FabSwingers.com forum: New couple

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're fairly new to the site but are very new to swinging ,

Why is it so hard to find couples for a social and fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We've found it fairly difficult to find couples to socialise with and often one of us won't find our opposite number our cup of tea...the reverse also applies too.

I don't know how you're approaching people, are you messaging many?

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Your photos wouldn’t appeal to us as a couple. Perhaps have a rethink about your target audience.

As much as people say “it’s your profile do want you want”, in reality couples want to see decent photos of both parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it could be that you joined when a loads of couples will be on holiday right now with the kids being off school. We really should not comment on your profile as we don't think ours is great however some more pics might help

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

Photos are important... after all - most people usually need to be attracted.

Profile of what you like - don't like - looking to try etc.

Search as well as wait.

You need to add a bit of spice

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

No comments on your profile as you haven't asked for it but it takes time to make contacts and find the right people and you are new. In some ways easier for a couple (as a female involved

) but also harder as more people to keep happy. Also a lot of couples are cautious meeting new couples unless some sign/veris that they have done things before or are really confident they want to. Sure you will find the right couple in time that fit. You could also try organised socials/parties/clubs just a way to socialise and make contact.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"We're fairly new to the site but are very new to swinging ,

Why is it so hard to find couples for a social and fun "

I'd imagine that clubs might be the place to start for that.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

There are 4 people involved ,and getting the attraction is hard .

Jack will often find the lady attractive in a couple ,but I don't the male .

In that case we wouldn't meet ,as we wouldn't take one for the team or ever expect anyone to do the same with us.

Miss

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We struggle too tbh..mostly because as above it's very hard to find something each person of the couple is happy with. Or maybe it's just us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps local group socials are the way to go. That way there’s no pressure to play and you get to learn more about potential playmates rather than it just being based on appearances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're fairly new to the site but are very new to swinging ,

Why is it so hard to find couples for a social and fun "

We've been reasonably active on here for just over a year and still consider ourselves newbies to the scene. We can count on one hand the number of genuine people we have connected with on here. You have to just persevere. Interact on the forums, post some pics, message anyone who catches your eye...it just takes time and I'll admit we find it challenging

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples nights at clubs

S n J

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback we do Ave pics mostly on freinds only due to my fellas job though ,

But wen we message a couple we always add a face pic so they can see who there chatting to

And clubs is something that we are interested in so I suppose like u say just be patient and maybe visit a club or 2 x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I won't profile comment you haven't asked but aside from that 4 way attraction is very difficult.

I find the local social events much better to meet people than fab it's easier at face value.

They are listed in the meets and requests section.

Mrs

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Thanks for all the feedback we do Ave pics mostly on freinds only due to my fellas job though ,

But wen we message a couple we always add a face pic so they can see who there chatting to

And clubs is something that we are interested in so I suppose like u say just be patient and maybe visit a club or 2 x"
It’s hard meeting on here regardless of if your new.I think attending group socials and clubs is definitely a great way for you to meet new people..

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We find the social events and clubs are the best way to meet people. Saying that though, finding the 4 way attraction can be difficult but when it works it's worth the perseverance.

Good luck with your swinging journey.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

We would echo what others have said above,

Fab social events and clubs are a great way to make "friends"

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