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"It's only me (Mrs) on the forums and mostly me replying to messages. Mr pops on every now and again for a nosy but leaves the talking to me. X" Thankgod.. after all the shag kiss shag threads | |||
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"It's only me (Mrs) on the forums and mostly me replying to messages. Mr pops on every now and again for a nosy but leaves the talking to me. X Thankgod.. after all the shag kiss shag threads " It would probably be torture from Mr. | |||
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"It's only me (Mrs) on the forums and mostly me replying to messages. Mr pops on every now and again for a nosy but leaves the talking to me. X" same -- saves me typing it out | |||
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"Wheels posts in the forums the most out of the two of us-I've asked him to sign his posts off with his name to make it clear to others who's posting but he just doesn't. I always sign my posts off so at least you can be certain when it's me posting! Message wise-we both reply and send messages. We don't always check with each other what we're sending when we send it. We sometimes take it in turns to respond if it's an ongoing conversation but we both sometimes forget to reply and leave some people waiting maybe a little too long crystal" Same with us. With the app on the bloody phone, its addictive, so we kinda both hop in and out. Forum-wise, its Joe mostly - as in right now - but messages are a fair split. Lola is more disciplined than me when it comes to signing off. Then again, if we're looking together and commenting, I'll tend to write a response from us both, as will she. It tends to lead to some confusion sometimes though. The amount of times I think she's sent a message back and she thinks the same of me. Oops x Joe - ther, I did it that time | |||
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"surely its a two way thing, with mutual agreement, though the lady should always have the casting vote, in my opinion." Hmm I'm not sure that a two way thing can result in just one person having the casting vote, with us if I'm not happy we don't do it and if Mr N isn't happy we don't do it either no matter how much the other one would love to . We've met plenty of couples where despite what she says it's clear from body language and actions that the lady is not happy at all and it's very much teh guy in charge.....we run away from that very fast indeed...depending on how high my heels are | |||
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"surely its a two way thing, with mutual agreement, though the lady should always have the casting vote, in my opinion." That. Its usually Mar on the comp. although our profile does make that pretty clear. I've never pretended to be Try on here. I don't possess the required skills | |||
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"surely its a two way thing, with mutual agreement, though the lady should always have the casting vote, in my opinion. Hmm I'm not sure that a two way thing can result in just one person having the casting vote, with us if I'm not happy we don't do it and if Mr N isn't happy we don't do it either no matter how much the other one would love to . We've met plenty of couples where despite what she says it's clear from body language and actions that the lady is not happy at all and it's very much teh guy in charge.....we run away from that very fast indeed...depending on how high my heels are" I think he meant casting vote ad in the power to veto | |||
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"Hmm I'm not sure that a two way thing can result in just one person having the casting vote, with us if I'm not happy we don't do it and if Mr N isn't happy we don't do it either no matter how much the other one would love to ." Swinging, to me, is about mutual fun so if there's one person in a situation who is not 100% happy, then things shouldn't progress further in my opinion. It doesn't matter who it is that's not happy, me, wheels, any one else involved, we all have a say. | |||
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"I think he meant casting vote ad in the power to veto" I see what you mean! But I still think both the male and female's votes are equally important and as they will both be involved in meeting, they both have a say in wether or not things progress. crystal | |||
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"surely its a two way thing, with mutual agreement, though the lady should always have the casting vote, in my opinion. Hmm I'm not sure that a two way thing can result in just one person having the casting vote, with us if I'm not happy we don't do it and if Mr N isn't happy we don't do it either no matter how much the other one would love to . We've met plenty of couples where despite what she says it's clear from body language and actions that the lady is not happy at all and it's very much teh guy in charge.....we run away from that very fast indeed...depending on how high my heels are" We live by the same rule. Broke it just once and regretted it. | |||
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"I think he meant casting vote ad in the power to veto I see what you mean! But I still think both the male and female's votes are equally important and as they will both be involved in meeting, they both have a say in wether or not things progress. crystal" are they equally important? if both say yes then they are if both say no then they are if one's saying yes and one's saying no surely the latter carries more weight. The power of veto. no one wants or should have to take one for the team.truth is with us is that tra has vetoed far more than me and I've never once questioned it.that's what a partnership is | |||
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"are they equally important? if both say yes then they are if both say no then they are if one's saying yes and one's saying no surely the latter carries more weight. The power of veto. no one wants or should have to take one for the team.truth is with us is that tra has vetoed far more than me and I've never once questioned it.that's what a partnership is" I understand and agree completely with you. If I wasn't happy and wheels was, I know he would be happy to listen to me and not question why I'm not happy and I would do the same for him. Thank you for further explaining what you meant, crystal | |||
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"I think he meant casting vote ad in the power to veto I see what you mean! But I still think both the male and female's votes are equally important and as they will both be involved in meeting, they both have a say in wether or not things progress. crystal are they equally important? if both say yes then they are if both say no then they are if one's saying yes and one's saying no surely the latter carries more weight. The power of veto. no one wants or should have to take one for the team.truth is with us is that tra has vetoed far more than me and I've never once questioned it.that's what a partnership is" I think we're probably saying the same thing in a different way. | |||
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"I do find it confusing when talking to a couple in private if they don't put their name at the end. It's disorientating when two people speak to you as you can tell it's different people but you don't have a clue which! COUPLES!!! Put the fooking posters name at the end of a pm or face an uncomfortable chat about football (women) or my penis (men)!!! " I know that you are joking but it is surprising how w conversation can change when someone realise it is crystal messaging and not me. | |||
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"I think we're probably saying the same thing in a different way. " crystal P.S. Mr Wheels-don't confuse the poor forumites by jumping in on a thread I'm posting in and not signing your name off! You might find someone wanting to talk about their willy with you!!! | |||
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", if your talking to a couple surely you address each message you send to the couple, and wouldnt you talk about things both could reply to anyway? " If only this were true. our profile says I'll see messages first but we get a lot solely addressed to Tra. I just bin em | |||
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"i dont see what it matters which one your talking to, if your talking to a couple surely you address each message you send to the couple, and wouldnt you talk about things both could reply to anyway? if i was the male half of a couple id say i was the women to see what the person said to me that they wouldnt if they knew i was the man lol " I like to flirt and Mr N likes to see me flirt so I often have conversations with guys that he wouldn't have. He is always there in real life and virtuality but batting his eyelashes and promising to flash a stocking top doesn't suit him | |||
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"i dont see what it matters which one your talking to, if your talking to a couple surely you address each message you send to the couple, and wouldnt you talk about things both could reply to anyway?" Flip it round the other way though. In the past I have been concurrently chatting to the male about one thing and the fem about another, quite happily until the fuckers forget to put their names on the end Grrrrrrr. It's amazing how crossed conversations can spiral with quite surreal results. My pet peeve! PUT YOUR FOOKING NAMES ON! | |||
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"when you get talking to a couple on Fab, you find out its alway the male half you're talking to!!" It's always the male half here | |||
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"We are finding it really funny that when you get talking to a couple on Fab, you find out its alway the male half you're talking to!! Sometimes feels like we are the only couple that both actually use/message on the site!!! Lol is this true of most couples??? x" My gf usually talks on the couples account but it's hard to tell who you're speaking to as we answer as each other quite a lot. Sometimes it's easier, sometimes it's just fun | |||
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" if i was the male half of a couple id say i was the women to see what the person said to me that they wouldnt if they knew i was the man lol " I must admit in chat if I get messaged privately by a bloke assuming that it is crystal I rarely feel an immediate need to correct them... | |||
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" if i was the male half of a couple id say i was the women to see what the person said to me that they wouldnt if they knew i was the man lol I must admit in chat if I get messaged privately by a bloke assuming that it is crystal I rarely feel an immediate need to correct them... " Same here!! Even if it is actually me Ms thats replying....... | |||
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"It's only me (Mrs) on the forums and mostly me replying to messages. Mr pops on every now and again for a nosy but leaves the talking to me. X" We're the same, unlike a lot of couples we do meet single guys so it makes sense for me to do the chatting - not surprisingly not many of them are concerned as to what David's preferences are! Besides which Im a chatterbox and he isnt! | |||
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"It's only me (Mrs) on the forums and mostly me replying to messages. Mr pops on every now and again for a nosy but leaves the talking to me. X" Same here | |||
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"It's only me (Mrs) on the forums and mostly me replying to messages. Mr pops on every now and again for a nosy but leaves the talking to me. X Same here " Ditto | |||
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"Mostly fem for us, do find most single guys always seem to think it the fem, couples seem to ask who they messaging with" Have found the opposite - couples don't usually ask, just the men pretending to be couples. | |||
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"We don't live together so can sometimes be on at the same time,and have sometimes replied to a message together so they get 2 replies " haha have done that too - except that it's been when we're both sat next to each other! | |||
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"It tends to be me. (Male).. the other half likes me to screen and filter out the pic collectors and time wasters. Then we decide together who we are going to meet ect.. " Ditto | |||
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"We are finding it really funny that when you get talking to a couple on Fab, you find out its alway the male half you're talking to!! Sometimes feels like we are the only couple that both actually use/message on the site!!! Lol is this true of most couples??? x" We both message and write in forums.... If he is away its more likely to be me, the female, but as a rule we both have an input.... xx | |||
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"We are finding it really funny that when you get talking to a couple on Fab, you find out its alway the male half you're talking to!! Sometimes feels like we are the only couple that both actually use/message on the site!!! Lol is this true of most couples??? x" It's always me jason that does the talking I make the arrangements and then spring it on Paula when we get to the pub and the other couple tour single guy turns up. It works for us and that's what counts | |||
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