FabSwingers.com forum: Letdowns

By *ilverfox for you OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

Why guarantee a meet ,then they don’t show ???leaving you sat there like a pillock !it was only a coffee meet .just as people re commend on here so annoying and frustrating

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

May I ask did you confirm they are the person on the profile, or try to, and did they want sex chat prior to the social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s unacceptable, totally and infuriating, manners are free the letting down is bad enough but not even the decency to give you a heads up or an explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why guarantee a meet ,then they don’t show ???leaving you sat there like a pillock !it was only a coffee meet .just as people re commend on here so annoying and frustrating "
unless there is a valid reason for not meeting. No that’s not nice at all..a quick message to let you know takes nothing.

Hope you’re next meet goes better

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I've had no show even when messaging up to half hour before while driving over, then blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had no show even when messaging up to half hour before while driving over, then blocked! "

If the meet was through fab you can report them. Don’t know why anyone would want to do that. No need

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I've had countless no shows dome people are all mouth and no trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t matter if it’s just a coffee meet, it’s still frustrating! We’ve been stood up and ghosted before and when you’ve put the effort in, and got excited for it, it’s devastating

Onwards and upwards! Hopefully if people need to cancel they let you know. Things do happen and things can change, just a bit of courtesy to let you know wouldn’t go a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be my worst nightmare….. make sure you report their profile

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By *oe8logsMan
over a year ago

reading

"I've had countless no shows dome people are all mouth and no trousers"

All mouth , no trousers don’t sound so bad

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I've had countless no shows dome people are all mouth and no trousers

All mouth , no trousers don’t sound so bad

It doesn't just wish they'd turn up and use em lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a no show on Wednesday, I messaged him to ask what happened, he finally message me by today with a excuse.

It happens more and more these days.

People liking the fantasy but are not willing to go through with it, fine but how about letting the other person know.

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By *oe8logsMan
over a year ago

reading

"I've had countless no shows dome people are all mouth and no trousers

All mouth , no trousers don’t sound so bad

It doesn't just wish they'd turn up and use em lol"

I would love to use my mouth on you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst are the “oh sorry I’ve just had another drink” brigade..

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

You ll be surprised by the sheer number of fantasists and let downs on here we are preferring the club scene these days at least you know your dealing with real people in a club

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Had this several times... Even rocked up in the motorhome for a day out of fun and frolics ...we'd met before...and I got a lame excuse...20 mins after the meeting up time... But there we go...

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

They are talking to multiple people, someone better came along, it sounds harsh but it’s true.

Sorry to hear that, happens to us all unfortunately.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Why guarantee a meet ,then they don’t show ???leaving you sat there like a pillock !it was only a coffee meet .just as people re commend on here so annoying and frustrating "

Just block and move on mate, they had their chance

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We really don't understand why someone would be a no show unless something catastrophic had happened.

Really hope we never have to deal with such a thing

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By *ilverfox for you OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

Yes 120 messages between us plus mutual orgasms

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By *ilverfox for you OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

Messaged her .she didn’t message me !!said something cropped up at work ??

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By *ilverfox for you OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

Thank you all for the comforting support at least I know it’s not only me!

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

I have had a meet cancel while driving to meet them, thankfully it wasn’t too far but still really annoying, why even arrange it if you don’t want to meet

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Yes 120 messages between us plus mutual orgasms"

It's possible it may not be a genuine profile you've been exchanging messages with.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Put on some big pants and just message saying, sorry but its not going to happen, instead of ignoring or ghosting.

Some people are just arseholes!!

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

I remember once driving to a hotel for a meet. Stamding outside then boom..... profile gone, messages gone..... they must have spied me and not fancied it haha

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Did you have a coffee anyway?

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It got worse after covid , at least in my experience. Not sure if more people joined or got word of fab , but it's not worth the effort now. The constant ghosting and blocking after chatting and arranging a meet is constant .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why guarantee a meet ,then they don’t show ???leaving you sat there like a pillock !it was only a coffee meet .just as people re commend on here so annoying and frustrating "

It's frustrating and rude! We won't ever back out of a meet unless something major happens (we have young kids and also caring responsibilities so sometimes stuff crops up last minute) The most precious thing someone can give you is their time, it's just bad manners to take advantage of it

Mrs

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I've had countless no shows dome people are all mouth and no trousers

All mouth , no trousers don’t sound so bad

It doesn't just wish they'd turn up and use em lol

I would love to use my mouth on you xxxx"

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