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By *quirtyfun69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

So we regularly have couples and females who add us, but don't message, don't wink don't fab our pictures, it makes us suspicious why you would add someone and not do any of the above, we started messaging them but when no reply or read we unfriend them, I woukd its easier to say no thanks etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably single men wanting access to your friends only pics.

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By *quirtyfun69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"Probably single men wanting access to your friends only pics. "

We thought that dressed us as a couples profile, should we susoectcwe usually block

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I don't add anyone till I've spoken to them for a bit first, the random friend requests just get bulk deleted all they want is to look at your friends only pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this too. Really annoys me!

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By *quirtyfun69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"I don't add anyone till I've spoken to them for a bit first, the random friend requests just get bulk deleted all they want is to look at your friends only pics."

We might have to start doing that thank you

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Probably single men wanting access to your friends only pics. "

Possibly but I’ve had verified women and couples do the same. I state in my profile that if asking or agreeing to be added as a friend I expect some effort at communication otherwise what is the point. I avoid anyone asking for fabs in return for a friend invite as that is just too needy.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I don't add anyone till I've spoken to them for a bit first, the random friend requests just get bulk deleted all they want is to look at your friends only pics."

All of us.

Some do like to chat and keep upto date with what's going on.

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By *quirtyfun69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"I get this too. Really annoys me!"

It's worse when they add you talk and then ignore afterwards unfortunately they get removed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t accept random friend requests, we assume they’re just wanting to look at our friends only pics

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t add any random friends request.. best to get to know someone a bit first .

Normally the random ones are pic collectors

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I get this too. Really annoys me!

It's worse when they add you talk and then ignore afterwards unfortunately they get removed too"

I like to chat to my face friends, but not all if them are good at replying.

My 'sent' messages is a stream of yellow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't add anyone till I've spoken to them for a bit first, the random friend requests just get bulk deleted all they want is to look at your friends only pics."

This

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By *quirtyfun69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"We don’t accept random friend requests, we assume they’re just wanting to look at our friends only pics

Mr"

Probably but don't know why they'd wanna look at our

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to look at your "friends only" pics and videos.

Don’t accept random friends invites and the problem will be solved.

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By *quirtyfun69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"Because they want to look at your "friends only" pics and videos.

Don’t accept random friends invites and the problem will be solved."

Thank you

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

We block most people who send a friends request without speaking first, we have a lot of face pics in ours and sometimes we accept take a look at theirs to find nothing but cock pics then delete and block.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I struggle to understand why folk jump to add/send a request without even getting to know more then see if there is something connection/chemistry leading somewhere

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you have a lot of friends only stuff! If si that'll be why they're adding you. Don't accept their friend request.

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By *ingDing4BelleCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We get this all the time…. It’s frustrating but we won’t add until we’ve chatted a while first

The big one for us is those who chat for a few days and then add us…. Once added they go radio silent it makes absolutely no sense to us at all …. Think we might just start refusing to add people until we have met them …. Seems like the way forward

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I use my friends only list for people I’ve met in person only, otherwise it’s too confusing, there are too many requests to keep up with, it’s easier on me and less of a chore if I only add after meeting in person

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Safely be like a ninja wait until they go offline then quickly add have a peek and block

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By *quirtyfun69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"Do you have a lot of friends only stuff! If si that'll be why they're adding you. Don't accept their friend request."

We do to be fair

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By *quirtyfun69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"Safely be like a ninja wait until they go offline then quickly add have a peek and block "

We have done that lol

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