FabSwingers.com forum: Prostate Massage

By *bsolutley Fab OP Man
over a year ago

Fareham

So…I’ve been looking into this lately and I would love a woman to do this to me. Love some feedback on this from you ladies that do this to your partners and some good tips please….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even gonna lie or goggle this but never heard of this. What is it?

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Not even gonna lie or goggle this but never heard of this. What is it?"

Stimulation of the prostate gland.

Gland produces much of your semen and sits around the urethra just below the bladder.

Can be very pleasurable to massage it during sex especially during orgasm. Can be stimulated by massaging your taint/perineum or internally with a vibe or finger up the ass.

It is recommended that men over 40 massage their prostates regularly as it helps reduce the risk of inflammation & cancer.

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By *heelz69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Being paralyzed and not able to cum the usual way this is something that I want to try, I think that I would cum that way

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
over a year ago

Chatham

Buy yourself a prostate massage from love honey , then try it when you wank yourself. Its amazing.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Buy yourself a prostate massage from love honey , then try it when you wank yourself. Its amazing. "

This!

When I use my vibrating p spot toy the orgasm is intense and nothing like my usual ejaculation.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hubby don't like the prostate vibrators ut loves it when I use my fingers. It's he special treat

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By *DHmannMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Love having a long prostate massage session! Either fingers or with a toy,walking round with the toy in and feeling the pressure on your prostate is amazing

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I love Prostate play, and have a good few toys that enable this.

I think my most mind blowing orgasm was a wonderful prostate massage … being fingered, whilst also being given an amazing blow job - I nearly fainted when I orgasmed!!

R xx

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

Love Aneros Progasm for hands free orgasms!

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

"Love Aneros Progasm for hands free orgasms!"
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I have one these, and love wearing it … however erotic though it is … that still eludes me!

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

"Love Aneros Progasm for hands free orgasms!m

I have one these, and love wearing it … however erotic though it is … that still eludes me!

xx"

took a lot of practise but i got there in the end. i find clenching ratther tha pulsing works better for me, wondering if i need something a little bit biggor or perhaps with more of a curve to it

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

"Love Aneros Progasm for hands free orgasms!m

I have one these, and love wearing it … however erotic though it is … that still eludes me!

took a lot of practise but i got there in the end. i find clenching ratther tha pulsing works better for me, wondering if i need something a little bit biggor or perhaps with more of a curve to it

Thank you ….might give that a try - maybe I’m trying too hard!! X

If you’re looking for something curvy … try an n-joy. They are expensive … but there are cheaper generic versions out there.

R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best tool for the job... Hugo by Lelo

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

omg you’ll love it is one of the most best intense feelings ever. if you hit the right spot you’ll explode like it’s just struck 12.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs P's fingers are way better than the 3 or 4 toys we have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I sign up?

They are fucking amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any top tips for using my fingers while giving a blow job? There's a special guy I'd like to impress lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any top tips for using my fingers while giving a blow job? There's a special guy I'd like to impress lol x"

In to the second nuckle on your finger. Palm facing up. And then try find his g spot. It's a hard lump feeling. You'll know when you find it. And it'll have him Cumming in literal seconds if your sucking him at the same time.

According to a science magazine I read once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any top tips for using my fingers while giving a blow job? There's a special guy I'd like to impress lol x

According to a science magazine I read once

Aww thanks so much. I'm assuming use my middle finger (as it's longer)

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Any top tips for using my fingers while giving a blow job? There's a special guy I'd like to impress lol x

According to a science magazine I read once

Aww thanks so much. I'm assuming use my middle finger (as it's longer)"

Do you know if he’s had his ass fingered previously and if he likes it? I know a lot of men who don’t want to have anything inserted in their ass so it’s not something you should do without discussing it first…if you do do it then definitely use your middle finger but not to start with, ease into it with your index finger and then change to your middle finger when his ass hole has loosened.

If he doesn’t want you to do it then he’s missing out on an amazing experience, cumming while being fingered in the ass feels unbelievable, the best way to orgasm by far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X"

Why don’t you think he realises it’s an internal massage? Does he think his prostate is on the exterior of his body?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X

Why don’t you think he realises it’s an internal massage? Does he think his prostate is on the exterior of his body?"

"Ahhhh just smashed my prostate off the table leg!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X"

You can massage the prostate from the external point too... not as powerful mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X

You can massage the prostate from the external point too... not as powerful mind.

Certainly can. But it's harder to explain.

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By *allPaul40Man
over a year ago

brentwood

Feels amazing

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By *orthwestsamMan
over a year ago

travel with work

Had a guy I used to meet fairly regularly on the other fab site, I’d never been into anal play but we had built up a good trust level so when he offered me one I thought, yeh why not, what’s the worst that could happen, I’ve never cum so much in my life, was like every inch of me had electric running through it, if you find someone who knows how to do it, don’t hesitate!!! It will blow your mind!!!!

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Last year we did a Bliss swingers cruise and went to a Prostate Massage Seminar out of curiosity. The woman running the seminar asked for a volunteer from the audience. A 74 year old many volunteered. He went up to the bed on the stage and the woman told us to all come closer. The poor guy, I thought. This was definitely not her first time giving a prostate massage. She started working her magic, slowly and steadily. By the time it was over, the guy had orgasmed 4 times overall, including one very lengthy orgasm with no cum. Needless to say, I’m volunteering during our cruise this November!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X

Why don’t you think he realises it’s an internal massage? Does he think his prostate is on the exterior of his body?"

I'm not sure if he thinks it's stimulated externally? from what little has been discussed. As has been mentioned I need to check in with him before launching in there lol! I didn't get a clear green light when I was having a little stroke in the bum hole area last meet! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X

You can massage the prostate from the external point too... not as powerful mind.

Oh really? I think that was what he was alluding to? I didn't realise that was possible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a prostate massage!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem that I have found is that men don't prepare for a Prostate Massage. Which is why I will only do it with guys I know have.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X

Why don’t you think he realises it’s an internal massage? Does he think his prostate is on the exterior of his body?"

Cackle!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"The problem that I have found is that men don't prepare for a Prostate Massage. Which is why I will only do it with guys I know have. "

This! I dunno if I want to finger poo for 20 minutes. Lol!

If they have the appropriate toys ok.

But like My FWB, a lot of men think...first time 9 inches of dildo....absolutely not! Not on virgin ass!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if he realises its an internal massage? So your right, some guys love anal play, but not all! X

You can massage the prostate from the external point too... not as powerful mind.

Oh really? I think that was what he was alluding to? I didn't realise that was possible!"

There is a wide range of....um....pelvic techniques that stimulate that area in men and women but it all depends on the person.

I've fingered a few tall guys but my woman-fingers are not long enough to reach far enough into them. So I find a toy easier on men with a longer torso.

Some men can put their legs up while on their back which changes the internal dynamic..Some can only manage all fours.

With some people you can press down on their pubic area just before the base of the penis or mons pubis( some people find this uncomfortable so always ask) Others you press upward strokes on their perineum.

I discovered that there was a technique where both the man and the woman rock their hips instead of the standard bam-bam porn hammering.

Um.. men...think of your dick not as a hammer but as a chisel or a plane that you are slowly carving/stroking/smoothing..No power tools!.Ok that's enough wood working referencing...( working your Wood

) I played with an engineer and he...um got the angles right.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Last year we did a Bliss swingers cruise and went to a Prostate Massage Seminar out of curiosity. The woman running the seminar asked for a volunteer from the audience. A 74 year old many volunteered. He went up to the bed on the stage and the woman told us to all come closer. The poor guy, I thought. This was definitely not her first time giving a prostate massage. She started working her magic, slowly and steadily. By the time it was over, the guy had orgasmed 4 times overall, including one very lengthy orgasm with no cum. Needless to say, I’m volunteering during our cruise this November! "

Lol! First one in the queue. Take your anal douche and fibre!

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

I think Mr's is broken!

When I've done it he loved the sensation but could cum from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think Mr's is broken!

When I've done it he loved the sensation but could cum from it."

Don't let him cum for 3 to 4 days before you next try

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

Came once from a big toy, tried to repeat it about a dozen times and couldn’t. Not sure what the trick is.

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By *ntman83Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"Hubby don't like the prostate vibrators ut loves it when I use my fingers. It's he special treat "

I enjoy fingers more than toys as well