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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east

Following on from another thread about sti. So many people who message me want oral. But I fear majority of them wouldn't wear protection doing it. No idea what women should wer down there to protect men. So does that completely dampen the fab experience?

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

It's a funny one, because everyone takes it for granted the sex will be covered but oral sex seems to be forgotten about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never even thought about protection for oral tbh

Mr

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By *ral1Man
over a year ago

bracknell

totally agree with what you say. how about cling film?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Oral is the best if you can find the right person

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee


"Never even thought about protection for oral tbh

Mr"

Very few do, including myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving oral so satisfying ??

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east


"Love giving oral so satisfying ?? "

But the implications maybe sti haven't you thought about that?

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east


"Never even thought about protection for oral tbh

Mr

Very few do, including myself"

I never met anyone who thought about it. They just think about penetration and that's because they worry about pregnancy

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The thing for protected oral on ladies is the dental dam.

There's a reason why they aren't popular, may as well just cling film her pussy beforehand. Yuck....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our concerns tbh.

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By *erge3Man
over a year ago

Aspatria

Sucked a bloke who insisted on wearing a condom , not nice , took the fun /rudeness away

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east


"Sucked a bloke who insisted on wearing a condom , not nice , took the fun /rudeness away "

So I'm guessing only other way is getting regularly screened for sti and able to trust that person is clean? Minefield really as oh course oral sex is fun

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east

Tbf i never tried it. Maybe I should, use the flavoured ones to make it slightly more pleasant?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing for protected oral on ladies is the dental dam.

There's a reason why they aren't popular, may as well just cling film her pussy beforehand. Yuck...."

Sounds awful!! I want all the yummy wetness all over my mouth and face, not behind cling film

Mr

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

It's a bit of a mouthful.

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east


"The thing for protected oral on ladies is the dental dam.

There's a reason why they aren't popular, may as well just cling film her pussy beforehand. Yuck....

Sounds awful!! I want all the yummy wetness all over my mouth and face, not behind cling film

Mr"

Guess you just gota make sure the person is clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you mean.

But in reality you just have to weigh it up. Is the risk worth it?

Personally I'd stop having sex if it meant using condoms/dental dam for giving/ receiving oral! You won't feel anything so whats the point!

Regular sti checks and condoms for penetration for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I take the attitude that sex should be protected but oral not x I test regularly xxx

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

In all my years I’ve never met a woman who wanted me to wear a condom for oral

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Oral sex with a condom is simply a non starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly flavoured condoms or flavoured lube to ease the taste

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Flavoured lube is lush

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

No way I'd have a condom covered cock in my mouth!!

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Well said Kate

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

This is kinda the main reason I don’t give or receive oral

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Love oral

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east


"Possibly flavoured condoms or flavoured lube to ease the taste"

Does lube protect you from sti? Not sure how high risk it is? I given plenty of bjs in my time and been lucky keeping clean but I generally don't go for men who extremely sexually active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love oral nothing better than eating pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east


"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex. "

I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.

I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?"

You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east


"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.

I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?

You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?"

You get ulcers because of other reasons so don't think that's the only indicator you may have sti. Testing is the best way to know but I noticed standard sti tests just tests for only afew of the sti

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.

I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?

You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?

You get ulcers because of other reasons so don't think that's the only indicator you may have sti. Testing is the best way to know but I noticed standard sti tests just tests for only afew of the sti"

Pay the extra money and get the full sti check done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.

I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?"

I don't actually meet overly You have to wait 4 weeks for for some tests to come back anyway. I don't have to wait 3 months its just the recommended. I just book in when I need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.

I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?

You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?"

Yes of course haha I have never even had a cold sore. I'm as careful as I can be.

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By *antric_lover77 OP   Woman
over a year ago

south east


"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.

I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?

You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?

You get ulcers because of other reasons so don't think that's the only indicator you may have sti. Testing is the best way to know but I noticed standard sti tests just tests for only afew of the sti

Pay the extra money and get the full sti check done."

I looked into them. They ask you more questions that I don't know the answers too like has your partner had sex with sex worker, tattoo abroad etc. When you go on fab meets, isn't it a massive turn off asking all this? Lol

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.

I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?

You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?

You get ulcers because of other reasons so don't think that's the only indicator you may have sti. Testing is the best way to know but I noticed standard sti tests just tests for only afew of the sti

Pay the extra money and get the full sti check done.

I looked into them. They ask you more questions that I don't know the answers too like has your partner had sex with sex worker, tattoo abroad etc. When you go on fab meets, isn't it a massive turn off asking all this? Lol"

Just answer as honestly as you can. It really doesn't matter, what really matter is the test results.

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