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By *ldbutable1 OP   Man
over a year ago

hewish

Hi ,

in most of the stories on here the lady seems to be d*unk before having sex, I realise they are stories but, may I ask do ladies find the need for booze before they play, is it a requirement to enable them to do what they do or is it just part of the social side of it,

when on meets I never drink as always like my wits about me (paranoid maybe) xx

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I don't mind sharing a glass of prosecco or so on a date, helps the nerves and so on... Usually sober if/when it's time to play

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I don't drink if I'm meeting someone, if I know them well then I'd be up for drinks first but a few, not absolutely smashed.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

We've had both... in a club we ll drink and get tipsy, day time meets its sober and some I ve (Nilly) been the one to drive...personally I like to remember every detail plus I have much more intense orgasms sober

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By *ldbutable1 OP   Man
over a year ago

hewish

so guess in the stories where the lady is always rat arsed before they play is just that, a story,

I hate the idea of women needing to be d*unk before they play , when at dogging places if the lady is d*unk I never feel right in playing

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We never met people who were d*unk. Too dangerous.

To be honest we really drank when playing, much preferred to feel the sensations sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d never drink on a first meet with someone I’d met from here. Unless of course if was a social meet.

But going to a strangers house and being given a drink when there’s an expectation of sex? No thanks - 1. It stinks 2. I don’t like d*unk fumbles 3. I’m slightly paranoid that I might get spiked

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We don't generally drink. We have no issue with others we play with have one or two to steady their nerves but wouldn't play with someone if we thought they had d*unk too much.

Luna

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By *oldfischMan
over a year ago

HARROW


"Hi ,

in most of the stories on here the lady seems to be d*unk before having sex, I realise they are stories but, may I ask do ladies find the need for booze before they play, is it a requirement to enable them to do what they do or is it just part of the social side of it,

when on meets I never drink as always like my wits about me (paranoid maybe) xx"

I haven't d*unk any alcohol for a few weeks and am enjoying the energy and alertness, so I think I would like to have booze-free meets at this point. Keeps the senses heightened!

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I don't feel the need to drink before a meet ,I like to have my wits about me . I've got no problem having one or two with someone but that's it.

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely drink on a meet

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely no alcohol for me as I prefer a completely clear mind. If the lady likes a drink to help relax I don’t have a problem with that though, but nothing more.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't mind a drink or two on a social but very rarely drink on a play meet (and then never more than one or two).

I would find it off-putting if I was meeting a woman who was obviously plastered. It would raise all sorts of questions in my head around consent.

Everyone enjoys themselves differently so fair play to those who enjoy it, but I'm not a great drinker anyway so it's not for me.

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By *obinAndMarianCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ,

in most of the stories on here the lady seems to be d*unk before having sex, I realise they are stories but, may I ask do ladies find the need for booze before they play, is it a requirement to enable them to do what they do or is it just part of the social side of it,

when on meets I never drink as always like my wits about me (paranoid maybe) xx"

Neither of us us big drinkers, but we might have one or two to be sociable. Equally we might not. Personally I don't like feeling d*unk in any way, probably stems from having my drink spiked when I was a lot younger. Being too d*unk also raises the issue of consent- people need to have their wits about them to know what they are doing.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ,

in most of the stories on here the lady seems to be d*unk before having sex, I realise they are stories but, may I ask do ladies find the need for booze before they play, is it a requirement to enable them to do what they do or is it just part of the social side of it,

when on meets I never drink as always like my wits about me (paranoid maybe) xx"

Absolutely not, I’ll always be fully sober for any meet. I don’t need or want anything clouding my head

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