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"Can this every be achieved. It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards." I’d be more than up for something like that but I’m probably too far away for you two | |||
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"What age range are you classing as younger?" ideally mid 20s to late 30s | |||
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"What age range are you classing as younger?ideally mid 20s to late 30s" If I was closer and Naomi agreed I’d love to have taken that opportunity. Take you out for meals and dates and then spend time at yours as a 3. Lots of fun to be had | |||
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"I need to move up north This sort of arrangements hard to come by down this way " Exactly, up north is where it seems to be happening | |||
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"Can this every be achieved. It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards." Would love this situation! Had it many years ago! | |||
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"Can this every be achieved. It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards." I think it is quite a specialised area which most men don't completely understand. It's seems ideal, but being someone's second option, can cause issues. What seems an "ideal situation" can lead to drift and then thay move on to pastures new. So it is not unusual for it to be difficult to find. Good luck in your search. | |||
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"god i wished i was young again.." Me too . | |||
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"Still looking " Me too | |||
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"Seeing the same guy is possiblty of them falling in love, possilby" I disagree, not if all boundaries are kept. I always knew that I was only there to enhance THEIR sex life. | |||
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"We've explored this too but it's hard to find someone that lasts. It's a delicate balance, there's fun in flirting and chatting, meeting up but it all has to be with some level of my husband's involvement. Group chats where he can see me flirt etc work well but we've yet to meet a guy that's interested in something long term and not just a few quick meets." It most definitely has to involve the both of you. A couple I played with for eight years, I met them through a contract magazine, if I saw her alone which was quite often, we would always take photos or video so she could show him. I would also mark her on occasion, a love bite on her thigh for example, apparently he would always push her across the dining room table and they would have some of the best sex, after she met with me. So they told me. | |||
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"Seeing the same guy is possiblty of them falling in love, possilby I disagree, not if all boundaries are kept. I always knew that I was only there to enhance THEIR sex life. " I disagree completely as I've seen and heard pleanty of times "we just fell in love and am really sorry if I hurt you..." | |||
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"Although I am a similar age to my hotwife fwb, I have been her regular lover for around 8 years now, and her husband accepts his cuckold position in their relationship " Oh I would love this scenario | |||
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"Seeing the same guy is possiblty of them falling in love, possilby I disagree, not if all boundaries are kept. I always knew that I was only there to enhance THEIR sex life. I disagree completely as I've seen and heard pleanty of times "we just fell in love and am really sorry if I hurt you..."" Then I'll agree to disagree. I would suggest their relationship wasn't as strong as it should be. I've always known exactly boundaries and respected their relationship. If I ever felt someone was getting too close and I felt it was on one occasion, I would step back and end things. | |||
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"we have been discussing this relationship and would love to chat to other couples who have a regular lover to understand the dynamic and any avoidable pitfalls" important to consider both pros and cons | |||
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"Although I am a similar age to my hotwife fwb, I have been her regular lover for around 8 years now, and her husband accepts his cuckold position in their relationship Oh I would love this scenario " It works for us, and I'm sure you wouldn't have any trouble finding a similar arrangement | |||
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"Although I am a similar age to my hotwife fwb, I have been her regular lover for around 8 years now, and her husband accepts his cuckold position in their relationship Oh I would love this scenario It works for us, and I'm sure you wouldn't have any trouble finding a similar arrangement " I've been trying for 3 years now! | |||
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"I'm 100%% sure this can be achieved,there are hundreds of young men wanted a regular thing so I wouldn't of thought it wouldn't be achievable " You try striking up conversations, and chatting to fellas, then they don't show up for a social or they ghost you. As I said 3 years I've been looking now.. | |||
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"I'm 100%% sure this can be achieved,there are hundreds of young men wanted a regular thing so I wouldn't of thought it wouldn't be achievable You try striking up conversations, and chatting to fellas, then they don't show up for a social or they ghost you. As I said 3 years I've been looking now.. " Have any of the previous guys you've met not wanted to meet again and then it could progress to regular? | |||
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"Ruth has a regular boyfriend. He is 10 years younger than her. It works very well for us. And I really enjoy welcoming her home after a night or weekend away. " That's just great to hear and that it works so well for both of you. | |||
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"Although I am a similar age to my hotwife fwb, I have been her regular lover for around 8 years now, and her husband accepts his cuckold position in their relationship Oh I would love this scenario " I had a regular couple some years ago when I was touring around norfolk. Im at the other end of the country to them now. The good thing about them, they were good fun in and out of bed | |||
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"Can this every be achieved. It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards." Judging by the pictures on your profile your wife looks absolutely incredible so it’s hard to understand why it’s so difficult for you to find a regular boyfriend for her. I can imagine any man would be happy to have a regular girlfriend with a body as sexy as your wife’s. | |||
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"The hotel balcony picture (August 2023) on our profile was taken by Ruth”s boyfriend during a hotel/spa weekend away together. " Love the picture, she’s a very sexy woman. | |||
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"Think problem with wifes preference for younger guy has the drawback off them being less mature in their mindset. They sometimes lack the knowledge what keeps a mature woman continually horny by constantly turning her on by mind games if makes sense. " What sort of mind games do you mean? | |||
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"I'm 100%% sure this can be achieved,there are hundreds of young men wanted a regular thing so I wouldn't of thought it wouldn't be achievable You try striking up conversations, and chatting to fellas, then they don't show up for a social or they ghost you. As I said 3 years I've been looking now.. Have any of the previous guys you've met not wanted to meet again and then it could progress to regular? " Oh they say they do, then we meet once or twice then they just ghost me! | |||
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"Do hotwives meet couples regularly or is that a completely different subject and title? " Well as you mentioned it ! I'm a hotwife meeting a couple tonight and hopefully it becomes regular x | |||
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"I need to move up north This sort of arrangements hard to come by down this way Exactly, up north is where it seems to be happening " It happens all over apart from around here i sometimes wonder if females and couples chat to guys miles away so a meet or anything will never happen. | |||
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"Regular arrangement with a couple, which develops into a relationship with the wife is an ideal situation for me. Was lucky to had some great experiences with older couples and that's definitely something I'd like to explore more. So if anyone is interested, feel free to get in touch. If only I was closer to Manchester, would pursue relationship with the OP... x" Wish my wife played ..ud be ideal ! | |||
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"Still looking " wow i dont believe your finding it hard to find someone in here pitty 60 is no good x | |||
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"Do hotwives meet couples regularly or is that a completely different subject and title? Well as you mentioned it ! I'm a hotwife meeting a couple tonight and hopefully it becomes regular x" wow you look stunning in your pics you near oldham if it dont work out i would love to meet you oldham here | |||
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"I'm 100%% sure this can be achieved,there are hundreds of young men wanted a regular thing so I wouldn't of thought it wouldn't be achievable You try striking up conversations, and chatting to fellas, then they don't show up for a social or they ghost you. As I said 3 years I've been looking now.. Have any of the previous guys you've met not wanted to meet again and then it could progress to regular? Oh they say they do, then we meet once or twice then they just ghost me! " not meeting the right one here i am come and ask me | |||
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"Can this every be achieved. It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards." Yes, possible. With hubby blessings would be ideal scenario for me. But not just for fuck. Going on a dates, short travels for odd weekend etc. Anyone in SE London or kent looking for this - shout my way | |||
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"Similar to us. Wife likes to meet hot sexy guys but struggle to find genuine guys that are single and up for regular meets and dates. Putting me in my cuck position " Very well said x | |||
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"Can this every be achieved. It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards." It’s what we want for my guy too! Finding it difficult for anyone to want him due to the fact of me (fem half) - which I find odd as I’m totally on board with it lol | |||
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"Can this every be achieved. It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards." It’s what we want for my guy too! Finding it difficult for anyone to want him due to the fact of me (fem half) - which I find odd as I’m totally on board with it lol | |||
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"So funny seeing all these hot women trying to find a young scamp to have fuck them every day .. you need to go older to find regularity .. young guys just get bored with the same woman. Nothing to do with looks or personality or anything.. it's simply the thrill of someone new is more exciting.. it never leaves some of us, rest of us have learned how to switch it off in a committed relationship. " And young guys can never commit to an open relationship. | |||
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"Can this every be achieved. It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards." I've wanted a regular 'boyfriend' for so long, not just for sex but to go out on dates etc,but most turn out to be one-offs or only turn up when they want something from me. | |||
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"Like many on here we’re looking for a regular, not a boyfriend but someone who can meet as part of a 3x and with Starchild alone….very hard to find on here but also very hard to find in clubs as well these days (but we’ll keep looking) " We have a guy we meet as often as we wish and sometimes Marie meets him on her own | |||
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