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By *onyjo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Always makes me smile when I see post from single men saying they can't get a meet. Small wonder really as a few spoil it for the many as usual. Over the last week we have put out 3 invites to single guys and had 3 accepted all keen and talking the talk, only to have them message crying off with some cock and bull excuse. One had a weeks notice to get Latex free condoms then within an hour of the meet reckoned he was unable to get any. One had to meet his cousin at the last minute and we have just had one saying that 8.30pm is too late for him!!!

Sorry to the all the genuine guys on here but its these types that are ruining your chances.

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By *ewsexycplCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Very very use to this. Honestly they are useless! Took us 5 attempts to find a decent one!

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

They were probably nervous but really they shouldnt be wasting peoples time if they have no intentions of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actualy never tryed ro sort a meet I hardly know any1 on here poor me ha

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Don't even start us on no shows.

Best 2 excuses we've had, if u can call them that are.... I got run over and I had appendicitis

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By *reudian_slipsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes this is true, drives me absolutely mad as a reliable single guy, nobody trusts you at first… there are good eggs out there but they take some finding; I think grammar is a good screening tool…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women have the all the power on fab and most of the men will have sex with any of them given the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you not bring your own latex free condoms?

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Always makes me smile when I see another post slagging off single men for not showing. Nothing to do with due diligence and making the right choices.

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

I don't believe that the behaviour of others on here adversely affects the chances of men meeting. The only person who can influence that chance is yourself.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Whining about single men whining is my favourite forum genre

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By *onyjo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I don't believe that the behaviour of others on here adversely affects the chances of men meeting. The only person who can influence that chance is yourself."

Oh yes of course silly me i will be our fault the time wasters on here.

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By *onyjo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I don't believe that the behaviour of others on here adversely affects the chances of men meeting. The only person who can influence that chance is yourself."

Oh yes of course silly me i will be our fault the time wasters on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe that the behaviour of others on here adversely affects the chances of men meeting. The only person who can influence that chance is yourself.

Oh yes of course silly me i will be our fault the time wasters on here. "

I think he was referring to himself. Not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women have the all the power on fab and most of the men will have sex with any of them given the chance.

"

Yayyyyy!!!!

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

it’s a two pronged problem with Fab;

1) there’s a lot of chancers & wank fantasists.

2) genuine single guys get bolted in with the rest without a decent way to actually vouch or be vouched for, verifications can easily be abused.

As a single bloke, I met recently with a couple and they were surprised (and pleased) I turned up! Like they had the preconceived notion that I’d bail.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"Always makes me smile when I see post from single men saying they can't get a meet. Small wonder really as a few spoil it for the many as usual. Over the last week we have put out 3 invites to single guys and had 3 accepted all keen and talking the talk, only to have them message crying off with some cock and bull excuse. One had a weeks notice to get Latex free condoms then within an hour of the meet reckoned he was unable to get any. One had to meet his cousin at the last minute and we have just had one saying that 8.30pm is too late for him!!!

Sorry to the all the genuine guys on here but its these types that are ruining your chances."

Oh here we go again whining couples. Always complaining.

Have you thought it could be you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whining about single men whining is my favourite forum genre"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the single men that mess people around make it a lot easier for the genuine ones. I’m sure couples and single women mess people around too but we don’t look for them so can’t comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I read posts like this and think the guys had a lucky escape. Everyone has the right to change their mind. Perhaps those "excuses" were actually reasons; perhaps they changed their mind were trying to be kind.

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By *eteranSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol, Spain


"They were probably nervous but really they shouldnt be wasting peoples time if they have no intentions of meeting"

That is exactly why every city we go to we make a list of 5 to 7 bulls tell them they are on it( so they don't think it is a defo meet) if number 1 is a no show number 2 gets a call and so on. Happened too often we would get no shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And surely you should have your own condoms ready for a meet.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Maybe it’s time to rethink your vetting process OP?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Sometimes I read posts like this and think the guys had a lucky escape. Everyone has the right to change their mind. Perhaps those "excuses" were actually reasons; perhaps they changed their mind were trying to be kind. "

Exactly this.

I hate how entitled some people are on here. No one is entitled to a meet and at least you were told beforehand that they weren't going to show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear these stories that have had no shows. I personally show at every meet, there was only one I didnt. I was invited to a gang bang, unfortunately my dad died the night before. Even more unfortunately I was not believed and ostracised. Seems honesty wasnt the best policy that time lol x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If you needed specific condoms why didn't you supply them?

Yes there's time wasters but people can also change their minds and that's absolutely fine.

Mrs

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I don't believe that the behaviour of others on here adversely affects the chances of men meeting. The only person who can influence that chance is yourself.

Oh yes of course silly me i will be our fault the time wasters on here. "

I was referring to this bit of your post.

'Sorry to the all the genuine guys on here but its these types that are ruining your chances'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women have the all the power on fab and most of the men will have sex with any of them given the chance.

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why would woman have all the 'power'?. Define power?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women have the all the power on fab and most of the men will have sex with any of them given the chance.

why would woman have all the 'power'?. Define power?"

Wet hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women have the all the power on fab and most of the men will have sex with any of them given the chance.

why would woman have all the 'power'?. Define power?

Wet hole."

God, that is a shame!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"Always makes me smile when I see post from single men saying they can't get a meet. Small wonder really as a few spoil it for the many as usual. Over the last week we have put out 3 invites to single guys and had 3 accepted all keen and talking the talk, only to have them message crying off with some cock and bull excuse. One had a weeks notice to get Latex free condoms then within an hour of the meet reckoned he was unable to get any. One had to meet his cousin at the last minute and we have just had one saying that 8.30pm is too late for him!!!

Sorry to the all the genuine guys on here but its these types that are ruining your chances."
just so you know because I think you don't people have lives away from fab too that they may not feel comfortable telling someone they barely know about. Maybe something urgent came up and they made an excuse because they didn't want to tell you about their private lives.

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london


"women have the all the power on fab and most of the men will have sex with any of them given the chance.

why would woman have all the 'power'?. Define power?

Wet hole."

I thought lady was more than That off course wet hole helps as dry one will give you burns lol

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Always makes me smile when I see post from single men saying they can't get a meet. Small wonder really as a few spoil it for the many as usual. Over the last week we have put out 3 invites to single guys and had 3 accepted all keen and talking the talk, only to have them message crying off with some cock and bull excuse. One had a weeks notice to get Latex free condoms then within an hour of the meet reckoned he was unable to get any. One had to meet his cousin at the last minute and we have just had one saying that 8.30pm is too late for him!!!

Sorry to the all the genuine guys on here but its these types that are ruining your chances."

We had a meet last night which changed our mind about single guys. He helped the Mr fuck me to submission. I lost count of the orgasms after twenty and the guy made me gush which was a first.not all are timewasters. Joanne.

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