the same. As is ours… I think each person/couple has their own unique reasons which we should respect even if we don’t agree with them. For us, Mr has very identifiable tattoos and quite a public personal life which although being on here isn’t illegal or career damaging, he wishes public and private to be kept completely separate. We do share pics - including face pics - of us both with couples/women who we trust (or who are far away) but having our images accessible for all is something we wouldn’t be comfortable with, especially when we have been identified a couple of times with the handful of blurred ones we have. Good luck. X" As I've already said...I'm not talking about photos all splashed in public. We personally understand the need for privacy due to work etc. I'm talking about the whole account in general...loads of the female in friends albums, but little of the male if anything...and not sending photos of the male via dm despite wanting full swop. Am I expected to go shag a random I've never seen? And if it's for privacy issues, why is it OK for the female to be shown and not the male. You've taken the time to look at our account, so you can see we've loads of photos on our friends...which is a good mixture of both of us, so people know what they're getting. | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? " Agreed… to me it gives the impression it’s all about the lady even though it’s maybe not, then the same people complain when they only get single guys chasing the lady. | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? Agreed… to me it gives the impression it’s all about the lady even though it’s maybe not, then the same people complain when they only get single guys chasing the lady. " THIS!! | |||
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"The simple 'honest' answer is that it's their profile and they can show whatever pictures they like within Fab rules. It's none of anybody else's business and they don't have to give a reason or explain themselves. If you don't like the way they use their profile then they are not for you so just move on to another. " | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? Agreed… to me it gives the impression it’s all about the lady even though it’s maybe not, then the same people complain when they only get single guys chasing the lady. " Exactly | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? Am I missing something here, or is it meant in irony? You’re posting as a couple, querying why couple’s profiles have just images of the F and yet lo and behold your profile is the same. As is ours… I think each person/couple has their own unique reasons which we should respect even if we don’t agree with them. For us, Mr has very identifiable tattoos and quite a public personal life which although being on here isn’t illegal or career damaging, he wishes public and private to be kept completely separate. We do share pics - including face pics - of us both with couples/women who we trust (or who are far away) but having our images accessible for all is something we wouldn’t be comfortable with, especially when we have been identified a couple of times with the handful of blurred ones we have. Good luck. X As I've already said...I'm not talking about photos all splashed in public. We personally understand the need for privacy due to work etc. I'm talking about the whole account in general...loads of the female in friends albums, but little of the male if anything...and not sending photos of the male via dm despite wanting full swop. Am I expected to go shag a random I've never seen? And if it's for privacy issues, why is it OK for the female to be shown and not the male. You've taken the time to look at our account, so you can see we've loads of photos on our friends...which is a good mixture of both of us, so people know what they're getting." It's entirely up to you how you run your account, but if the only way people can get to see both of you is to become friends then it's just as bad - who wants hundreds of random 'friends'. As I said before, just leave people to run their own profile as they choose. | |||
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"We have photos of both. Over our time on fab we've found through experience that reluctance to show photos of the man = reluctance on his part to be involved with the woman in the other couple. If we don't get to see a clear picture of the guy in a first message we don't take things any further. " That's a really good rule of thumb guys! X | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. its usually Guys posting pics of their wives ... As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? " | |||
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"We try have a good mix of us both however more often than not I will take pictures of myself or he will.. He's not up for posing often haha so we end up with more of me. " Likewise we try to have mix of both of us, Fab pics btw. x | |||
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"But also whats to say when there's a couple profile and there's pictures of a woman but it's actually a guy that controls it. Believe me it's happened " If the woman is the sub and they are meeting men, why would it be any different? That’s exactly what we do. | |||
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"But also whats to say when there's a couple profile and there's pictures of a woman but it's actually a guy that controls it. Believe me it's happened If the woman is the sub and they are meeting men, why would it be any different? That’s exactly what we do." well not when a man asking me to tribute his wife pictures for his personal kink which I don't do | |||
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"There's more choice of lingerie and posing for photos for woman than the men ...i mean can you imagine the men doing the same poses that woman do lol" Yes but there a lot of possibilities if put a bit of effort in, which most don't. | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? " Think it’s men who tend to take the pics as women’s bodies are nicer to look at. | |||
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"What's the crack with couples accounts only having photos of the woman, or just the woman and photos of his junk/body or non at all? We find they don't even have them in their private albums, and many a time sending DM's they only send a pic of the woman. As a straight woman who needs attraction and chemistry to play, photos of the male are vital. Whenever anybody DM's us, I always send full face and body photos of us both as I wouldn't expect anybody to consider playing with us without attraction to us too. Can anyone who has their account like this shed some light? " Exactly | |||
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"We have 3 male pics and 15 female pics so it’s imbalanced. Should we reduce the number of female pics or increase the male pics. First world problems " Personally don't see that as a problem as long as the male pics are good face and full body shots...clothed or unclothed, doesn't matter as long as potential play friends can see what we're getting | |||
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"Hidden atm as too much going on to meet.. But exactly we're not far from 50/50 on our shot's and frankly when we're messaged from female only 'couples' profiles we tend to pass why should Y be interested in an enigma? When we have interacted with some, we've had the excuses "Mr doesn't like to show his face" etc and the funniest was a couple shot with his head cut out.. " Not had a head chopped off yet...but we did get someone message other day, sent our photos. They sent us some back...both wearing sunglasses and the photo was taken at a distance with the reply they wanted to play...jog on champs lol | |||
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