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Couples and rules.

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By *ichael smith79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Im part of a couples profile on here, aswell as having a 'solo' profile (which really is a waste of time).

I was wondering if any other couples here have any rules with regards to the female meeting solo ?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We have one simple rule: before anything happens with another person, we request consent from each other. This way, we both know what’s happening, and it gives us both the chance to discuss any concerns before any intimacy occurs. It’s a simple, basic rule that has always worked for us.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

very similar to above we both need to know and agree before anything happens

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Simple rule.

No solo meets until we have met as a couple several times.

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By *ichael smith79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?

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By *ichael smith79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Simple rule.

No solo meets until we have met as a couple several times. "

And this reply sums it up for me...

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It does not really matter what rules other couples have, relationships are all different.

You as a couple make your own rules that you are both happy with within your relationship.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?"

Of course yes. Communication is the absolutely essential ingredient to successfully indulging a more open lifestyle.

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By *ichael smith79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?

Of course yes. Communication is the absolutely essential ingredient to successfully indulging a more open lifestyle. "

But ultimately that all goes out the window if one person think they don't need to discuss with the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have boundaries for either meeting in a solo situation. Our boundaries are personal things we do not want to share outside just us but they are not set by the other person.

Sometimes one will set goals or tasks or limits for the other to achieve during the meet. It adds to the connection between us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does not really matter what rules other couples have, relationships are all different.

You as a couple make your own rules that you are both happy with within your relationship."

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Not rules as such, we don't tell eachother what to do. We talk about everything though. Neither of us would do something that could deliberately harm the other or our relationship but we don't dictate what we can and can't do.

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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf


"Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?

Of course yes. Communication is the absolutely essential ingredient to successfully indulging a more open lifestyle.

But ultimately that all goes out the window if one person think they don't need to discuss with the other "

Then I'd suggest that couple were not destined to remain, it's all about trust, break it and be done for.

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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

For us, our simple rule is never solo, always together. This is journey together and we want to enjoy it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?

Of course yes. Communication is the absolutely essential ingredient to successfully indulging a more open lifestyle.

But ultimately that all goes out the window if one person think they don't need to discuss with the other

Then I'd suggest that couple were not destined to remain, it's all about trust, break it and be done for."

This!

It sounds like all swinging needs to be stopped asap and a serious heart to heart all cards on the table convo needs to be had asap. If not its potentially the start of the end.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us, our simple rule is never solo, always together. This is journey together and we want to enjoy it that way."

This is for us too.

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
over a year ago

carluke

We have very simple rules, we are completely open with each other and tell each other everything. If one of us wanted to meet solo we would discuss it openly, if either of us is not fully comfortable with the situation we would say so and the situation would not go ahead.

We also have things that are personal to us and would be a hard limit for anyone else to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We talk about everything as we will always want to know that everyone is on the same page

Our main rules are we won't meet solo and we won't do separate room fun, for us the fun is being together and watching eachother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently neither of us wants to play solo

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Same as the guys playing solo

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

We don't play solo. Prefer to watch each other fucking.

Mrs

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