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"Has anyone ever come across a couple that want to go bareback, tell you he’s had the snip only to find out he was lying." Oh God, how did you find out he was lying? | |||
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"Has anyone ever come across a couple that want to go bareback, tell you he’s had the snip only to find out he was lying. Oh God, how did you find out he was lying? " A bun appeared in the oven ? | |||
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"I'm super grateful for the pill, but if someone lies about something this big it makes me wonder what else they'd lie about! Hope you're okay OP! "Exactly Why not just be honest ! | |||
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"Has anyone ever come across a couple that want to go bareback, tell you he’s had the snip only to find out he was lying." When having casual sex, condoms are much less about preventing pregnancy and much more to do with protecting against STIs. Cal | |||
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"I hope to god this hasn’t happened to you! One of many reasons we always insist on playing safe. Mr " We hope this hasn’t happened to you guys x | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs " Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs " I had the snip 14 years ago, and after I got my official ‘Jaffa Certificate’, I have never been checked again. The chances of any swimmers jumping the gap produced by the length of vas deferens removed from me (and shown to me), and undoing the knot each end, to gain access to my cock during ejaculation, are very slim indeed…..  | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs " This is simply not true. I had mine done about 12 years ago now. At 10 years I wanted to be 100% sure so I got retested. I was negative. They told me if you’re negative of sperm after 10 years you never need to be tested again. | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs This is simply not true. I had mine done about 12 years ago now. At 10 years I wanted to be 100% sure so I got retested. I was negative. They told me if you’re negative of sperm after 10 years you never need to be tested again. " Agreed. It's permanent unless you choose to have it reversed but there is no guarantee that it will work. | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs This is simply not true. I had mine done about 12 years ago now. At 10 years I wanted to be 100% sure so I got retested. I was negative. They told me if you’re negative of sperm after 10 years you never need to be tested again. Agreed. It's permanent unless you choose to have it reversed but there is no guarantee that it will work." When I had mine done as part of the pre operation talk with the consultant he told me that the chances of a successful reversal after 2 years were almost nil as the tubes sealed up! So the chances of it reverting itself are miniscule.  | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens!" I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. " They cauterised the tubes now. | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens!" A quick Google can help you find some statistics and papers written on recanalization post vasectomy. Mrs | |||
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"Has anyone ever come across a couple that want to go bareback, tell you he’s had the snip only to find out he was lying." Oh wow that is dangerous | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs This is simply not true. I had mine done about 12 years ago now. At 10 years I wanted to be 100% sure so I got retested. I was negative. They told me if you’re negative of sperm after 10 years you never need to be tested again. " It maybe simply not true for you, but not for all the population, as for 10 years the stats drop dramatically for any change so yes there right however the risk isn't completely eliminated there has been reports upto 14 years so it's not 100% safe From vasectomy - 7 years there's slightly greater risk of recanalization occuring resulting in pregnancy (again papers written and reported on) While one may go well another may not, survivors bias isn't factual. Mrs | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. They cauterised the tubes now. " Mine were cauterised in the ‘No scalpel’ clinic. The tool he used was basically an electric solder iron…. | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. They cauterised the tubes now. Mine were cauterised in the ‘No scalpel’ clinic. The tool he used was basically an electric solder iron…. "Same. Burning flesh doesn’t smell too good | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. They cauterised the tubes now. Mine were cauterised in the ‘No scalpel’ clinic. The tool he used was basically an electric solder iron….
Same. Burning flesh doesn’t smell too good "I’m with you there, but the morphine was awesome | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. They cauterised the tubes now. Mine were cauterised in the ‘No scalpel’ clinic. The tool he used was basically an electric solder iron….
Same. Burning flesh doesn’t smell too good
I’m with you there, but the morphine was awesome "Morphine? I just had local anaesthetic & a nurse talking to me the whole time. | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. " I had mine done early 80's. I was given no such advice nor do I know of anybody who was. It was always considered to be permanent. | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. I had mine done early 80's. I was given no such advice nor do I know of anybody who was. It was always considered to be permanent." Good for you. Maybe NHS advice varied region to region.  | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! I think this belief may come from the last generation. I know older gents who had the snip in the 80's and 90's were told to have regular checks, because of the possibility of tubes becoming untied. Nowadays, the operation is unusually done differently, and leads to more permanent results. They cauterised the tubes now. Mine were cauterised in the ‘No scalpel’ clinic. The tool he used was basically an electric solder iron….
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I’m with you there, but the morphine was awesome
Morphine? I just had local anaesthetic & a nurse talking to me the whole time. "I got a shot in the wrist, and was out for the count. I was away with the fairies for hours afterwards | |||
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"How do you know they were lying, the snip needs checking every so often its common to be less effective after a period of time. Mrs Can you point me to the statistics on which you base that assertion? In most cases, vasectomy is more than 99% effective. A recent study provided data to show Out of 2,000 men who are sterilised, 1 will get a woman pregnant during the rest of his lifetime. Male sterilisation is considered permanent. Once it's done, you don't have to think about contraception again. You need to use contraception for at least 8 weeks after the operation, because sperm stay in the tubes leading to the penis. Up to 3 semen tests are done after the operation, to make sure that all the sperm have gone. I’d be interested to know where you go to get the effectiveness of the procedure checked? Good heavens! A quick Google can help you find some statistics and papers written on recanalization post vasectomy. Mrs " The NHS website quotes one in two thousand chance of the tiddlers returning to spawn again. You said it was common when fact it’s not! | |||
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