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By *eedsmale36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Don’t you just hate it when fellow Fabbers go UNLOS and veri’s are gone forever.

Had some great repeat veris from lovely couples but alas lost forever as they become disappointed and leave.

Oh woah is me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree! I have some really nice varis, but one by one, they gradually disappeared overtime. It makes you look like you don't have any verifications which I think puts a lot of people off.

(either that, or I'm just too old, fat and ugly lol)

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By *eedsmale36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Absolutely agree! I have some really nice varis, but one by one, they gradually disappeared overtime. It makes you look like you don't have any verifications which I think puts a lot of people off.

(either that, or I'm just too old, fat and ugly lol)"

Stay positive, there are some good people on here

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

They stay on your verification summary just not available to post publicly.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who often goes UNLOS I copy the veris I've given so I can return them when I return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you just hate it when fellow Fabbers go UNLOS and veri’s are gone forever.

Had some great repeat veris from lovely couples but alas lost forever as they become disappointed and leave.

Oh woah is me "

Same happened to me, sad.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

At least you still keep the green "meet verified" tick. Imagine what would happen if that disappeared, too.

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs

I deleted my profile instead of deactivating it for abit and lost the couple i had, now ive come back under the same name and struggeling to get a single verification. Met a singke female with no veri last week and cant veri each other

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By *eedsmale36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I deleted my profile instead of deactivating it for abit and lost the couple i had, now ive come back under the same name and struggeling to get a single verification. Met a singke female with no veri last week and cant veri each other"

At least you got a meet, focus on the positives

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs


"I deleted my profile instead of deactivating it for abit and lost the couple i had, now ive come back under the same name and struggeling to get a single verification. Met a singke female with no veri last week and cant veri each other

At least you got a meet, focus on the positives "

To be honest ive had a few meets on here but ive been here over 10 years in total

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that in the beginning having no verifications was a pain, then once you get a couple of varis the meets start to come much faster. Then, once your varis disappear, so do the meets.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Don’t you just hate it when fellow Fabbers go UNLOS and veri’s are gone forever.

Had some great repeat veris from lovely couples but alas lost forever as they become disappointed and leave.

Oh woah is me "

not really

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

It would be nice if they could stay and the name chances to "user no longer a member" or similar, like it shows on forum threads

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Don’t you just hate it when fellow Fabbers go UNLOS and veri’s are gone forever.

Had some great repeat veris from lovely couples but alas lost forever as they become disappointed and leave.

Oh woah is me "

Not done this myself, as veris aren't my thing, but you could take a screen shot of them and then send them to thise you communicate with.

Not great advertising, but good references

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"It would be nice if they could stay and the name chances to "user no longer a member" or similar, like it shows on forum threads "

Agree

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Don’t you just hate it when fellow Fabbers go UNLOS and veri’s are gone forever.

Had some great repeat veris from lovely couples but alas lost forever as they become disappointed and leave.

Oh woah is me "

dunno what to tell you mate: apart from zero effort, zero reward.

I put a certain level of effort into my individual male harem, swingers clubs and social outings. Luckily as a woman, I've never had to ask for any verifications even though I'm not everyone's cup of tea.

I do check in with my male harem and my friends list to see how they are actually doing as a human being and it goes both ways. It doesn't work well for me to see sex without seeing the human. Even then they are free to leave the site/lifestyle but at least this way I get a heads-up before. I definitely advocate them putting their mental and physical health first before sex.

I also put a certain level of effort into my profile and my mental health. So I can just log off until I feel ready to go again instead of completely deleting/bridge burning and having to start from scratch again.

If you look at my verifications they are a mixture of socials, club meets, hotels and a few people I trust enough to go to their home. In that way I'm always still meeting new people even in a non-play way so verifications aren't that important to me.

Maybe it's easier for women...I don't know but then I've seen women and couples here complain about the meets too..just a bit less than men.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Don’t you just hate it when fellow Fabbers go UNLOS and veri’s are gone forever.

Had some great repeat veris from lovely couples but alas lost forever as they become disappointed and leave.

Oh woah is me

Not done this myself, as veris aren't my thing, but you could take a screen shot of them and then send them to thise you communicate with.

Not great advertising, but good references "

Good idea on the screenshot especially if they use your old name in the verification.

It might be a London thing but I'm constantly meeting new people and I find it fascinating....even when sex is not involved....

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By *eedsmale36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Don’t you just hate it when fellow Fabbers go UNLOS and veri’s are gone forever.

Had some great repeat veris from lovely couples but alas lost forever as they become disappointed and leave.

Oh woah is me

dunno what to tell you mate: apart from zero effort, zero reward.

I put a certain level of effort into my individual male harem, swingers clubs and social outings. Luckily as a woman, I've never had to ask for any verifications even though I'm not everyone's cup of tea.

I do check in with my male harem and my friends list to see how they are actually doing as a human being and it goes both ways. It doesn't work well for me to see sex without seeing the human. Even then they are free to leave the site/lifestyle but at least this way I get a heads-up before. I definitely advocate them putting their mental and physical health first before sex.

I also put a certain level of effort into my profile and my mental health. So I can just log off until I feel ready to go again instead of completely deleting/bridge burning and having to start from scratch again.

If you look at my verifications they are a mixture of socials, club meets, hotels and a few people I trust enough to go to their home. In that way I'm always still meeting new people even in a non-play way so verifications aren't that important to me.

Maybe it's easier for women...I don't know but then I've seen women and couples here complain about the meets too..just a bit less than men."

I’m doing alright, I’m getting good grades the futures so bright I gotta wear shades

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Absolutely agree! I have some really nice varis, but one by one, they gradually disappeared overtime. It makes you look like you don't have any verifications which I think puts a lot of people off.

(either that, or I'm just too old, fat and ugly lol)"

Noted. Unfortunately, As an older single man, you have to work a lot harder on your social/sex life.

As an older single chubby black neurodivergent woman, I have to work harder too.

As most people get older, their drive disappears, and they are more burdened with illness and in some cases family obligations. Heck even Elton John married and had kids at age 67.

My non-swinger similar-age, friends, I barely see because of work, parenting, childcare and elderly care.

Recovery time is longer too...Instead of staying in my bed alone yesterday from my manual job, I decided to have a morning video call and afternoon hard fucking ( with an older gentleman) and an evening high street shopping.

Now my knee hurts and my brain put me to sleep after my training session today....If I'm like this at 40-something imagine in 10 year/20 years...if I make it that far..two of my uncles died early 50s and one other uncle never made it to 65. I remember my parents starting to go to a lot of funerals after they passed aged 40.

I have a filofax where I put in my swinger activities, my health appointments and my "move my ass or lose it" exercise so that I keep up with it all and don't feel deprived or like at old cat lady...( i own no cats) and I have some recovery time for my joints and muscles. Lol!

It's great sitting in the pub or at home ( the pub is next door, I use my own wifi there) but it doesn't get me a shag or great pictures. Lol!

From my younger than you perspective...you could update your profile....I suggested this to a playmate....Up to get the younger generation you need Instagram-worthy photos that don't have to be based on youth, muscles, and facial symmetry.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


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dunno what to tell you mate: apart from zero effort, zero reward.

I put a certain level of effort into my individual male harem, swingers clubs and social outings. Luckily as a woman, I've never had to ask for any verifications even though I'm not everyone's cup of tea.

I do check in with my male harem and my friends list to see how they are actually doing as a human being and it goes both ways. It doesn't work well for me to see sex without seeing the human. Even then they are free to leave the site/lifestyle but at least this way I get a heads-up before. I definitely advocate them putting their mental and physical health first before sex.

I also put a certain level of effort into my profile and my mental health. So I can just log off until I feel ready to go again instead of completely deleting/bridge burning and having to start from scratch again.

If you look at my verifications they are a mixture of socials, club meets, hotels and a few people I trust enough to go to their home. In that way I'm always still meeting new people even in a non-play way so verifications aren't that important to me.

Maybe it's easier for women...I don't know but then I've seen women and couples here complain about the meets too..just a bit less than men.

I’m doing alright, I’m getting good grades the futures so bright I gotta wear shades "

at 71 meets and the most recent in 2 months and only one photo...I would say so! Better than most single men!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

Shame I like hiding down south in London, OP.

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By *eedsmale36 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Shame I like hiding down south in London, OP.

"

It is a shame, I had you pencilled in for number 72

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