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Tips for slim “nerdier” guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As an average looking guy at best I’m finding it difficult on here getting responses.

What are some good opening messages? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individualised to each person. But everyone prefers a different angle being taken and will all want a different opening message.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There's no good opening message for everyone to be honest, most don't like one liners and want something that shows you read their profile.

No matter how good the first message if your profile isn't upto scratch/what they are looking for people won't reply.

Mrs

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We normally just go with a, “Hi….”, or “Good Morning/Afternoon……”

May seem boring, but if the person / couple want to respond they will look at our profile, and then hopefully say hi back.

Jx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're quite happy to receive messages that just introduce the person e.g.

'Hi, I'm Fred, I'm interested in chatting with a view to meeting.'

A lot of people want individually crafted messages proving you've read and understood their profile.

If I was a single man on here I'd keep my messages brief but clear in intent and friendly and ensure that my profile presented me in the next light possible.

Good luck

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

When people get a message, they normally check out the sender's profile first... I can't give you profile advice without getting banned, unless you ask for it here.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an average looking guy at best I’m finding it difficult on here getting responses.

What are some good opening messages? Haha"

The best opening is something that you don't force down their throats like a cookie cutter copypasta

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

*best light possible. This flaming autocorrect will be the end of me

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Send a message as you op and not as someone else because the meet will be with you and not Steve from Wigan.

If there is a Steve from Wigan then I apologize for using your name in vain.

T

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