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How often do women meet for nsa

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By *yrone69x OP   Man
over a year ago

carnforth

Wanting to meet women for nsa but hard to get a real connection

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Keep doing what you’re doing. Things will soon change. Good luck

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By *oaming doggerMan
over a year ago

flintshire but visiting guildford

I would assume they meet as and when they find someone they attractive and they are in the mood

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm sure there are loads that do...keep plodding along and I'm sure you'll find them.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Wanting to meet women for nsa but hard to get a real connection "

I can't comment on your profile as you have not asked for advice. But I can say one thing- you are going to really struggle to find anyone.

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By *yrone69x OP   Man
over a year ago

carnforth

Yeah had video calls n that but some very strange ones in this haha thanks

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By *yrone69x OP   Man
over a year ago

carnforth

Yeah my profile is dark defo doesn’t help but iv got no problem video calling that’s happend good few times.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Silhouette, no pictures and 5 words in your bio.

Nobody will form a connection because nobody knows anything about you.

After a year, just add something.

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By *yrone69x OP   Man
over a year ago

carnforth

I no but not really thinking to put all kinds on even tho that’s what it’s about. I don’t struggle anyway but but if a fantasy meeting someone on this haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been a single woman on here, and I wouldn’t have met someone with a blank profile picture.

Mrs

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By *yrone69x OP   Man
over a year ago

carnforth

I do get that but talking in fne etc video call is the best way?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I wouldn’t ever video call with someone I didn’t know really well and trusted. Would just be weird.

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By *yrone69x OP   Man
over a year ago

carnforth

Got to start somewhere never straight into video calls tho that is weird haha

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It will be hard to get any connection op as people have absolutely nothing to go on with you.

You have no pics and not much text,most people won't spend loads of time talking to a shadow when there are lots of detailed profiles with good pics on.Theyd be more likely to chat to them & meet them when they want to.

It's obviously your choice how you run your profile ,but you are massively reducing the amount of people who will respond to you.

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Plus many of us don't want to video call op,well I wouldn't .

I'd prefer to chat ,exchange pics if we click then have a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get that but talking in fne etc video call is the best way?"

If you're hoping to meet a single fem, your message will be one of probably 50ish messages she gets every day!

A silhouette and simple message wouldn't even get me to bother checking your profile, let alone engaging with you for a vid chat!

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

Girls here will easily get 100 plus messages per day.

So ofcourse folk meet but jeez theres a lot of options!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting to meet women for nsa but hard to get a real connection "

Very much depends...in the right scenario with the right people, Mr and I would meet seperately- but only if we were both happy with the arrangement. Things we look for in potential FWBs are some decent pics on a profile, good bio, interesting chat that flows well, and then a connection when we meet. We aren't regularly meeting other people on our own, just depends on how we feel

Mrs

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It will be hard to get any connection op as people have absolutely nothing to go on with you.

You have no pics and not much text,most people won't spend loads of time talking to a shadow when there are lots of detailed profiles with good pics on.Theyd be more likely to chat to them & meet them when they want to.

It's obviously your choice how you run your profile ,but you are massively reducing the amount of people who will respond to you.

Miss"

I have found Having a detailed profile and a good selection of face and body pics hasn't helped what so ever. I'm having the same luck as the Silhouette profiles - ZERO/NONE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To summarise, OP wants to keep his profile blank but video call, and the helpful people on here have given advice that the OP doesn't want.

When asking for advice, be open to advice.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Wanting to meet women for nsa but hard to get a real connection "

No pics, cannot accom or travel. Limited bio. Sorry id just pass it by.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i open the profile before i open the message ...a zero profile with no write up n pic will 100% get the profile blocked and the message thats unread deleted ... ill concentrate on those who put the effort in and im sexually attracted to no time to waste time is fun not chasing ghost...

also theirs alot of us who only use fab ie no apps no cams no emails no phones we do this for a reason and it works well

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east


"Silhouette, no pictures and 5 words in your bio.

Nobody will form a connection because nobody knows anything about you.

After a year, just add something."

I never reply to simple profiles. You can tell alot about someone from what they did or didn't do. Or how they initially speak to you on fab.

Remember us ladies get 100s of messages. You need to stand out from the crowd or just be the person they are looking for

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east


"It will be hard to get any connection op as people have absolutely nothing to go on with you.

You have no pics and not much text,most people won't spend loads of time talking to a shadow when there are lots of detailed profiles with good pics on.Theyd be more likely to chat to them & meet them when they want to.

It's obviously your choice how you run your profile ,but you are massively reducing the amount of people who will respond to you.

Miss

I have found Having a detailed profile and a good selection of face and body pics hasn't helped what so ever. I'm having the same luck as the Silhouette profiles - ZERO/NONE. "

You just haven't found the woman that wants to meet you based on your profile. I'm sure someone will be interested in you. Just need to stay realistic and remember not everyone wants you. I get 100s messages but only less 1% of them I actually would like to meet. I'm sure most women on fab are similar to me. We want a good time with the right person. There's far too many timewasters here so sound genuine to meet.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I imagine quite often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet the people that I find attractive and engaging. I need some conversation and effort.

I don't video call unless know them well and even then I don't really like it much.

A bio, pics are what will attract me initially then it's their mind that will keep me interested.

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