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By *oodcock2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area??

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

We prefer to play away from our local area.

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By *oodcock2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We prefer to play away from our local area. "

A few couples I’ve met in my time say that due to the safe space it makes so you don’t like bump into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not locally . Bit of distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never shit on your own doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never on the foot step but local. It is actually difficult to find single man’s, the sheer quantity even within 20, 30 miles make it different and the ocean of dick pics makes it almost impossible.

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By *rinceandPrincess2000Couple
over a year ago

this one

Localish . If I like them then we can meet more regular and I love a last minute booty call to mine , just makes this possible . Princess zx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need some distance for any meet as the old saying goes dont shit on your own doorstep not that either are cheating but we have a private life and a swinging life two different worlds lol

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By *oodcock2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Localish . If I like them then we can meet more regular and I love a last minute booty call to mine , just makes this possible . Princess zx"

Yeah I fully get that side one thing that’s always worry’s most is that if it goes wrong then they may turn nasty and it’s horrible to hear when people are dicks and out people!

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By *rinceandPrincess2000Couple
over a year ago

this one


"Localish . If I like them then we can meet more regular and I love a last minute booty call to mine , just makes this possible . Princess zx

Yeah I fully get that side one thing that’s always worry’s most is that if it goes wrong then they may turn nasty and it’s horrible to hear when people are dicks and out people! "

Yeah thats always a risk , I try hard to be picky , always meet for social away from home etc chat for ages first , never meet too often to avoid any full on attachment , only meet people with verifications etc x but yeah always a risk I suppose x ty fir your thoughts , I will certainly try and be careful

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield


"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area?? "

Doesn't matter what you prefer, profile doesn't get read anyway.

Mrs

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By *oodcock2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area??

Doesn't matter what you prefer, profile doesn't get read anyway.

Mrs"

Yeah this is a true point, I don’t get why most men don’t read a profile

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Same as others, we prefer localish. Bumping into someone from fab on school run..with his wife (not so single then) isn't ideal. Learned our lesson (and will be reminded of it for next several years )

Equally the visiting guy from over an hour away we'd love to see more regularly but just not realistic

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area?? "

Are you asking purely out of interest or because you’re trying to work out whether it’s better to set your location to begin local to a couple or to being far away and saying you’ll be visiting the area?

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area?? "

We prefer to play away

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By *immy0169Man
over a year ago

london

Are u interested for younger bulls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't play locally

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By *immy0169Man
over a year ago

london

Im in cyprus

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By *oodcock2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area??

Are you asking purely out of interest or because you’re trying to work out whether it’s better to set your location to begin local to a couple or to being far away and saying you’ll be visiting the area?"

No just wanted to see what people opinions are on it! That’s the point of a forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definatley don't shit where we eat and nobody gets near our family home. Clubs or hotels a minimum 20 miles away. Don't want the kids answering the door to some pissed up wanker looking for a follow up meet because he's horny and thought it was a good idea after a slab of Stella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very happy either way

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By *ung nine inchMan
over a year ago

leeds

We love to share

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

If we were to meet a single guy we'd prefer them to be from away

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow


"We definatley don't shit where we eat and nobody gets near our family home. Clubs or hotels a minimum 20 miles away. Don't want the kids answering the door to some pissed up wanker looking for a follow up meet because he's horny and thought it was a good idea after a slab of Stella."

This is our fear if we met local

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Never shit on your own doorstep.

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This.... We don't meet men but wouldn't meet a woman/couple too local, I prefer a little distance.

Mrs

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Done play too close, prefer some distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't do repeat meets so it makes very little difference to us

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By *amrachCouple
over a year ago

Ruthin

Prefer distance but happy with local for the right guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance like when we have a night away somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A happy medium, not a traveller but not too local.

Other side of town or on the outskirts kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to travel

Town to small it’s bad enough people knowing your business before you done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are neither here nor there on it to be honest.

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By *iamond couple twoCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Local every time

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Local, distance doesn’t really work for us

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

I have found it's 50/50, met locals and when away in other parts of the country x

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We play often with single females, so that’s at ours in general, single guys occasionally but nearly always a club. We’ve always been open to girls and couples staying over as many travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not local. Visiting the area once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to have a buddy that lasted for over a decade. We prefer someone relatively local, perhaps 10-30 miles away, not on the doorstep so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from the same street

A bit of distance is better

Mrs C

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Localish is fine, we want to build a connection with someone and have at least the option to meet more than once.

I'd be hesitant to meet someone super close, like within a couple of miles, as the likelihood of bumping into someone we know would be increased.

We are happy to travel too, esp if meeting couples that go to same clubs as us for example

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By *oodcock2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

It looks like the swinging community is very 50/50 I like it! I understand both sides really well it’s all about risk/reward and I get the one stop areas because it don’t bring risk, but whatever your opinion enjoy every you can because you only live once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We fine local meetings best as long distance meetings to hard to arrange, we can’t accommodate so always meet at there’s whoever we meet after we have chatted but we understand that everyone has there own preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longer we are on the site, the more we realise the most common used phrase on single male profiles is “discretion a must”

Unless you keep uploading content you disappear off the face of the earth.

Most just don’t both to read profiles.

Swinging is not an easy lifestyle.

Distance becoming subjective if you actual want to connect with the right people.

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By *immy0169Man
over a year ago

london

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By *immy0169Man
over a year ago

london

So i would love to know more about u guys

Are u into long distance and also u prefer to build a relationship with a guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we was active definitely localish so we could repeat if all enjoyed themselves enough.

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