FabSwingers.com forum: So how many of you lot are on a regular dating site like POF

By *eartsman OP Man
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Come on who's willing to to tell they are a regular dating site .

I'll start. Yes I am .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not. On fab, there's no delusion , you know exactly what you are getting. Keep your expectations low and anything else is a bonus!

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By *eartsman OP Man
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

"No I'm not. On fab, there's no delusion , you know exactly what you are getting. Keep your expectations low and anything else is a bonus!

Yes I totally agree,

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Come on who's willing to to tell they are a regular dating site .

I'll start. Yes I am .

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nope... never have I ever been either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on Tinder and Bumble, I've not long moved to Glasgow, somewhere I don't actually know anyone.

So I have low expectations from all 3 with regards to making a FWB, but even if I make one or two normal friends to socialise with then I'm happy.

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By *eartsman OP Man
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

"I'm on Tinder and Bumble, I've not long moved to Glasgow, somewhere I don't actually know anyone.

So I have low expectations from all 3 with regards to making a FWB, but even if I make one or two normal friends to socialise with then I'm happy. "

Do you find you're having more success on the other dating sites then Fabs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on who's willing to to tell they are a regular dating site .

I'll start. Yes I am .

So are you upfront about being on here with those you speak to on dating sites out of interest?

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
over a year ago

york

I'm on tinder and feeld, both are a bit of a pain in the arse to be honest.

At least here were upfront

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

No not me. I dont want anyone to date.

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By *eartsman OP Man
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

"Come on who's willing to to tell they are a regular dating site .

I'll start. Yes I am .

So are you upfront about being on here with those you speak to on dating sites out of interest?"

Yes 100%. I've found in the past that there's a few of us on other dating sites as well as fabs, sometimes it's a bonus, other times it scares people off.. not sure why but hey each to their own. I believe in being up front and honest with people from the start . It's always stood me in good stead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm good here, I'm not looking for anything other than what fab can give me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm too old for dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use dating sites but specifically for dating. Seems a sad state of affairs atm that all people have to offer is penis. Least on here theres no delusions about it. I can engage or not as the mood takes.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

No just here. I don’t want anything more so wouldn’t be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We where . But it was a tad bit deceptive from our end . Few dates each a little dabbling lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No just here

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I have in the past and met someone on pof and we dated for 18mths. That was about 7yrs ago.

Haven't really used them since and i wouldn't use them again.

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By *eartsman OP Man
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

"I use dating sites but specifically for dating. Seems a sad state of affairs atm that all people have to offer is penis. Least on here theres no delusions about it. I can engage or not as the mood takes. "

Couldn't agree more, I find dating sites have become a lot like fabs,

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

On tinder for a few months and actually having meets there. Found it better than fab now.

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

I had account years ago. Found Fab. Happy here you know what you getting into.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Don’t use dating sites as we aren’t here to date - do not want to set the wrong expectations

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I am not on a dating site as the reason I am on fab is that I don't want a relationship.

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm on POF and Fet and have been on Tinder.

POF and Tinder are fine.

Fet is fine for workshops and events but I've had no play.

Everyone seems paranoid about who "the bogeyman amongst us is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife was on Gleeden which was a surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on Tinder and Bumble, I've not long moved to Glasgow, somewhere I don't actually know anyone.

So I have low expectations from all 3 with regards to making a FWB, but even if I make one or two normal friends to socialise with then I'm happy.

Do you find you're having more success on the other dating sites then Fabs? "

No not really but wasn't really expecting to, not a lot of women on there that are my type. Chatted to a few but that's it. To be honest I'm not mentally prepared for dating just yet so not trying that hard.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Not a chance, vanilla dating is just rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've joined Tinder this week, haven't got high hopes for it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was I found most of the same people on there were on here. When they sent their face pics on here they were usually surprised when I said it was the same one they sent on the dating site lol. Funny how on a dating site they want someone to watch the stars with, a gsoh, a soul mate etc etc but their profile on here says anal, group sex and watersports lol

Mrs Y

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at the moment.

Not pretty enough for Tinder, too lazy for bumble.

Having more fun here

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

On Feeld but that’s kind of been a dead end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just on here but speaking to a friend of mine.. he said that he has had plenty of fun on Bumble for nsa fun .. maybe I'll give it a try lol

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"When I was I found most of the same people on there were on here. When they sent their face pics on here they were usually surprised when I said it was the same one they sent on the dating site lol. Funny how on a dating site they want someone to watch the stars with, a gsoh, a soul mate etc etc but their profile on here says anal, group sex and watersports lol

Mrs Y"

Yes, that surprises me too.

You expect them to be on POF seeking casual dating, but no, they're always seeking a long term relationship!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I used to use POF abit pre covid .. I found it much better to meet up with women for casual sex meets there than here ....

Just lots of idiots on there like on fab and its a time sink of chewing through dumb cunt profiles ultimately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder and Facebook dating.

I have to say Facebook has been the best for NSA and it's usually girls texting first

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Just Hinge as I am actually planning to settle down in a serious relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on all of them lol. I'm solo poly and pretty open about it. Have several fwb and part time relationships. I get no luck on FAB though

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By *ooleyMan
over a year ago

preston

"Tinder and Facebook dating.

I have to say Facebook has been the best for NSA and it's usually girls texting first"

Yeah? Looks like I might have to reactivate my The Facebook account.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I used to be but not anymore.

I’m not looking for relationship and also undateable, I’ll stick to Fab.

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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago

London

I’m on bumble which does yield results. Met some nice women on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder and Facebook dating.

I have to say Facebook has been the best for NSA and it's usually girls texting first

Yeah? Looks like I might have to reactivate my The Facebook account."

Facebook dating now is as good as POF used to be.. if a girl messages you first you know it's game time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only on here. It just feels more honest. I don't want a relationship, so don't see the point of going on dating sites!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I use Fab, and one other app for meeting likeminded people.

I'm on Fet, but never met anyone through it. There's some incredibly sexy women in Antarctica in there though.....

Never used any of the well known dating apps

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, I gave up with them... Really hard to get anyone to actually meet rather than just chat. Even still just for coffee! Rather than an actual date date. And most of them are on here anyways.

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

My experience. Far more sex and fum from tinder and pof than here. Often girls will have profiles on all three. I fucked girl on pof. Then was messaging her on here not realising it was the same person.

"You fucked me earlier" came the response lol

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Me. I’m honest with people about what I’m looking for.

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By *itnakedladMan
over a year ago

London Bridge

Got banned from tinder 5 years ago for flashing my ass

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

Nope ,ive never been interested, at least on here theres no pretence

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By *oupot56Man
over a year ago

Ruislip

I was but gave up

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Personally I still find chatting up a woman in the real world is by far the most effective way to meet.

That said, I have had a few great experiences from unlikely and (I assume) little known sites that aren't necessarily FWB/ONS territory...

1 LetsMeetUp

I don't know if the site changed over the last 6 months, or whether they give certain leeway to new accounts and then close off the freedoms over time to encourage pay. But it is a credit based system and it did become apparent that its the usual fake accounts encouraging you to buy credits/subscribe.

But without once paying a single thing, I had three really great IRL experiences through LetsMeetUp at a point where it wasn't all bots and everything was locked behind paywalls. It just required two people swiftly agreeing to move on to KiK almost instantly.

2. Can't remember the name but might be "Freedating". Seems to be mostly populated by women who want romantic walks, a dependable companion and a life of happiness in a cottage with a spaniel named Mr Fluffywuffle. However, it is free to you use with no restrictions and I found a few lusty carnage seekers there over the years. But you have to be careful you don't accidentally get married to a fairytale princess who has never even seen her own vagina, and refers to it awkwardly as "down there".

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

I am but i’d much rather find someone on here so i know we have something big in common ie swinging

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

I've accounts on Tinder, Badoo and Feeld. 4 dates in 4.5 years shows how not successful I've been...

I do find dating has changed massively these days though, back in 2014 I could line up a couple of dates a week if I fancied... now, well different story. It seems 'Long Term' according to men these days is a hook up. At least here on Fab, we know that's what we're here for and there's no deception.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Regular dating sites are garbage, looking for a regular partner who can accept that you swing, from a vanilla background?

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By *ubyMoonWoman
over a year ago

Newport, Isle of Wight

Nope, but I'm not interested in romance, so places like fab are a no-brainer to me.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

No, I am actively avoiding a commited relationship of any kind

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By *ittycock400Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We met on a dating site but don't bother with them anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on POF intermittently (usually when super SUPER bored - POF is fab-lite. The crossover of members is astounding

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

What does Feeld count as?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I’m on POF intermittently (usually when super SUPER bored - POF is fab-lite. The crossover of members is astounding "

So was FB dating while I was on there back in the days, surprisingly (or not).

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I am but not for swinging.

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

No, we're in a full time relationship.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

No I'm not looking for a relationship though, fab is the only site I'm on.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Apparently the fanny supply is neverending on those apps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m on POF intermittently (usually when super SUPER bored - POF is fab-lite. The crossover of members is astounding

So was FB dating while I was on there back in the days, surprisingly (or not)."
FB dating

I’m only recently aware they did dating - was it as ‘scary’ as I imagine it to be? Full of friends of friends trying it on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not since I came back to fab, @10 years now. That said, I met my only two fwb through a dating site, zilch through fab. I stay for the forums..

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I’m on POF intermittently (usually when super SUPER bored - POF is fab-lite. The crossover of members is astounding

So was FB dating while I was on there back in the days, surprisingly (or not). FB dating

I’m only recently aware they did dating - was it as ‘scary’ as I imagine it to be? Full of friends of friends trying it on?"

It was shit. Men pretending they are looking for relationships when all they were looking for was a quick shag. When I joined Fab, I found 99% of them on here as well. It was scary because you put your face pictures on FB for everyone to see so easy recognisable if you’re not being careful.

I think there was an option to hide yourself from your friends/friends of friends but I can’t remember now.

It’s only my experience but maybe it’s different for different people.

One of my friends found a really nice guy on there and they are getting married this Christmas.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I originally did every dating so it under the sun many years ago. And spending a year I gave up because I was not getting any matches.

I have recently joined Tndr last month but I am not holding out, for a better outcome. If it works. It works if it diesnt then it twas fun trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non as of yet … maybe I might switch though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join Tinder recently as an alternative to fab.. conversation strike rate far better on tinder .. although I am yet to meet anyone off tinder, probably wont either as I dont think this swiping left or right is really my thing.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have tried many dating sites over the years. For the most part the men are looking for great sex, not a relationship necessarily. Ironically so are the majority of women.

On fab we’re at least honest about our initial want.

I cannot be bothered with online dating, so I shall just stick to here and real life. The two places I have the most succes!

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I use tinder too and have had some positive results. Not sure either are going to be used for much longer though x

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Occasionally tinder

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yup I am

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

I’m on there without actually being on there !

Someone is using my pics by all accounts

Miss Pink

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a profile on Tinder that I never use.

Occasionally I will look and see if anyone catches my eye.

But it's something I do out of depression and desperation and I never walk away from it feeling hopeful and happy.

It's just not for me

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

My experience was alaways that it is a lot easier to have meets and fun via dating sites.

Fab is so full of guys, idiots and timewasters that wading through them is tough.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I'm on here only...

Too dirty for anything else.lol

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

I remember meeting a girl on pof. Not much chat until she invited me to hers to fuck her and go.

Months later in chasing a girl on fab.

She replies. "You fucked me months ago from my pif profile"

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I’m on there without actually being on there !

Someone is using my pics by all accounts

Miss Pink "

Oh good I'm sorry to hear that pink, let's hope that you are able to get them down and this is the only site it is on.

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By *eonieTV/TS
over a year ago

Merseyside

I'm trying to register on POF, but something goes wrong after I enter my interests.

Anyone else having the same problem?

How did you get around it?

They sent me an email saying my registration wasn't complete and they text me a code on the phone when I log in to complete the registration, but again, as I enter the interests or hobbies, something goes haywire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find POF to be the worst of all the dating apps!!

FAR TOO MANY FAKE PROFILES….avoid it and stick to tinder, hinge or bumble!!

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By *kmegoodWoman
over a year ago

bradford/ halifax

I was introduced to fab by a tinder hook up

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

No just fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No just fab

Shame….I’d swipe right on you

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By *lsiePTV/TS
over a year ago

Gateshead

I've tried normal dating sites, and they shred my self esteem to pieces. They're all on this swimp nonsense now. I can't face being sat judging people in quick succession, and knowing people all over are doing the very same to me. I socialise and meet people. I have a much better time in person, where I can be charming and cute and interact properly. Fab is different, because I'm not looking to impress anyone into a date. I use this site to talk to people and make friends, where there are a lot less expectations.

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

yep

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"No I'm not. On fab, there's no delusion , you know exactly what you are getting. Keep your expectations low and anything else is a bonus!

This

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Im on tindr for non ons purposes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too vanilla for us...

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Me but it’s hard as a lot of girls are put off by the swinging although i have a lot more luck on there. Would be perfect to find someone who wants to go along on the journey with me.

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

"No I'm not. On fab, there's no delusion , you know exactly what you are getting. Keep your expectations low and anything else is a bonus!

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this! I don’t like regular dating sites. I always feel like a charlatan that’s going to either hide my pervy side (never gonna happen) or make some kind of confession, that I’m supposed to feel guilty about. Also, never going to happen. I’m sorry but a vanilla sex life means a shallow character to me.

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

"No I'm good here, I'm not looking for anything other than what fab can give me. "
exactly! Also, I love your profile name and a bit jel that I didn’t think of it first.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I have always found PoF to be fruitful.

A high proportion of dates turn out to be a 'hole in one'. Lots of women want no strings dates, a few are looking for marriage but more just want occasional sex.

My main gripe is the geographical ambiguity of London being seen as a local area. As a non paying member I can only send one new opening message per day. When used, that is nearly always wasted on finding out that someone is an impossible journey away. I wish the site would ask members to be more specific with their location. Plenty of Fish started in Vancouver which is much smaller than Greater London.

At least on here distance in local searches is a bit more realistic, give or take bridges and tunnels between Essex and Kent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on who's willing to to tell they are a regular dating site .

I'll start. Yes I am .

I'm on 3 they're useless

Used to get dates just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife is . Just goes on it occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I'm too old for dating sites."

I'm your age and not too old. Trouble is people think age matters and it doesn't. I get more young ladies than my age.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

I am , over the years I have found a cuckold gf and several long term mistresses from dating apps

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Guilty

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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago

cambs/london/Norfolk

Nah have enough trouble trying to sort out meets on fabs plus I'm not looking for another gf (just play partners for us both

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not as not looking for 'vanilla' or regular dates.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Come on who's willing to to tell they are a regular dating site .

I'll start. Yes I am .

Nope as I'm not looking to date

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By *adgetgeek69Man
over a year ago

barnsley

I am but have no luck on either ??

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Muggles and Swingers, imagine going on a successful date and part of the conversation is that you are happy to fuck other people and swap. How many regular people would accept that? Someone setup Fab Dating where existing swingers can couple up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used dating apps in the past and have had relationships from them...but they are awful nowadays!

Loads of fake profiles on Tinder and bumble is just hard work...at least people on here seem more honest about what they want... sometimes haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm on Tinder and Bumble, I've not long moved to Glasgow, somewhere I don't actually know anyone.

So I have low expectations from all 3 with regards to making a FWB, but even if I make one or two normal friends to socialise with then I'm happy. "

That must be so hard to do but you will find friends soon enough. I moved to where I am. No friends here or family.. I drive to my friends houses as too far to walk. Scotland is on my bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. Fab Swingers only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dip in and out of the apps, but the main reason I decided to return to Fab was because everyone I seemed to meet on other sites was also on here. I must be drawn to the Fab type lol

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"On Feeld but that’s kind of been a dead end "

This

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By *ayna20Couple
over a year ago

Kent

As a swinger of 20 years plus dare I say within this question lays some of the downside of fabs now.

Dating is dating

Fabs isn’t a dating site, but since swinging is now so “trendy” the element who use fabs to find an easy fuck dilute the lifestyle!

Yep just an opinion

But true swingers will understand my point and agree

If you’re looking for dates generally then absolutely use the dating apps, I’m not putting them down.

If you’re looking for an easy fuck then there are apps that will help you… and yes you’ll find that here too, but don’t kid yourself into believing by doing so that you’re swinging.

Live long and pineapple (or for the old school - pampas grass)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was on a few dating websites but made it clear what we was looking for. Never really worked out though.

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By *inkycouple692023Couple
over a year ago

doncaster

Met my wife on pof 5 years ago

My best friend soulmate and the love of my life

We were honest with each other from the start and we started swinging a couple of months later

I consider myself a very lucky man

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

She is

He is not

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By *veready69Man
29 weeks ago

PLYMOUTH

To be honest,I get more action out of FB than here. Have tried POF and Feeld with limited success previously too. Some randoms, some old collegues, some old school friends. Take a look at who regularly likes your stuff, you could be missing out!

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By *Cups32Woman
29 weeks ago

Colne

Me! And having no luck... Dating sucks these days.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
29 weeks ago

St Neots

Met mine on regular dating app

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By *rrolloutMan
29 weeks ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I've been on POF and Match.com, and am close to ditching Fab and going back to there - I managed to get far more sex on dating sites than I have on here.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
29 weeks ago

Norwichish

We met on one. (hinge).

Have tried others, only after I met M did I find out that Tinder and PoF were more hookup than dating. Well at least according to her.

Also pretty sure as a bi women she had a sizeable pool to pick from.

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By *ornycougaWoman
29 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Have tried Match and Bumble for dating at times when I think that is what I'm looking for. Just a couple of days on those sites is enough to remind me why I shouldn't bother!

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By *erdyNymph89Woman
29 weeks ago

ELLESMERE PORT

"Come on who's willing to to tell they are a regular dating site .

I'll start. Yes I am .

Yes but only hinge now, been patiently searching for the person to take me off this site for good for about 5 years now.

Love fab and attending clubs while single but this is not my choice of lifestyle - just keeps me sane until I find my one.

Plus I find having this side to me really helps me out the guys on the apps that just want sex - because I have that sorted haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I use to be met some lovely ladies on there am tempted to go back

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By *lackMetalMan
29 weeks ago

Centre

"I've accounts on Tinder, Badoo and Feeld. 4 dates in 4.5 years shows how not successful I've been...

I would have said you were sniping on all platforms but your record is dismal so probably can’t say that.

Yeah, long term is indeed a few hookups now.

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By *hilledguy2020Man
29 weeks ago

Gateshead

Not on any other sites.

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By *octor WhenMan
29 weeks ago

GLASGOW

I tried regular dating, never again. Those normal people are just plain weird!

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