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Talking to meets via statuses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s everyone’s thoughts on status etiquette when meeting someone?

Do you post “got a meet tonight, can’t wait” proudly on your status? Or would you be mortified if someone did that about you?

Are you eager to subliminally message that certain someone via your status update - “you know who you are”, or does it make you cringe inside?

Keen to know fabs thoughts on the issue

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I think 'applying the clap cream so my meet doesn't get it' might be improper, but hey, us fellas don't get enough attention. Shout out loud you've got a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it’s a bit cringe. I don’t mind social and cam veris on here but meets I keep private.

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By *eed.a.signalMan
over a year ago

Local

Could just tell them. Status posts for me are to catch the eye of someone browsing, not look at me I need attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To me it’s a bit cringe. I don’t mind social and cam veris on here but meets I keep private. "

I don’t mind most veri’s, but I can understand why you and others like to keep them completely private. I only show a couple of mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could just tell them. Status posts for me are to catch the eye of someone browsing, not look at me I need attention "

Yeah I find messaging via statuses cringe. I saw one today that was a combination of bragging they had a meet, combined with pressuring the person they had an arrangement with.

I’d run a mile if I saw someone doing that about me.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I find them cringe but I'm nosey so there is an appeal for the drama llama (sits shamefully in the corner).

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"I find them cringe but I'm nosey so there is an appeal for the drama llama (sits shamefully in the corner). "

I'm the same, I'm ashamed to say my hotlist is full of people who put up ranty status updates, endlessly entertaining!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd not read them and maybe it's sweet for some but seems full-on cringe

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby


"I find them cringe but I'm nosey so there is an appeal for the drama llama (sits shamefully in the corner).

I'm the same, I'm ashamed to say my hotlist is full of people who put up ranty status updates, endlessly entertaining!"

That's such a good idea. I actually saw this weekend 2 so estate statuses about the same user.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"I find them cringe but I'm nosey so there is an appeal for the drama llama (sits shamefully in the corner).

I'm the same, I'm ashamed to say my hotlist is full of people who put up ranty status updates, endlessly entertaining!

That's such a good idea. I actually saw this weekend 2 so estate statuses about the same user. "

I actually watched 2 women argue over a man on here through their status updates, one of them named him so I had a look at his profile, he put up a status about how he wasn't taking sides and they both turned on him, it was brilliant better than Eastenders!!

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"I find them cringe but I'm nosey so there is an appeal for the drama llama (sits shamefully in the corner).

I'm the same, I'm ashamed to say my hotlist is full of people who put up ranty status updates, endlessly entertaining!

That's such a good idea. I actually saw this weekend 2 so estate statuses about the same user.

I actually watched 2 women argue over a man on here through their status updates, one of them named him so I had a look at his profile, he put up a status about how he wasn't taking sides and they both turned on him, it was brilliant better than Eastenders!! "

Were the rest of Fab all sitting back shouting "Jerry, Jerry, Jerry"?

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"What’s everyone’s thoughts on status etiquette when meeting someone?

Do you post “got a meet tonight, can’t wait” proudly on your status? Or would you be mortified if someone did that about you?

Are you eager to subliminally message that certain someone via your status update - “you know who you are”, or does it make you cringe inside?

Keen to know fabs thoughts on the issue"

I (Mr) think these status updates are usually by the same people who place similar ones on Facebook. You know the ones who post something like "What a crap day, glad someone benefitted from my bad luck". Their sole intention is for someone to ask them a question, so they can reply back with some rubbish about not being able to talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep mines blank, or change it to "reading".

I do see a lot of cringe statuses, i just continue scrolling past those. Especially ones that seem overly dramatic.

I try to keep statuses as casual/discreet as possible myself.

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