FabSwingers.com forum: No pics because of work

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

To be fair there are some jobs (teacher, member of Parliament etc) where being outed as a member here could be very bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily put body pics in my public gallery but definitely not face pics. They are private and will remain so. Primarily because I've seen people on here from work and if I was daft enough to be discovered (like they might be), I would lose my job, end of story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair there are some jobs (teacher, member of Parliament etc) where being outed as a member here could be very bad."

Precisely....

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I dont put face pics on, not because of work but simply because I feel safer only allowing people I choose to see me. My choice and I accept that people may pass me by because of this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh we get that but what I ment was no pics at all, all our photos of faces are private and will remain in there we just don't get the people that won't post any at all or even send them in a message

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"Oh we get that but what I ment was no pics at all, all our photos of faces are private and will remain in there we just don't get the people that won't post any at all or even send them in a message

ooooh, in that case agree with you, I would happily send a pic in a message once i had confirmed exactly who i was in contact with etc.

No pics at all to me is suspicious

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"I dont put face pics on, not because of work but simply because I feel safer only allowing people I choose to see me. My choice and I accept that people may pass me by because of this."

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Oh we get that but what I ment was no pics at all, all our photos of faces are private and will remain in there we just don't get the people that won't post any at all or even send them in a message

I like the ones who don't upload pics on here but are happy to text them. Nice try getting my phone number but it aint happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are jobs where you shouldn't have public photo's on social networking sites though.

My T can't have his pic public on this profile but we have private ones,and that is due to his job there are certain people he has to deal with,he would rather not know he is a swinger.

Also he doesn't want his colleagues knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyone on here who wouldn't be caused a problem by people at work knowing they swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are jobs where you shouldn't have public photo's on social networking sites though.

My T can't have his pic public on this profile but we have private ones,and that is due to his job there are certain people he has to deal with,he would rather not know he is a swinger.

Also he doesn't want his colleagues knowing."

But wouldn't the people who recognise you on here recognise your other half by association?

We often think this were only one half of a couple show their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone on here who wouldn't be caused a problem by people at work knowing they swing?"

We both have front-line public jobs and most ppl we work with know our background..........never had a problem.

We've always found in this case that honesty is the best policy.

It certainly beats waiting for the hammer to fall when you least expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i don't really come into contact with his colleagues.

And its not so much them even though he wouldn't broadcast it,its more the day to day people he has to deal with and he doesn't work near home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have single guys message me all

The time saying they don't have pics because of work . I just deleat them as no way in hell I am meeting a guy I haven't seen a face pic of . All my face pics are privet as well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have single guys message me all

The time saying they don't have pics because of work . I just deleat them as no way in hell I am meeting a guy I haven't seen a face pic of . All my face pics are privet as well xx "

Its more likely their wives they worry about not their work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have single guys message me all

The time saying they don't have pics because of work . I just deleat them as no way in hell I am meeting a guy I haven't seen a face pic of . All my face pics are privet as well xx

Its more likely their wives they worry about not their work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do members make first contact,then when you ask for facials,you never hear from them again.

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By *eal_Dick_TurpinMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I have single guys message me all

The time saying they don't have pics because of work . I just deleat them as no way in hell I am meeting a guy I haven't seen a face pic of . All my face pics are privet as well xx "

"Delete" and "Private" are the words you are looking for...

I note also you have no face pic on your profile in the public section, just a pic of some legs in tights, yet demand that anyone contacting you must send a face pic, or else.

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

"To be fair there are some jobs (teacher, member of Parliament etc) where being outed as a member here could be very bad."

Spot on.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Some people have very public facing jobs. The last thing they want is to be recognised whilst asking "Would you like to go large with that sir?"

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By *anda man.Man
over a year ago

Stockport

How right you are mate..loads of women on here do that,high heels,stockings and a cleavage,very rare a mug shot.

Prefer pics of a pussy and tits myself anyway.

Womens faces don't matter that much on Fab...when you do see a profile face on here most Guys just imagine how it would look with their cock in their mouth or how it'd look covered in spunk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Perhaps they are all porn stars and just dont want to be identified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have very public facing jobs. The last thing they want is to be recognised whilst asking "Would you like to go large with that sir?""

really doesn't everybody on here have a life they keep separate from this?If somebody feels so paranoid about their privacy perhaps they shouldn't swing at all,we won't meet any guy without seeing what they look like and would expect the same thing from them:-its a swinging site not a blind dating site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Because they don't want any.

Whatever the reason, it's up to them to display pictures or not to display pictures, likewise it's up to you if you want to message or ignore them

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Some people have very public facing jobs. The last thing they want is to be recognised whilst asking "Would you like to go large with that sir?"

Whoosh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How right you are mate..loads of women on here do that,high heels,stockings and a cleavage,very rare a mug shot.

Prefer pics of a pussy and tits myself anyway.

Womens faces don't matter that much on Fab...when you do see a profile face on here most Guys just imagine how it would look with their cock in their mouth or how it'd look covered in spunk."

Charming I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg ryan can i sit on you xxx

i keep my face pics private

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

Slightly off topic but I saw a profile of someone who didn't accommodate because they were 'professional'...must only want to visit scumbags then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have single guys message me all

The time saying they don't have pics because of work . I just deleat them as no way in hell I am meeting a guy I haven't seen a face pic of . All my face pics are privet as well xx

"Delete" and "Private" are the words you are looking for...

I note also you have no face pic on your profile in the public section, just a pic of some legs in tights, yet demand that anyone contacting you must send a face pic, or else.

Ur point?

Nothing wrong with sending face pics privately..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Because they don't want any.

Whatever the reason, it's up to them to display pictures or not to display pictures, likewise it's up to you if you want to message or ignore them"

Surely its no hardship for some to explain why tho :/

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By *herokee18Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Some professions, have it written into their constitution that certain acts or behaviours could bring the profession into disrepute and consequently result in being struck off.

Our face pics are private so we can be selective and show them to folk we are interested in not just window shoppers.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"omg ryan can i sit on you xxx

i keep my face pics private"

Are your legs tired?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Is there anyone on here who wouldn't be caused a problem by people at work knowing they swing?"

Cant see why it would be a problem my boss is on gaydar

.. He met his partner through it. Same difference isnt it.!;)

He knows I go to Kestrels too and one of our clients goes there also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone on here who wouldn't be caused a problem by people at work knowing they swing?"

We are totally honest - everyone we know knows what we do and its not remotely a problem.... why should it be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Because they don't want any.

Whatever the reason, it's up to them to display pictures or not to display pictures, likewise it's up to you if you want to message or ignore them

Surely its no hardship for some to explain why tho :/"

Why should they explain anything ? it's their profile and it's up to them what they do with it and they have no requirement to explain it to anyone

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Get off your high horse!

If my picture came up on a site like this, my credibility at work would be gone overnight.

Currently I have the respect of several MD's at my company and am working my way up. I'm not prepared to jeopardise that because someone like you thinks my career isn't as important as a few crappy pictures on public view here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quote as above - If my picture came up on a site like this, my credibility at work would be gone overnight.

This and I would also like to shield from family and friends. We have no face pics on here currently and as others have said, if that's an issue please move onto the next profile.

Been here before and sent face pics out as and when requested, it's not got us many meets so much happier being more discreet now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Get off your high horse!

If my picture came up on a site like this, my credibility at work would be gone overnight.

If u don't read the whole thread why answer?

The OP clearly stated a few messages in that they didn't mean face pics (which wasn't mentioned) they were saying people say this for not having ANY pics on the site

One person reads the OP wrong and everyone jumps on that bandwagon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree I mean I don't have face picture in gallery but hiden if anybody wants to see it and I want him to see it I will forward it on so if people say they can't even put a photo on to only share who they want to but they are happy to share phone number and email???? I don't talk to that person as to me that sounds doggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Get off your high horse!

If my picture came up on a site like this, my credibility at work would be gone overnight.

If u don't read the whole thread why answer?

The OP clearly stated a few messages in that they didn't mean face pics (which wasn't mentioned) they were saying people say this for not having ANY pics on the site

One person reads the OP wrong and everyone jumps on that bandwagon lol"

New thread required for lazy readers - add me to the list

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

"Why do members make first contact,then when you ask for facials,you never hear from them again. "

Lol..... Maybe asking for a facial straight away is a bit much !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We choose to have face pictures in private but do friends invites so we can see each others in private, the amount of invites we get where there are no face pictures in private gallery is too many, whats the point in having similar photos in public and private?

Oh and for those who say it doesnt matter if their boss/colleagues/customers know that they are swingers then you must have very laid back people who you work with, I know in my job I would be disaplined/dismissed straight away, just imagine how a sexual discrimination case would go against a single male swinger? I can see the headlines now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Get off your high horse!

If my picture came up on a site like this, my credibility at work would be gone overnight.

If u don't read the whole thread why answer?

The OP clearly stated a few messages in that they didn't mean face pics (which wasn't mentioned) they were saying people say this for not having ANY pics on the site

One person reads the OP wrong and everyone jumps on that bandwagon lol

New thread required for lazy readers - add me to the list

Ooopps me too

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Get off your high horse!

If my picture came up on a site like this, my credibility at work would be gone overnight.

If u don't read the whole thread why answer?

The OP clearly stated a few messages in that they didn't mean face pics (which wasn't mentioned) they were saying people say this for not having ANY pics on the site

One person reads the OP wrong and everyone jumps on that bandwagon lol"

The OP should have been clear in their OP. As it happens, I have several identifying features even if my face isn't shown so my post still stands.

It's up to each individual if they don't post pics for whatever reason and not for anyone else to ridicule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"omg ryan can i sit on you xxx

i keep my face pics private

Are your legs tired?"

no i wanna ride your cock xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Get off your high horse!

If my picture came up on a site like this, my credibility at work would be gone overnight.

If u don't read the whole thread why answer?

The OP clearly stated a few messages in that they didn't mean face pics (which wasn't mentioned) they were saying people say this for not having ANY pics on the site

One person reads the OP wrong and everyone jumps on that bandwagon lol

The OP should have been clear in their OP. As it happens, I have several identifying features even if my face isn't shown so my post still stands.

It's up to each individual if they don't post pics for whatever reason and not for anyone else to ridicule "

Where in the OP was it not clear? They clearly said 'don't have any pics' face pic was never mentioned..

Plus u say u have identifying features yet u do have pics so ur not even one of the profiles the OP was talking about

Some people have just feet on their profiles.. Or chests.. Or bums.. I think people are just baffled why such pics would identify them to work collegues

Plus if a work collugue is on here are they not put in the position of 'why r u looking at sites like that' and in the same boat..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not saying face pics at all we don't have those publicly I ment pictures in general or even those people that refuse to send them all together that's all

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

"Why do so many people not have pics because of their work? I mean there is isn't that many jobs at MI5?

Just venting

Mainly its because a lot of folk are too far up their own as++s

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"omg ryan can i sit on you xxx

i keep my face pics private

Are your legs tired?

no i wanna ride your cock xxx"

Don't go beating around the bush now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get why people hide their face pics and only wish for the people that they are meeting to view their face. Still quite puzzled at people that tell me they'd like to meet on a specific date yet refuse to send a face pic. Does anyone meet without seeing one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have very public facing jobs. The last thing they want is to be recognised whilst asking "Would you like to go large with that sir?"

Whoosh"

Think we may have not been clear:-we don't expect or want anybody to have any public pics but feel if anybody wants to meet anybody for any reason,not just for sex,they should be prepared to show the other person what they look like by using a private pic,an email away from the site or a mms message etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can get why people hide their face pics and only wish for the people that they are meeting to view their face. Still quite puzzled at people that tell me they'd like to meet on a specific date yet refuse to send a face pic. Does anyone meet without seeing one?

no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a way on here of stopping your profile by being seen on a google search. It can prevent people from seeing you that don't swing themselves. If they swing too or they have at least registered on the site and are able to see your face pic then they too are in the same boat surely?

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