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By *op2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North west

Anyone ever met a couple and the hubby has got cold feet or jealous once the action has started? X

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Lol had a few

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By *aviniaCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds (close to GAP)

Yes!!

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By *op2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North west

Please share the details x

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

Nope, all been good.

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yes.

They both seemed nice and experienced and totally up for it, once the action started picking up the guys face got reder and reder and very angry looking, he went mental and went for me and I was running around the room naked with my boner bouncing around trying not to get my ass kicked, picking up all my clothes whilst his Mrs tried to calm him down... judging by the way she was talking this had happened before.

Terrifying at the time but thinking back its a funny image in my mind

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By *op2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North west

Always amazes me what do they thinks going to happen once you get into the room x

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By *urhiddendesireCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

A few times recently

Well two out of the last four meetings

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Anyone ever met a couple and the hubby has got cold feet or jealous once the action has started? X"

Yes. He was a right beaut and looking back we should never have met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had the opposite on our last sameroom fullswap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I've met couple where the wife has. Just horribly awkward and has put me off a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

They both seemed nice and experienced and totally up for it, once the action started picking up the guys face got reder and reder and very angry looking, he went mental and went for me and I was running around the room naked with my boner bouncing around trying not to get my ass kicked, picking up all my clothes whilst his Mrs tried to calm him down... judging by the way she was talking this had happened before.

Terrifying at the time but thinking back its a funny image in my mind"

Sorry I shouldn’t laugh but I am absolutely corpsing over the mental image of this

K

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Anyone ever met a couple and the hubby has got cold feet or jealous once the action has started? X"

Yep not so uncommon especially for people who are relatively new. Also the other way around with couples where is mostly about the lady having fun and she doesn't want him doing much. One reason why like veris as can get good idea as to the couple dynamic beforehand.

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

Happens quite a lot. Some guys want everyone elses's wife or girlfriend, but not prepared to share their own. Shouldn't be anywhere near swinging if you can't play nicely and share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens quite a lot. Some guys want everyone elses's wife or girlfriend, but not prepared to share their own. Shouldn't be anywhere near swinging if you can't play nicely and share."

I hold a different view. I don’t have much appetite to be with another man but do have a considerable appetite to be with a woman. I don’t think that warrants my swift removal from the swinging world. Just that we will have a much reduced pool of people who might be interested in us.

K

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Happens quite a lot. Some guys want everyone elses's wife or girlfriend, but not prepared to share their own. Shouldn't be anywhere near swinging if you can't play nicely and share."

That's a bit unfair. Every kind of dynamic is fine as long as people are fairly upfront and clear and everyone is happy.

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By *reampie_yourwifeMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Faux jealousy can add a nice touch to a cuckold dynamic, but yes I guess like most guys I have experienced a husband decide he isn’t up for the whole thing, especially if his wife or partner is really enjoying it …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's hope they don't use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to us once the Hubby got very mardy real let down we were all naked and fun was just starting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever met a couple and the hubby has got cold feet or jealous once the action has started? X"

I've had a few absolute rippers.

One was happily grinding away balls deep in my ex while I was in a 69 with his Mrs. She turned around and started riding me and all was good till the guy drained his balls and in post-nut clarity looked over and saw her impaled on me mid stroke. He lost it and yelled that me fucking her was not part of the agreement. He started to lunge at me but my ex clobbered his balls and his Mrs pushed him out the door of the motel we were at .

Another was all for it till his Mrs started cumming. She'd told him she never came from sex, ever. First I knew there was an issue was his first corking my thigh and the furious growl "get the fuck off her right now" or something like that.

Had another try and put me in a headlock but I don't remember what I did wrong that time.

And there have been others taking a swing at me and others kill the play more diplomatically.

If you get cold feet or find the learning curve if more of a knowledge frieght train, that's totally fine. Just -pardon the pun- grow some fucking balls and use your words like a big boy.

- Mr

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By *op2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North west

Always amazes me that they get like that when it’s them who’s arranging the meet x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Always amazes me what do they thinks going to happen once you get into the room x"
it happens... no matter how well planned ahead.

Even experienced swingers can have moments.

Although I've always found women to be more jealous

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

Yes this has happened.

Often because the they have not talked about the situation beforehand and told eachother how they really feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for some fantasy is better than reality

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes.

They both seemed nice and experienced and totally up for it, once the action started picking up the guys face got reder and reder and very angry looking, he went mental and went for me and I was running around the room naked with my boner bouncing around trying not to get my ass kicked, picking up all my clothes whilst his Mrs tried to calm him down... judging by the way she was talking this had happened before.

Terrifying at the time but thinking back its a funny image in my mind"

This does sound hilarious though.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever met a couple and the hubby has got cold feet or jealous once the action has started? X

I've had a few absolute rippers.

One was happily grinding away balls deep in my ex while I was in a 69 with his Mrs. She turned around and started riding me and all was good till the guy drained his balls and in post-nut clarity looked over and saw her impaled on me mid stroke. He lost it and yelled that me fucking her was not part of the agreement. He started to lunge at me but my ex clobbered his balls and his Mrs pushed him out the door of the motel we were at .

Another was all for it till his Mrs started cumming. She'd told him she never came from sex, ever. First I knew there was an issue was his first corking my thigh and the furious growl "get the fuck off her right now" or something like that.

Had another try and put me in a headlock but I don't remember what I did wrong that time.

And there have been others taking a swing at me and others kill the play more diplomatically.

If you get cold feet or find the learning curve if more of a knowledge frieght train, that's totally fine. Just -pardon the pun- grow some fucking balls and use your words like a big boy.

- Mr"

Oh my days!!!!! I’m speechless !!!!

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Not during. Afterwards definitely

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Many years ago, with an ex partner, was an interesting experience.

Full swap with another couple. I thoroughly enjoyed myself and he spent days being furious with me after it becuase I wasn't jealous he had fucked someone else.

Told the other couple never to contact us again too.

You live and learn!

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for some fantasy is better than reality "

I agree! I've given up playing with couples, it's a bloody minefield! Although thank god none actually got violent! That's terrible! X

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We’ve seen it in clubs, mostly alcohol infused , but in reality getting a little bit of jealousy is the buzz in mot folks might be wrong.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

another reason we dont meet couples online .... the jealousy is very real in some and its not always just the husband .... these very one sided couples have slowy become more and more ... from mild to raving loons

there was none of it when we first started over 30 years ago but now best way to meet a couple is club easy to see then how together they really are ... also met lots of jealous singles who mix swinging up with relationship or more they are just as big a pain in the ass ... no room for this in swinging your either in or out not half way... oh and i can totally understand a newbie couple as its new to them to work out asap ...jealousy has no room in swinging

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Yes, a couple that clearly hadn't talked before hand, yet had told us all was groovy. All was not groovy.

Politely chatted to themfor about 10 minutes, in a sort of speed therapy course, while surreptitiously getting shows on and backing out of the room.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Wow! They walk among us

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close


"Yes, a couple that clearly hadn't talked before hand, yet had told us all was groovy. All was not groovy.

Politely chatted to themfor about 10 minutes, in a sort of speed therapy course, while surreptitiously getting shows on and backing out of the room.

"

Love this one. We've done the same. Chuckled about it later when we heard them arguing outside.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Anyone ever met a couple and the hubby has got cold feet or jealous once the action has started? X"

Yes! We had a couole like that and he got really nasty and had goes about me due to it. I know they have spread crap on here about us as well.

C

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We've not experienced much of this over the years. More so when we were new, often bumping into likewise new couples before our spidy senses developed with couples. However in our experience it's been more the women who have got cold feet than the guys once things have started.

Our spidy sense is stronger these days with couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

They both seemed nice and experienced and totally up for it, once the action started picking up the guys face got reder and reder and very angry looking, he went mental and went for me and I was running around the room naked with my boner bouncing around trying not to get my ass kicked, picking up all my clothes whilst his Mrs tried to calm him down... judging by the way she was talking this had happened before.

Terrifying at the time but thinking back its a funny image in my mind"

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By *reenlightcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

Happened to us. Turns out the guy was happy to have his cake and eat it with Mrs G but didn’t want me to have fun with his wife.

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Happened twice. Partners/ hubby supposedly cool with planned action.

When it started the red/green mist came down!!!!!!

Not a very nice experience for the ladies or me!!!!!

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes, has happened the once here ...

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

It has happened to me a few times.

totally ruins the vibe an action gets stopped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would put me off forever! Any sign of anger and I’d have a meltdown!

Clearly discussions hadn’t taken place prior. Good communication between all parties is key for this lifestyle

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread actually makes me feel quite a deep sadness, I could never understand why people become cucks other than as a coping mechanism to stay with their partner. Maybe I’m too emotional idk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s shared then that’s different, sharing is definitely caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other way around for me. Experienced a very jealous wife.

Couples just don't do it if there is any hint of jealousy. Not worth the upset and the negative feelings you inflict on the other people joining you.

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By *oundandround69Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Anyone ever met a couple and the hubby has got cold feet or jealous once the action has started? X"

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like it when he gets a little jealous lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like it when he gets a little jealous lol xx"

You’re definitely feline by nature I know I shouldn’t like it

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"Happens quite a lot. Some guys want everyone elses's wife or girlfriend, but not prepared to share their own. Shouldn't be anywhere near swinging if you can't play nicely and share."

This seems like a naive attitude to have.

It's not possible to know how you will respond to every situation in life, until you are in that situation. We haven't experienced the male becoming jealous, but we have with the female. She became quite upset. You know what we did? The sensible, grown up, compassionate act of stopping, then reassuring her it wasn't an issue.

That was 5 years ago. They are still in the swinging scene nowadays, but only with single guys.

Sometimes people don't know their own boundaries, so they need to experience things instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of times with the wife not the hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh wow, this thread has definitely opened my eyes to cuckold and couples

If I ever get invited to join a couple or cuckold couple I'll definitely be asking so serious questions and checking there verifications

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope but I had a wife that was super jealous and rude it was so uncomfortable, so I fuck her man better then her and then gave him back to her

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By *ingleguyforfunswMan
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Nope but I had a wife that was super jealous and rude it was so uncomfortable, so I fuck her man better then her and then gave him back to her "

Couple I’d met on a few occasions decided I could meet her alone and he’d come back after we’d played. He came in and I’d just cum in her good (was allowed) but he hated seeing us and went really cold and awkward.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"Anyone ever met a couple and the hubby has got cold feet or jealous once the action has started? X

I've had a few absolute rippers.

One was happily grinding away balls deep in my ex while I was in a 69 with his Mrs. She turned around and started riding me and all was good till the guy drained his balls and in post-nut clarity looked over and saw her impaled on me mid stroke. He lost it and yelled that me fucking her was not part of the agreement. He started to lunge at me but my ex clobbered his balls and his Mrs pushed him out the door of the motel we were at .

Another was all for it till his Mrs started cumming. She'd told him she never came from sex, ever. First I knew there was an issue was his first corking my thigh and the furious growl "get the fuck off her right now" or something like that.

Had another try and put me in a headlock but I don't remember what I did wrong that time.

And there have been others taking a swing at me and others kill the play more diplomatically.

If you get cold feet or find the learning curve if more of a knowledge frieght train, that's totally fine. Just -pardon the pun- grow some fucking balls and use your words like a big boy.

- Mr"

Lol wow

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"I quite like it when he gets a little jealous lol xx"

Yeah that sounds pretty hot

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"This thread actually makes me feel quite a deep sadness, I could never understand why people become cucks other than as a coping mechanism to stay with their partner. Maybe I’m too emotional idk"

I mean everyone is different, I’m guessing for some it’s the only way they can sustainably exist together.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Haven't had it from Husbands but had multiple Wives become extremely jealous and honestly, abusive towards Laura.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh wow!

We are ourselves are new and as much as we can be sure how we will feel it may well be very different in reality... however if that did occur it would certainly be a polite inform we are not feeling it.

Don't write us all off

Some couples just aren't open enough with each other before venturing down this avenue.

I assume it is mainly 'new' couples and first times that this has occurred with? Least then we can be careful of likely scenarios .

S n J

X

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The couples I’ve met have been experienced enough for this not to be an issue. I imagine it only afflicts those that are new to swinging mostly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more to do with where they are in their relationship. Even experienced couples go through tough times and that can trigger negative emotions

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Yes.

They both seemed nice and experienced and totally up for it, once the action started picking up the guys face got reder and reder and very angry looking, he went mental and went for me and I was running around the room naked with my boner bouncing around trying not to get my ass kicked, picking up all my clothes whilst his Mrs tried to calm him down... judging by the way she was talking this had happened before.

Terrifying at the time but thinking back its a funny image in my mind"

Why can I hear the benny hill music while reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like it when he gets a little jealous lol xx

You’re definitely feline by nature I know I shouldn’t like it"

Lol. True x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like it when he gets a little jealous lol xx

You’re definitely feline by nature I know I shouldn’t like it

Lol. True x"

Same

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By *oleinone200Man
over a year ago

leeds

This happened to me a few years ago. We met a couple on holiday and clicked like we'd known each other for years, so on returning to the UK we arranged a night out, after a few drinks the girls got a little flirty and put on a show for us. As we knew what we liked the mrs started to play with her bf. Myself and his mrs just watched to start with. He asked for permission to fuck My mrs which we all agreed, so as he did me and his gf started to do the same. This is when it started to go south!

Like a few have said, he wanted his cake and eat it by himself, this didn't stop us having fun that night but when they got back they split but she still comes to us for a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be lying if i didn't feel some jealousy but to be honest it adds to the occasion and the feelings become very sexual!

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I’ve never encountered this the couples I’ve shared fun with has always been pleasant . Although it’s always been a dread of mine with a couple to have the husband be jealous .

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By *ockatwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Yes a few times with couples

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple
over a year ago

West Mids

No thank god! I think it would put us off if it happened! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like people have some real horror stories! Hope nothing crazy like that happens to us. I don’t see why people can’t just stop the play if someone’s unhappy or getting jealous. It’s quite easy, although awkward, to put a stop to it and get back into your comfort zone.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely going to potentially think twice and ask a lot of questions if I ever get asked to have some fun with a couple

Certainly an eye opener that's for sure

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Yes bounced out of a few meets with couples where the guy has started acted like a prick .

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Like others have said, you can never be 100% sure how you will react the first time you see your partner being fucked by someone else.

The first time we agreed to do a full swap we were nervous about whether it would be for us and whether that jealousy would be there, but fortunately it wasn't, and we enjoyed seeing each other play.

Only thing I can be sure of though is that if there was jealousy it absolutely wouldn't have resulted in any violence. If your first reaction is aggression or threatening behaviour then that's a massive red flag and to me suggests something in your personality that means the threat is never top far away from surfacing.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Like others have said, you can never be 100% sure how you will react the first time you see your partner being fucked by someone else.

The first time we agreed to do a full swap we were nervous about whether it would be for us and whether that jealousy would be there, but fortunately it wasn't, and we enjoyed seeing each other play.

Only thing I can be sure of though is that if there was jealousy it absolutely wouldn't have resulted in any violence. If your first reaction is aggression or threatening behaviour then that's a massive red flag and to me suggests something in your personality that means the threat is never top far away from surfacing."

We felt the same as in worried one of us would not like it. But it was so easy and flowed. We love watching each other fuck others.

Mrs

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