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By *onsw16 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales

Standard/cut and paste messages - a complete no-no, or an acceptable way to make an initial intro?

(and I'm talking ones that a) have content more than just 'hey' and b) are at least slightly responsive to what people say on their profile)

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Standard/cut and paste messages - a complete no-no, or an acceptable way to make an initial intro?

(and I'm talking ones that a) have content more than just 'hey' and b) are at least slightly responsive to what people say on their profile)"

Some guys sent me without changing names.lol

Pure laziness.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

A no-no.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Why sent 10 shit messages when you can send one from the heart.

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By *onsw16 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *onsw16 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Why sent 10 shit messages when you can send one from the heart. "

ahhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste messages don't really bother me to be honest.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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Why sent 10 shit messages when you can send one from the heart.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We get a lot of copy and pastes there clearly obviously and usually don't go with anything that's on our profile despite the 1st line usually saying "I came across your profile and ......."

It just to me makes it obvious they can't be arsed.

I'd personally reply more to a Hi than I would copy and paste.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no. Its just lazy. And so often, the same guy sends the same message a few days apart cos he forgot he's messaged

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Eh, not here for it. Or 1 or 2 word messages. Lack of effort to message, tells me they'll lack effort in the bedroom too. Same as not reading a profile, they don't care enough to read so they won't care about my needs either, only their own needs.

Obviously I can't state that as fact, just my opinion based on life experiences.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Why sent 10 shit messages when you can send one from the heart. "

Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually had a copy n pasted message sent twice from someone we had actually had a meet with and had verified us, with no mention of ever having meet and clearly didn't realise. Definitely hadnt read our profile etc

We were n still are astounded at their stupidity

So not cool or clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no. Its just lazy. And

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By *onsw16 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"We actually had a copy n pasted message sent twice from someone we had actually had a meet with and had verified us, with no mention of ever having meet and clearly didn't realise. Definitely hadnt read our profile etc

We were n still are astounded at their stupidity

So not cool or clever

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate c&p messages, they’re so obvious

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Cut and Paste. Always.

Adopt this approach OP, and you will make my life much easier.

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By *onsw16 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Cut and Paste. Always.

Adopt this approach OP, and you will make my life much easier."

Never said it was my approach...!

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Definitely a no. I used to do this when I first signed up but I was rather naive back then.

Since then (in the last year and a bit), I've become a genuine swinger with my partner and brought my account back up to date (she has her own account), I now only send the occasional message and it's never a copy and paste.

As others have said, if you can't put an effort into a message then effort in the bedroom is probably lacking too.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Cut and Paste. Always.

Adopt this approach OP, and you will make my life much easier.

·

Never said it was my approach...!"

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Hence why I said "adopt".

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By *onsw16 OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Cut and Paste. Always.

Adopt this approach OP, and you will make my life much easier.

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Never said it was my approach...!

•

Hence why I said "adopt". "

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By *hrobbermanMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

No need to re-invent the wheel every time you go to type an introductory message.

Only an idiot would imagine they had to restart every single time. Get your own banter down. Hone it, polish it and get it right! Make it your best shot. Then save it. Use that as your template from now on.

Then add a little personalised waffle which is tailored to the particular profile you are aiming at... at that time.

SEND.

This wont guarantee you a reply (or even a read) but it will save you the time and heartache of your each-uniquely-chiselled-message getting ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man gets horny and creates account.

Man send C&P message to everyone they find nearby or in local updates.

Man gets sad they get no replies and deletes account.

Man gets horny a few days later and creates account.

Man sends their trusty C&P message they sent a few days ago and gets no reply then gets sad again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why sent 10 shit messages when you can send one from the heart. "

Cos it's easy, just like all the women on here since they jist want a fuck and are as desperate as I am

I'd like to clarify that in case the sarcasm/attempted joke didn't come across, it was meant as such. Please don't come at me with hate

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