FabSwingers.com forum: MMF meet, soo hard to arrange

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Finding it soo hard to arrange MMF situation, want to try it soo bad now ! Any tips on how I can go about it, or if anyone likes MMF let me know

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Check out local profiles and put up a meet ad

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By *im494Man
over a year ago

Westhill

Just keep persevering, took me ages but I'm now having the most amazing mmf with a wonderful couple, sell yourself a bit in your introduction, try to keep it within travelling distance so it's realistic its going to happen, don't make it all about what you want out of it, and strike up a decent friendship with the male not just the female. At the end of the day see yourself as a guest in a relationship and act how you'd want to be treated

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Others will soon pop up to say so I'll go first - organised socials and clubs are a great way to meet people and make contacts. Purely off of here possible but got to be in the right place at the right time. Watch out for couples with meet requests up and do your best to sell yourself and present yourself in the best light (and as mentioned above talk to the man as well and remember it is a couple)

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By *elanieforyouTV/TS
over a year ago

, Ashburton sometimes Penzance

We have found that getting an extra Male for us as MF is difficulte as the prospective bulls tend to fade when questioned about their suitability, and assurances abiut being reliablex

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

The two males we’ve had successful meetings with have both gotten to know us through the forums and built a relationship with us that way before meeting for a social. It’s also essential that there’s mutual attraction so get the face pictures exchanged early.

The main problem on fab is that a lot of people just want to turn up and fuck without putting the leg work in.

That isn’t what we are here for and the majority of couples we’ve spoken to feel the same.

Good luck

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We can’t speak for other couples but your lack of bio would put us off. Makes it look like you can’t be bothered to make the effort. Just our opinion though x

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We tend to post we’re looking for an mmf on our status at the moment we’re looking to play, that usually gets us up to twenty responses almost immediately. Then we check out those profiles and chat to see who suits our situation best and who is polite and not pushy or crude.

The odds are kind of against you as a single male to be honest. I guess you just have to keep trying and be patient. We know and have met some very ordinary looking guys who have many verifications, so it’s possible to get meets, just don’t expect to get meets.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Finding it soo hard to arrange MMF situation, want to try it soo bad now ! Any tips on how I can go about it, or if anyone likes MMF let me know

Firstly - if you're straight then you may want a MFM, not a MMF.

Then put up a meet and/or highlight it in a 'Status'.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Finding it soo hard to arrange MMF situation, want to try it soo bad now ! Any tips on how I can go about it, or if anyone likes MMF let me know

Firstly - if you're straight then you may want a MFM, not a MMF.

Then put up a meet and/or highlight it in a 'Status'.

I think that distinction in terminology while meaningful for some is not for a great many. Think also a pretty new thing. Been here and other places for more years/decades than I care to count and it's only within the last year I've heard of it and realised some of my MMF encounters were in fact MFM without me realising

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Finding it soo hard to arrange MMF situation, want to try it soo bad now ! Any tips on how I can go about it, or if anyone likes MMF let me know

Firstly - if you're straight then you may want a MFM, not a MMF.

Then put up a meet and/or highlight it in a 'Status'.

I had the same thought CG

Also op you've written hardly anything so why would someone choose you? What do you offer /like. You do need to sell yourself on here .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're very young which might put a lot of people off.

Secondly you're, by your own admission, inexperienced in that particular dynamic. That may also go against you...not everyone wants to be a training ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fill your profile a bit, include relevant creative pics, keep it to the point and be honest and chirpy it’s your selling point if you can’t be bothered putting effort into that what does it say about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been doing this a while now and Fab is an incredibly difficult place to find single guys. There are thousands of them but the majority of the messages we get are dick pics, two word messages, guys that struggle to string a sentence together or guys that would not approach J in a bar but think because we're on Fab she will fuck anyone.

We get a small number of guys that are what we're looking for physically and can write and these often turn out to be timewasters.

The tiny number of decent guys make it worthwile though.

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

It's a bit demoralising, especially if you live in a sparsely populated area, rather than a large metropolis.

I've had two on here now, and two organised elsewhere: it's worth persevering as both were very nice. I'd like one a week tbh with fwb, but that'd be greedy!

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