FabSwingers.com forum: Reclaiming sex

By *irigram OP Couple
over a year ago

glenrothes

Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, the reconnection is intense, amazing.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Hell yeah.

Mr H

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

Never been in a relationships while swinging, but the thought of it is very inviting to me. Certainly something I can't wait to find out if it's as good in reality

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By *etefromderbyMan
over a year ago

Derby

Think life is just so busy sometimes and the connection gets lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

We use both. Reclaiming and also keeping the other in the moment of when they were shared/used(not a bad used, more like they submitted to someone else's pleasure).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one time ive done this with my present partner i found it intence. We went to a club and i let her play on her own. Back at our hotel i reclaimed her and it was such intence sex. I hope to do this again one day.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"The one time ive done this with my present partner i found it intence. We went to a club and i let her play on her own. Back at our hotel i reclaimed her and it was such intence sex. I hope to do this again one day."

Why don’t you mention on your profile that you have a partner?

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Is reclaiming sex basically having sex with your partner after your partner or you or both have had sex with someone else? I’ve never heard the term before

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By *ophieLovesBenCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

We always reclaim once we get home or the playmates have gone, something special about making love after playing with others.

Our sex is amazing before, with others and incredible after

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

We always reclaim once we get home or the playmates have gone, something special about making love after playing with others.

Our sex is amazing before, with others and incredible after

May I ask what happens during the reclaiming process? It’s new to me so I’m interested to learn about it.

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

From male halves point of view, the smell of sex on Louise and slipping my cock inside and feeling that she's been well fucked, while she tells me all about it, is just amazing. Especially if she goes on top and get her tits in my face after she's been giving him a titwank.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"From male halves point of view, the smell of sex on Louise and slipping my cock inside and feeling that she's been well fucked, while she tells me all about it, is just amazing. Especially if she goes on top and get her tits in my face after she's been giving him a titwank. "

So is reclaiming sex when you’re having sex with your partner but you can smell and feel that your partner has very recently had sex with someone else and talking about having sex with someone else whilst having sex with each other?

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By *ave Smith1982Man
over a year ago

Ayr

So is reclaiming sex when you’re having sex with your partner but you can smell and feel that your partner has very recently had sex with someone

else and talking about having sex with someone else whilst having sex with each other?"

It is that but it is also about reconnecting as a couple after one or both have played. Cementing you’re bond that even though you have just had sex with someone else you still love your partner etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s amazing as she’s so excited that she’s been well satisfied then comes home to me

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By *oleinone200Man
over a year ago

leeds

Totally agree with op, it's amazing

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I was always at a bit of a disadvantage because for me the hotest sex was fucking another mans wife but finding a couple that's a good fit has always been challenging.

Now I've discovered that sex with a play partner after she's been fucked by others is just as hot. So now I'd only consider dating a woman if I'm sure she needs extra cock in her life. It's all very exciting mmmmm

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

So sexy isn’t it?

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Yes it’s amazing as she’s so excited that she’s been well satisfied then comes home to me "

Does she still want to have sex with you when she gets home if she’s already been well satisfied?

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"Yes it’s amazing as she’s so excited that she’s been well satisfied then comes home to me

Does she still want to have sex with you when she gets home if she’s already been well satisfied?"

I can definitely imagine this being an issue

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Mine does yes x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I feel like I'm missing out, never had reclaim sex.

Mrs

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Never?

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I feel like I'm missing out, never had reclaim sex.

Mrs "

Does that mean you’re currently not claimed by your partner then? If you haven’t been reclaimed you must be unclaimed

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By *enis ColadaMan
over a year ago

Totnes

Used to love this with my ex,she would have sex with her fb,he would leave,I'd go inside her,it's a nice feel,and the orgasms where intense for both of us

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never?"

No, usually fallen asleep

Mrs

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Yes its great to reclaim the Mrs.

She begs to be reclaimed.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It’s amazing x

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By *reudian_slipsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Absolutely love reclaim sex, used to do this often with my ex and very horny. Yes I’d agree that it’s basically where your partner has fucked someone else alone, then comes back to you and you fuck them. In my case she would be very wet and turned on already, and with her regular bf full of his cum too! She’d also tell me all the things they’d done to her whilst we were fucking…

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Does the reclaiming occur when you start having sex or when you finish?

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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

My ex and I always had our most intense sex when it was reclaiming her after a fuck. Most of the time, she played bareback with her extras, so the sloppy seconds was a big part of it, but it was more than that. We also had a rule that only I was allowed to fuck her arse. Yet on a couple of occasions, she deliberately broke that rule as she loved the intensity of me reclaiming her arse when she told me

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Yes. The sex is one of the best ever .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I'd love to experience

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Love sitting back & watching reclaim sexy when meeting couples

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By *heswanMan
over a year ago

Mansfield

Real enjoyed watching or knowing my wife was with others,

Massive turn on, and even better sex after x

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"My ex and I always had our most intense sex when it was reclaiming her after a fuck. Most of the time, she played bareback with her extras, so the sloppy seconds was a big part of it, but it was more than that. We also had a rule that only I was allowed to fuck her arse. Yet on a couple of occasions, she deliberately broke that rule as she loved the intensity of me reclaiming her arse when she told me"

Why did you make the rule that only you can fuck her arse if she loved you reclaiming her arse so much?

Weren’t you annoyed or disappointed when she deliberately broke a rule you’d agreed on together? I’d have thought that when your partner meets other men agreeing on a set of rules and trusting her to follow them is important

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

When we first heard about reclaim sex we couldn’t wait to experience it BUT it’s not the sex directly after the event that is a biggy for us, for us it’s us it’s reconnecting our relationship and for me taking her back every day for weeks on end, we’re more passionate and the sexual vibes are extremely high

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"When we first heard about reclaim sex we couldn’t wait to experience it BUT it’s not the sex directly after the event that is a biggy for us, for us it’s us it’s reconnecting our relationship and for me taking her back every day for weeks on end, we’re more passionate and the sexual vibes are extremely high "

So you can reclaim more than once as well?

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

Reclaiming isn’t a one off thing it’s continuous as you relive them naughty days for ages

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes it’s amazing

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Reclaiming isn’t a one off thing it’s continuous as you relive them naughty days for ages"

How long after your partner having sex with someone else can you keep reclaiming for then? When does it run out?

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

Ours hasn’t run out yet

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

'Some' of our best sex.. The flash backs, reconnection and passion is fantastic! May be mentally a case of being reminded of what you have.. But either way it's possibly one of the best parts of swinging!?

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

Last night whilst having a cuddle in bed we relived something Rane did in February and that led me to taking her back yet again !

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Ours hasn’t run out yet

So when you’re having sex with your partner are you always thinking about having sex with someone else?

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Last night whilst having a cuddle in bed we relived something Rane did in February and that led me to taking her back yet again !"

So even if your partner thinks about having sex with someone else she needs to be reclaimed afterwards?

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I feel like I'm missing out, never had reclaim sex.

Mrs "

To clarify, we don't play solo.. Consider 'reclaim' as when we're alone after any play with others, be that a meet or club..

So you probably have.

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By *ipplesdelightCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

It is amazing, both at clubs after we’ve played with others and the time she played alone and I was at home waiting for her

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I feel like I'm missing out, never had reclaim sex.

Mrs

To clarify, we don't play solo.. Consider 'reclaim' as when we're alone after any play with others, be that a meet or club..

So you probably have.

Can you reclaim without knowing you’re reclaiming them? Like an inadvertent reclaiming.

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

NickD80, we don’t think about having sex with someone else we relive past moments and reflect on them passionately together

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"NickD80, we don’t think about having sex with someone else we relive past moments and reflect on them passionately together"

So you relive having sex with someone else every time you have sex with your partner?

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

Not at all.

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Smell of sex on other partner and watching them being pleasured makes “reclaim”’sex even more intense x

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Love it and play with the tease - so intense.

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Oh yes most def....gorgeous

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

It’s fucking amazing x

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

It's why we're in this game

I get to watch Miss P play with lots of men ...then the reclaim is explosive for us both

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Have great reclaim scenarios

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

We've been to a club before, I've had some fun with someone and we've stopped on the dual carriageway in a layby as we couldn't wait to get home before I was reclaimed.... delicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had reclaim sex at 3am and again at 9am, fucking amazing

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By *uncouple 321Couple
over a year ago

south West

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

Its the best !!

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Planning on a bit of reclaim tonight, probably around 3am after the post-Xtasia McDonald's run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eloquently put sir!

Yep it was this for us in my previous relationship.

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By *ophieLovesBenCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

We always reclaim once we get home or the playmates have gone, something special about making love after playing with others.

Our sex is amazing before, with others and incredible after

May I ask what happens during the reclaiming process? It’s new to me so I’m interested to learn about it. "

It's about us reconnecting. We only play together so obviously watch what happens, during reclaiming we talk, remember what's happened and then we fully devote love making to eachother.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I love reclaim sex, it’s the reason I became a hotwife

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ugh reclaim sex is so intense!

I was always very satisfied with our sexlife prior to us swinging, I thought it was just opening up a little to enjoy new experiences.

But wow, noone tells you and you're not prepared for sex with your partner to suddenly be even better than before

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

For us the reclaim is the best part. Always so passionate and electric!

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By *aughtyduo1Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Hubby loves reclaim sex especially after I've tormented him about how good the other guy was compared to him, he trys so hard to be better but always fails

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

We have traditionally enjoyed reclaim sex but it has actually fallen a little out of fashion for us in recent years. This we think is for two main reasons:

1: Our meets are so long that by the time we get home from them its usually 3-4AM and we're absolutely wiped out

2: As we have become more couples focused in our meets (by necessity rather than design, we just don't seem to garner much interest from single females these days) and our comfort in those meets has increased its become less of a "wife swap" and more of a "playing with both flexibly" scenario. And if I've been fucking L in the play room, I've already reclaimed in that moment and going again when we get home doesn't have the same effect.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Yeah, to Rach and I it is important and necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?

" reclaiming " FFS very original

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

As a Stag/Vixen couple, M is always last in. Which is our claim back. At a club the other day, the guys had had all day, M went last, claimed me. Then a guy wanted to go next. Nope- rule is, last in, play stops.

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

Absolutely....sometimes it goes on for days aswell

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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

Why did you make the rule that only you can fuck her arse if she loved you reclaiming her arse so much?

We set the rule together about her arse very early in our swinging life, and for most of it, she stuck to the rule. It was towards the end of the relationship that she broke the rule, partly because she knew what effect it would have on the intensity of the reclaim sex. But sadly, it was also a big part of the reason why she is now (and has been for 20 years) my ex.

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By *lasgowpair76Couple
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

We always have great sex immediately after any meets. As soon as they leave or we get home.

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By *tag and CelesteCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Reclaim sex is part of our post-meet ritual and it is always that much more sexier than normal. It’s almost like the first time we ever fucked again haha.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Done this to brothers ex wife had an affair with her when married but when we met up after it was great.

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