FabSwingers.com forum: To Club or Not to Club?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good evening all.

Having just returned to the hobby following that little virus, we have decided to take on a different tack than before.

We have decided to try and meet couples outside of the club scene to see if the eventual sex is indeed more full on than we have found when we attended just clubs.

Although we enjoyed clubs in the past and will continue to do so, we found the sex in the clubs was more soft swing and groping.

Thoughts please?

Great to be back on the scene tho

xxxxxx

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By *amster1210Man
over a year ago

Haslingden

I have never been to a club with much action, maybe wrong time, wrong weekend etc, have seen more pool matches then actual sex. Don't get me wrong I have met some lovely people at clubs but very rarely see lots of action

I think you can have much more fun at home with all your own comforts

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By *amster1210Man
over a year ago

Haslingden

Ps great profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol what clubs are you poor bastards going to?

Whenever I attend a club its always been hardcore. A couple weeks back I had some 6'5 soldier balls deep in me after 10 minutes!

Wishing you better club experiences going forward xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club, always club. Remember the covid days when we could not attend them and some venues closed or adapted/reduced their opening times once they could eventually re open.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

There's always something happening in clubs when I visit. Some nights are quieter than others but it's rare that someone is not having some fun

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You could do both.

Why not go to clubs once in a while and then have private meets as and when. That's what we do and it works for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could do both.

Why not go to clubs once in a while and then have private meets as and when. That's what we do and it works for us

That’s exactly what we intend to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *amster1210Man
over a year ago

Haslingden

Infusion Blackpool great once other times not

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Never been to a club, so can't say either way ...

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By *eed.a.signalMan
over a year ago

Local

Soft swing and groping in the clubs is preferable for me as to full on as it’s less pressure. Too much going on in the clubs and it’s rushed with the ratio of people to rooms, opening times etc.

Full on in a freshly laid bed, home or hotel, is always better.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Chameleons was the club we used as a couple. Never had a bad night there.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

To club….always! Clubs are great fun play or no play. I love people watching and socialising too. So for me it’s a no brainer

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

OP, we have had the same conversations about meeting. Less about the quality of the sex at Clubs, as that has been great fun. More about whether we were missing anything. We’ve concluded that as meeting people outside of Clubs seems hit and miss, we won’t meet in our home or other peoples homes; so it comes down to socials or hotel meets. Which is basically like going to a Club and we like the vibe of Clubs and the potential choice. We will never say never, but meets are very likely to be Club based for us

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

We enjoy best of both when time permits.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

yes 100% the sex is better away from clubs ... clubs tend to be good fun but never go that extra mile that you get with private meets ... and too many ..''oh look at me '' or worse ''can you hear me '' fakeness in clubs in private things tend to me more everything...

down side is sorting out who real and who notn outside of clubs but most the guys i meet have originally meet us in clubs and we've met agay away from the clubs and even with that theres a massive difference

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By *jay9092Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I think everyone has a preference. I believe individual meets offers a more sensual experience ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs seem to have taken a huge hit in ‘attitude’… my local club, Amigos is now a watered down version of a swinging club, where people just want to sit, fully clothed and chat. Event their porn room is regularly inhabited by two women who sit fully clothed while bitching about life and not letting people watch porn to get in the mood. Very sad really.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"Clubs seem to have taken a huge hit in ‘attitude’… my local club, Amigos is now a watered down version of a swinging club, where people just want to sit, fully clothed and chat. Event their porn room is regularly inhabited by two women who sit fully clothed while bitching about life and not letting people watch porn to get in the mood. Very sad really. "

this is happening everywhere club wise its more social than swinging now than it ever has been as like you've said the just sit there moaning about everyone else ''oh look at him'' ''oh thats disgusting'' ''oh shes a right slut'' i dont think some swinging quite understand what swinging really is lol see it alot on here too ... and they wonder why clubs are dead (some)

and we like clubs (been to ;oads all over uk) but these types of ''swingers'' are just killing it but nothing can be done as people will just be themselve dunno why the dont save there money a sit in a pub and moan all night

#justmyhumbleopinion

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Soft swing and groping in the clubs is preferable for me as to full on as it’s less pressure. Too much going on in the clubs and it’s rushed with the ratio of people to rooms, opening times etc.

Full on in a freshly laid bed, home or hotel, is always better. "

We have never felt rushed in a club. Once in a room it’s yours until you’ve finished having fun

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#justmyhumbleopinion"

Totally correct. They should stay at home and moan. But then the moaners are being let in for free at my local club.. but yes there’s two women who sit in the porn cinema part, fully clothed, slagging the porn off (which they chose to go in and sit near?!) and just chatting rubbish. I’ve seen so many men and women just get dressed and leave because of them. Yes Amigos I’m talking about you, and yes I’m referring to professional club mood hoover “Karen with the stick” and her friends. Get rid or lose your customers to Club 29 again. It’s already happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol what clubs are you poor bastards going to?

Whenever I attend a club its always been hardcore. A couple weeks back I had some 6'5 soldier balls deep in me after 10 minutes!

Wishing you better club experiences going forward xx"

I was just thinking the same Xx sometimes them group fun rooms are intimidating and I am no shrinking violet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good evening all.

Having just returned to the hobby following that little virus, we have decided to take on a different tack than before.

We have decided to try and meet couples outside of the club scene to see if the eventual sex is indeed more full on than we have found when we attended just clubs.

Although we enjoyed clubs in the past and will continue to do so, we found the sex in the clubs was more soft swing and groping.

Thoughts please?

Great to be back on the scene tho

xxxxxx"

We went the opposite way, we got frustrated on here so hit the clubs and loved it.. no hassle, no ping pong messages that eventually leads nowhere,we just turn up and treat it as a social night out and if we hit it off with someone we counted that as a bonus.

Good luck which ever way you go.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We find it hard to meet couples just on here .Firstly I'm straight and most couples seem to want fem fun.

Then there are loads of profiles that only have pics of the woman,so getting four way attraction can be very hard.

It can be easier to use clubs ,you can see all parties and have a chat first .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in general people will be more adventurous in a private setting.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We found ourselves accommodating more, from attending clubs twice weekly, haven’t sat down and thought about why.

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