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Is Fab just an attention seeking, look at me tool rather than a meeting place?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know guys can get an absolute slatting on here and a lot of the time there’s good reason, but there seems to be a growing trend of single fems on here that are either attention seekers, time wasters, men pretending to be women and so on and so on.

Can anyone else relate with this or is it just me? Im the fem of a couple posting here and it really is one of my bug bears. Since when did Fab become an attention seeking get me on hot pics website rather than a meeting site?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I suppose any web site like this will become what its members want it to be.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People use the site for all-sorts of reasons ,some to meet,others to use the forums or keep in touch with friends.

Yes some do love the attention too

As long as people are upfront and don't mislead others I don't think there's any issue.

If they string people along ,that's a different thing and isn't fair.

We're not meeting as my partner has some health issues just now ,but we will like to use fab and make possible future connections.

Miss

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

You get all sorts on here. Live and let live I say. After a little while you can see who's who and just block/avoid those that aren't what your looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is looking for something different. There are quite a few that don't actually meet. I guess the issue is when people aren't honest about their intentions.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

What about them makes them time wasters or attention seekers?

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France


"I know guys can get an absolute slatting on here and a lot of the time there’s good reason, but there seems to be a growing trend of single fems on here that are either attention seekers, time wasters, men pretending to be women and so on and so on.

Can anyone else relate with this or is it just me? Im the fem of a couple posting here and it really is one of my bug bears. Since when did Fab become an attention seeking get me on hot pics website rather than a meeting site?

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Wow OP, I've had the same feelings myself for a while, and although There are genuine ladies in here that really do want to meet, I have to say there are plenty that use this site as just a popularity competition. But I'm sure there are quite a few men on hear that do them same!

Im sure I'm going to get a bashing for this now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Is Fab just an attention seeking, look at me tool rather than a meeting place?”

Not at all. Now check out my profile lol

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By *lsiePTV/TS
over a year ago

Gateshead

I think it's difficult to meet expectations on here. Like, single women get a lot of stick for attention seeking and not wanting to meet but how many messages are they getting in a day? How much energy do they have to wade through that, and how do they feel when they're done?

Men get stick for not putting effort into messages but what can you expect when it starts to feel like a numbers game? It must be difficult feeling like you have one message to impress somebody who might not even read it. Normal conversation doesn't work like that.

For what Fabswingers is as a result I don't know, but it's clearly not serving the purpose a lot of its users want it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we’re all on here for different things, but I do understand what you mean and sometimes it does get to me. I often take a day or two off just to recharge my batteries to deal with it again. Also annoys me people advertising a certain site

Mrs

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think everyone who posts pictures on fab attention seeks in one way or another.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it’s how you choose it to be….. each to their own and all that

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

No different to seeing that sexy girl on the railway platform, only she walks by and catches your eye without saying a word. What's the difference? Expect to see more showing off on a website specifically created for sexual adventure *shrugs*

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

“Fab my latest pic”

“Get me to page 1”

Sigh…

Yes there is a lot of that going on.. there’s always been a whole metric fuck ton of catfishing on this site too but dig through the dirt and there are some real diamonds hidden in there..

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