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Banging your head against a brick wall

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Sorry, but time for another rant/vent.

I'm sick and tired of getting message after message from individuals, even after no replies. So I'm here to ask for insight.

Why do you ignore the warning message about spamming without reply? Do you think this is appealing?

Frankly I don't find it flattering or whatever to get 5 to 10 messages a day, sometimes within minutes if I'm being honest after I've left them on read.

Please take the damn hint.

I've tried the polite "No thanks" to all message to be polite. I get abuse.

I've tried ignoring them. I get abuse.

I've tried ignoring before eventually politely declining and this seems to bring out the worst abuse.

So please tell me. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete and block".

Take the messaging pests out of the loop so they can't keep blasting you with repeated messages.

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


""Delete and block".

Take the messaging pests out of the loop so they can't keep blasting you with repeated messages."

Should it really get to that point though? I get what you're saying, I've just never been one to block people. Looks like I'll need to get friendly with that button to protect my sanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your getting constant messages of 'why' then look at it this way, not respecting your decision and therefore not your cup of tea so use the block button for that reason x

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Delete and block

Use the filters and stop the messages in the first place

Don’t let em get ya down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d go with block. I have a rule - after 5 messages i block. Simples. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the friend only message box and bulk delete the rest . I bulk delete all my messages at the end of most nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% if they can’t respect you enough to get the hint then just block , they’ll get the hint then haha. Our block list is longer than our friends list at this point

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