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What is a ‘social?’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People tell me there’s no such thing as a stupid question. Is a social just that- a social meet? Where there is the chance to meet others, have drinks chat etc? Or is it an organised party with a happy ending? I don’t know how else to ask the question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social is whatever you want it to be. It could be meeting someone for a pint/coffee to see if you get on or it could be a party or meet in a club with no guarantees of sex.

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By *ork6677Couple
over a year ago

York

A social is just that. An organised event for like minded people to meet others.

If it is arranging yourself to meet someone for a social then the rules are up to you and them.

We would meet for a social with a view to arranging fun at later date if everyone is happy

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Just a friendly chat, doesn't even need to be at vanilla location, have had good socials with another couple in a hot tub, but only people may disagree

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

A social is a friendly meet up over a brew, or drinks in a pub, to see if someone matches up to their profile in here, and if you all get on face to face. No pressure or expectations other than getting to know each other better, and no harm done if there’s no attraction in person

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Organised socials will be very clear that it's genuinely just a social meet. Some have the option to move on to other venues where sex is allowed even encouraged. Most organised socials are in public spaces.

Socials that are arranged between individuals depend on what's agreed between them. We state clearly 'social only' others say 'social, maybe more'.

As with everything on fab be clear in your intent.

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

I always assume its a chance to meet up have a drink and a chat and see if we want to go further without obligation on either side

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By *xJust4fun22Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

For us it is normally a meeting prior to playing. Open conversation, flirting and maybe some tactile flirting. Depends upon how confident, but playing could be an option of it is at a hotel.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I always assume its a chance to meet up have a drink and a chat and see if we want to go further without obligation on either side "

That's just how we see it!

M and M

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Organised socials are just a large group of swingers in the same pub basically, friendly and generally a great way to meet people, we enjoy the organised socials I find it much easier meeting people at face value than I do on here.

Private socials are whatever you like, coffee date, pub, meal anything really just an opportunity to see if you all have a good connection.

Mrs

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Organised socials are just a large group of swingers in the same pub basically, friendly and generally a great way to meet people, we enjoy the organised socials I find it much easier meeting people at face value than I do on here.

Private socials are whatever you like, coffee date, pub, meal anything really just an opportunity to see if you all have a good connection.

Mrs "

Yep, those are my experiences of socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Organised socials are just a large group of swingers in the same pub basically, friendly and generally a great way to meet people, we enjoy the organised socials I find it much easier meeting people at face value than I do on here.

Private socials are whatever you like, coffee date, pub, meal anything really just an opportunity to see if you all have a good connection.

Mrs "

Thank you. It was the organised ones I was asking about. I’ve seen people say e.g. ‘Manchester social’ and wondered what, where etc. Thanks for the info.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Only ever managed one rest went straight to fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only ever managed one rest went straight to fucking. "

That wouldn’t work for me. I admire your shortcut though ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had social meets with fun and social meets just for laughs

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