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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if you are the kind of fab user to accept friend invites off anyone and everyone-the more the merrier?!

Or are you slightly protective/paranoid like me (or sensible in my opinion) and carefully select your friends?

I can't help but wonder if im being overly-cautious in not accepting friend invites from people who havent sent a message and been on the site for ages with no verifications and yet have lots of friends (only the first 20 shown)-it just screams pic collector to me and I dont fancy ending up on realukswingers.org!

So who are these people that accept the invites from dubious profiles? We've got plenty of public ones-why don't they copy and paste those?!

Grrr rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only accept requests from people we have actually met for the exact reasons you stated above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill only accept from people I feel I'd like to meet or have meet

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have actually requested that people not send me random friend requests without a chat first, especially if they live miles away.

Unfortunately they still do. Oh well, bulk delete takes but a few seconds.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Depends on the weather

Whether we like the look of them

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Wait till they are off line and have a look.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

only take invites from people we would want to meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only add people to our friends list if we have actually met them. If we are interested in meeting them we add them to our hotlist

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM


"Just wondering if you are the kind of fab user to accept friend invites off anyone and everyone-the more the merrier?!

Or are you slightly protective/paranoid like me (or sensible in my opinion) and carefully select your friends?

I can't help but wonder if im being overly-cautious in not accepting friend invites from people who havent sent a message and been on the site for ages with no verifications and yet have lots of friends (only the first 20 shown)-it just screams pic collector to me and I dont fancy ending up on realukswingers.org!

So who are these people that accept the invites from dubious profiles? We've got plenty of public ones-why don't they copy and paste those?!

Grrr rant over.

"

We only accept friends invites if we've aranged a meet or already met..

Random invites without any contact at all before hand just get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only add people to our friends list if we have actually met them. If we are interested in meeting them we add them to our hotlist "

We do exactly the same

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"I have actually requested that people not send me random friend requests without a chat first, especially if they live miles away.

Unfortunately they still do. Oh well, bulk delete takes but a few seconds. "

if you delete them they are free to send another one later

if you just leave them with out accepting or deleting them they cant send any more

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I have actually requested that people not send me random friend requests without a chat first, especially if they live miles away.

Unfortunately they still do. Oh well, bulk delete takes but a few seconds. "

Same with me. But I don't delete. I let them sit there. That way they can't send me another request can they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my friends list are ppl i know not strangers

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We only add people to our friends list if we have actually met them. If we are interested in meeting them we add them to our hotlist "

^^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept friend requests easily. Have to have chatted for a bit and/or met.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I only add friends to my list if I have

A) met them

B) planning to meet them

C) regularly interact with them

D) know the request is coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only add friends to my list if I have

A) met them

B) planning to meet them

C) regularly interact with them

D) know the request is coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept random friendship requests from anyone no matter where they live, I leave them sat there for a few weeks then mass delete and one couple have finally got the message and not requested since Christmas mmmmm wonder if they are okay

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