FabSwingers.com forum: Week long Chastity Challenge

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Week long chastity challenge

I (Mr) very much enjoy chastity play. I've built up a large number of cages trying to find the perfect fit, most have some particular benefit the others don't have but none are perfect.

Long term chastity never works as cages are always painful to sleep in.

Night time boners can be agony!

I think 3 nights is the longest we've managed.

I'm currently on day 3 of a week long challenge. I have some old belongings stored in the attic Mrs wants to throw out and I don't. The deal is if she cracks before the week is over and demands cock I get to keep the stuff.

If I crack and ask for the cage to be removed she gets to throw the stuff in the attic away!

Being caged makes me so fucking horny. It's a constant reminder throughout the day of my cock. Wearing a cage makes me think of sex constantly and my fantasies become more extreme.

We would describe ourselves as Stag & Vixen, and at clubs that's how we play, yet while cage my fantasies are full on cuckold!

Despite not being able to cum and the particular cage I'm wearing gives total sensation denial, sex is extra intense and satisfying.

Going to work with dildos and fingers, nipple clamps and vibrator.

My fantasies might be cuckold but I definitely become dominant and aggressive when the two of us play while I'm caged.

I love the idea of semi long term chastity. Wearing a cage to keep Mrs pussy fresh for another man, only being allowed to fuck her already used.

But we are yet to meet the right guy and club don't feel like the right place for Chasity play.

Unfortunately i think 3 nights is the limit I can handle. Although I can fit in a pretty small cage while soft, I have a thick good sized cock while hard and night time boners wake me up multiple times a night.

The base ring pulls my balls up when my cock gets hard. I've tried a couple of different leather straps to hold the cage in place, and these work great when playing but just transfer the night time pain from my balls to my gooch.

I think the answer is perhaps a longer, larger cage to sleep in, one that allows room for expansion, yet the cage needs to be solid, I have several birdcage (wire) style cages, these offer great teasing sensation while playing, but night time boners causes soreness as my cock squeeze between the bars of the cage.

I can't see a cage on the market that offers the answer though.

Anyway, apologies for the long post, a painful boner woke me up super early lol

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Good post , I am often caged for long periods , only release for hygiene breaks , have also done Locktober a couple of times

Have a look at profile , have about 5 different cages some can be on longer than others

Ask anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you deal with nighttime boners? My sleep is so disturbed while caged

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"How do you deal with nighttime boners? My sleep is so disturbed while caged"

That is all part of the challenge with wearing it , have worn cage to work , on holiday , at the beach

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you deal with nighttime boners? My sleep is so disturbed while caged

That is all part of the challenge with wearing it , have worn cage to work , on holiday , at the beach "

Yeah I guess so. At the gym with it on right now.

Will try and push through another night.

First few nights it's horny getting woken up with my cock bulging against the cage. After a few nights poor sleep it wears thin!

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"How do you deal with nighttime boners? My sleep is so disturbed while caged

That is all part of the challenge with wearing it , have worn cage to work , on holiday , at the beach

Yeah I guess so. At the gym with it on right now.

Will try and push through another night.

First few nights it's horny getting woken up with my cock bulging against the cage. After a few nights poor sleep it wears thin!"

Be brave stand with cage on show so others can see

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Be brave stand with cage on show so others can see "

Haha I don't think that's a good idea in the gym lol

Maybe at a club one day

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Be brave stand with cage on show so others can see

Haha I don't think that's a good idea in the gym lol

Maybe at a club one day"

Yes we have been to clubs and been open about being a cuckold couple , I had cock cage on , cuckold collar

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By *arah_tv999TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxford

Night-time boners are difficult. I found that when they woke me up, going to the bathroom to have a wee resolved the issue. It took a few days but seemed to work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

3rd night caged. New video up of Mrs getting sorted while Mr gets blue balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this the other way around whilst im at work and it's getting close to me coming home she gets banned from playing so by the time I get home she's climbing the walls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So apparently the deal wasn't just a week. It was who cracks first, however long that takes!

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Having worn a cock cage myself for long periods in the past it can become quite painful at times but you do become accustomed to it.

I wore it to a club in Cologne when we were on a weekend break a few years ago, attracted a fair few glances and Dee got plenty of attention because of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having worn a cock cage myself for long periods in the past it can become quite painful at times but you do become accustomed to it.

I wore it to a club in Cologne when we were on a weekend break a few years ago, attracted a fair few glances and Dee got plenty of attention because of it."

I suppose wearing a cage in a club is essentially a clear sign to all men that your wife is available.

Must have been a hot night!

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"Having worn a cock cage myself for long periods in the past it can become quite painful at times but you do become accustomed to it.

I wore it to a club in Cologne when we were on a weekend break a few years ago, attracted a fair few glances and Dee got plenty of attention because of it.

I suppose wearing a cage in a club is essentially a clear sign to all men that your wife is available.

Must have been a hot night!"

Well it certainly eliminates any confusion as to what your dynamic is ! lol

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By *eadjeyecMan
over a year ago

Bucks/London

I enjoy a bit of chastity every so often but yes night times are the worst. If I self lick I quite often unlock when the pain is bad and then reapply the cage the next morning. Currently in this situation myself. Any suggestions would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I enjoy a bit of chastity every so often but yes night times are the worst. If I self lick I quite often unlock when the pain is bad and then reapply the cage the next morning. Currently in this situation myself. Any suggestions would be appreciated "

I bought a leather strap of Etsy that holds mine in place at night. Stops it pulling on my balls to bad when I get a boner

It's still painful but it's out weighed by the benefits of the cage ATM.

Don't waste your money on an elastic strap. Needs to be leather or faux leather but strong and adjustable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Day 6. The longest we have ever used the cage. Mrs has allowed it to be removed 3 times for cleaning then immediately put back on.

The horniest week of my life. Have been thinking about sex 24/7

Kids are away tomorrow night so we will get a chance for a good filthy session.

This cage is the most comfortable for long term wear we have bought.

Cage play has been a once in a while thing but we have agreed Mrs will cage me once a month for a length of time of her choosing.

It could be a day, or the whole month.

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We like cage play. 4 weeks is our longest so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like cage play. 4 weeks is our longest so far"

Did you not cum for the whole 4 weeks?

I managed to cum while caged on day 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Getting hard at night usually takes a while to get used to. I have done Loctober a number of times only out of the cage for cleaning every third day. The longest I have been locked for was 6 weeks the feeling of being horny was fantastic.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Day 7. What a horny week. My balls feel swollen and everytime I think of the cage or feel it my cock twitches.

Sleep has been very disturbed but I got used to it. Don't feel any extra tired.

Sex drive through the roof and I'm probably a more attentive partner while caged.

Surprised by just how much I've like it. I managed to cum in the cage on day 4 while fantasing about permanent chastity lol.

Definitely looking forward to trying some longer periods of being caged, and can't wait to wear it when Mrs plays with another guy.

Not sure how I feel about wearing it to a swingers club, but definitely up for wearing it on a meet outside of the club setting.

Mrs wants a full rub down and sorting out tonight before it comes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what it's all about, pleasing the key holder. And hope you get to unload before getting to sleep.

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By *ystuff32Couple
over a year ago

essex

We have only managed a few hours before but we are trying to find the right one for long term use.

We find it hard to get one that fits right around his balls tight enough to stay on but loose enough to get on

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By *yanjamieMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Im looking at doing locktober this year, but i need to complete a list of tasks a new one each day.

So i need a list guys, 31 and i only get released if i complete all of them.

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

Steve is on his 248th day locked.

Has an official cobra cage from kink3d designs on X (The one Elon musk renamed)

He always says go to sleep with an empty bladder, if you wake up in the night, go pee.

The skin under your balls toughens over time but baby oil is your friend.

Think that's about it from memory.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

Oh to have someone to give my key too ! Holy Grail

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Great thread.

I think you should up the anti and keep it on. Post the key to yourself 2nd class!

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

Freezing it in ice is good too . No heart attack about losing it but also not readily available xxx

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
over a year ago

Nowhere

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Surely there are some other things that could be exchanged for longer locked.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've been in two long term cuckold relationships where I was in chastity near 24/7. It Took a year to build up to that though

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By *oyager77Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Really interesting to read. Something which I've been thinking about, and would like to try see how it feels. Does anyone find a humiliation aspect of being locked or denied your lady a turn on?

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Really interesting to read. Something which I've been thinking about, and would like to try see how it feels. Does anyone find a humiliation aspect of being locked or denied your lady a turn on?

Yes especially as my gf had several bulls who made full use of her often

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By *exy CanadiansCouple
over a year ago

Vancouver

I’ve done several months at a time. Only getting out to clean and shave.

Early this year we were in Thailand for a month and was locked the whole time! Sweaty balls was the theme for that trip! LOL

Had on a small tight swim suit every time we went to the beach or swimming at the pool and there was no hiding really that I was caged. You could definitely see the outline of my cage.

Even now I go to our local nude beach with my cage on. Definitely get some looks when I walk down the beach. ??

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By *hil911Man
over a year ago

Solihull

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