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"Hi all.. We wondered if any/many had come accross the jealous swinger swinger type... Not the ones who have issues when you play as such but the ones who hate the thought you may actually play with others too. We have had it happen a few times now each resulting in us not seeing a perfectly nice couple because of their issues with us seeing another. We just think its nuts to get the hump over a couple you see seeing someone else too.. Its part of the reason we never post who we play with in validations.. Anyone else?? Mike and Ju x " I had an experience last year on another site that went well beyond jealousy... it went into the far advanced terrain of ‘f*cked up individual’. I should have seen it coming when a female sent me a pm out of the blue saying she had a ‘special’ relationship with a guy I was arranging to meet. Anyway sometime went by and said guy didn’t show up for an arranged meet and tried fobbing me off with a stack of bullshit. The female is in touch like a shot asking if I’ll be in touch with him again, what had he said, what had we planned to do and so on. Once she gets the idea I’m not too keen (to say the least) making any further plans with the guy, she starts telling me the guy is accusing me of what boils down to being sexual assault. She claimed the guy had told her he was 100% straight and had no interest in being orally-bi (shows how well she knew him) and that he’d said he had fobbed off the arranged meet because I had previously forced him to suck on men’s cocks against his will….wtf!!!!!!!! Now just how sick is someone who: 1 – would make some shit like that up just to make sure you didn’t arrange to meet her ‘special friend’ again. 2 – would want to make anyone feel so fucking bad - thinking that something like that had been said about them. 3 – would think you’d just sit back and say fuck all about it. 4 – would try and drop their ’special friend’ in such potentially deep shit just to knock someone else out of the picture. 5 – and then starts telling you how much they want to fuck you!!!! Some people should carry f*cking health warnings! | |||
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"Hi all.. We wondered if any/many had come across the jealous swinger swinger type... Not the ones who have issues when you play as such but the ones who hate the thought you may actually play with others too. We have had it happen a few times now each resulting in us not seeing a perfectly nice couple because of their issues with us seeing another. We just think its nuts to get the hump over a couple you see seeing someone else too.. Its part of the reason we never post who we play with in validations.. Anyone else?? Mike and Ju x " I had one couple I got chatting to on msn want to video call with me - in the process of doing so someone on my contacts list logged on and sent me a "hello" message. Geez - the couple I was on video call to hit the roof: "You have someone else talking to you while you're talking to us? Sorry - we don't do multiple shaggers, bye!" A second one was a couple that live near Kent (I'm in London) but had dragged out the issue of meeting for so long, they said they preferred to meet in clubs so, if not attracted they could always just look elsewhere - the only problem is they wanted to meet in Chams (go to Birmingham to meet someone on your doorstep), did not know when exactly they would go, but also warned me off talking to others while I'm there talking to them. Am I the only one that found both cases strange? | |||
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"Darcie... Sounds more like she si insecure of her own looks and ability to pull to me.. Maybe not jealous but see's you as BIG competition so has to prove more to herself maybe.. What do I know lol..... " Maybe, although she seems to fuck everything that walks (think thats why she was shocked I turned her down), and I clearly don't - so technically im not competition at all. lol. meh, makes life entertaining i guess. | |||
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"Was this a women.............. " According to the chromosomes, yes I guess she is – if we are talking emotional intelligence and maturity then I’d say no, as ‘woman’ implies adult maturity. | |||
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"Darcie... Maybe, although she seems to fuck everything that walks (think thats why she was shocked I turned her down), and I clearly don't - so technically im not competition at all. lol. meh, makes life entertaining i guess." That actually reminds me of a fucked up individual who told me she had made it her mission to have another female from this other site because her 'special friend' wanted to have her and she wanted to rub it in that she had got there first.... (again wtf?) | |||
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" That actually reminds me of a fucked up individual who told me she had made it her mission to have another female from this other site because her 'special friend' wanted to have her and she wanted to rub it in that she had got there first.... (again wtf?) " My god, that is fucked up. She sounds quite similar to crazy fuck head I was talking about. | |||
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" That actually reminds me of a fucked up individual who told me she had made it her mission to have another female from this other site because her 'special friend' wanted to have her and she wanted to rub it in that she had got there first.... (again wtf?) My god, that is fucked up. She sounds quite similar to crazy fuck head I was talking about." I guess there are some people who have such a high need for attention it is bordering on mental disorder. Similar to 'factitious disorders' where people exaggerate the symptoms or degrees of illness to gain attention… how far down the barrel can one person scrape when it’s just about sex at the end of the day? May be we should feel sorry for the fucked up individuals we encounter or pitty them for their insecurities and constant need to be whatever it is they think their actions will make them…. unless they’ve made up crap about me committing a sexual assault one step away from rape…. then the fuckers deserve something entirely different! | |||
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" I guess there are some people who have such a high need for attention it is bordering on mental disorder. Similar to 'factitious disorders' where people exaggerate the symptoms or degrees of illness to gain attention… how far down the barrel can one person scrape when it’s just about sex at the end of the day? May be we should feel sorry for the fucked up individuals we encounter or pitty them for their insecurities and constant need to be whatever it is they think their actions will make them…. unless they’ve made up crap about me committing a sexual assault one step away from rape…. then the fuckers deserve something entirely different! " Indeed. I cling to the hope that others see such people for what they are, and the more they slip up and get picked up on it - the more people will see them for their real selves, and therefore not fall in to their traps or become victims of their stories. | |||
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"Hmm touchy subject this,Ive been thinking about asking for advice about this but was'nt sure how to word it There is some jealousy in swinging but why do some people just hate it if you get on with people they have played with or are currently playing with? Swinging is the last place I thought it would occur but then im realising I must have been naive lol We were in a situation recently where the single guy playmate of a couple we know showed an interest and boy he is gorgeous but the female half of the couple made it very difficult for him..it was very cloak and dagger and eventually we managed to exchange numbers but im left feeling really guilty and wondering why on earth I should feel like this We hav'nt met this guy yet because I feel like im taking something that does'nt belong to me " Mwahahahahaha good things come to those who wait Jealousy should have no place in swinging and people that behave all territorial end up with no playmates lol | |||
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" Mwahahahahaha good things come to those who wait " Details! Details! Don't just leave us hanging! LOL ;-) | |||
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"omg! i get it all the time, some single guys are soooo mardy. Grow hairs on ur balls ffs. its a swinging site!! der!" i'd rather they didnt have hairy balls thankyou!!!!! lol | |||
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"but on a serious note, i know a few ( 6 to be exact) single guys on here who have had to delete their profile and start a new one , cuz they met a cpl, and the fem half has been so jealous and possesive, telling them who they can and cant meet !!!!!!!and if they didnt text her every day she went mad ..... wtf is that about..... oooo and she deleted their profile the other day...... maybe it back fired ,,,who knows !!!! some odd ones about !!" In that sort of situation what on earth does the husband think when his wife is behaving like that? I don't get it at all | |||
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" Mwahahahahaha good things come to those who wait Details! Details! Don't just leave us hanging! LOL ;-) " Im too much of a lady to say but I will have a smile on my face lol | |||
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"Jealousy should have no place in swinging and people that behave all territorial end up with no playmates lol " I'm sick of this... every damn time I turn my back honeypot your talking to others... this just can't go on.. if you don't curb this happy go lucky talk to anyone care free i'm happy attitude were done... over, got it!!! I mean ff's .... next you'll be wanting to have flammin sex with some of em... Jeeze.............. | |||
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"Jealousy should have no place in swinging and people that behave all territorial end up with no playmates lol I'm sick of this... every damn time I turn my back honeypot your talking to others... this just can't go on.. if you don't curb this happy go lucky talk to anyone care free i'm happy attitude were done... over, got it!!! I mean ff's .... next you'll be wanting to have flammin sex with some of em... Jeeze.............. " See what I bleeding mean!!!!! its a fecking nightmare pmsl | |||
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