FabSwingers.com forum: Female opinion of cross dressing?

By *inkyfuntimes OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Curious to know what women think about men cross dressing? I’m not convincing or trying to be feminine, I just enjoy the feel of wearing stockings suspenders and panties. And let’s face it the sexy underwear for men is more novelty than sexy.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Personally, for me it does nothing, but each to their own and no judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me personally but different strokes for different folks

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By *inkyfuntimes OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Personally, for me it does nothing, but each to their own and no judgement."

I guess that’s my point tbh. Does it matter as long as it’s something that turns you on? After all we are all on here to have kinky fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's each to their own, I wouldn't have a different opinion if someone just because they dressed up, think women can use makeup false everything so why can't men?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Theres some ladies that do like it and get off on it.

but alot of them dont like it

Ive always presumed that they think your something else ( bi or prefer just men )

when it becomes ladies upon ladies its all fine not a problem with the sexy lingerie

sort of being 2 faced the comment is best suited

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By *urabriteMan
over a year ago

stafford

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

To be honest it’s a big turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex found it a massive turn on and loved taking control

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm all for it, I'm not sure why it needs a label though, if your comfortable in a dress wear a dress.

You never really see women crossdressers or hear of them which I find odd, no one questions or finds a women in trousers/joggers/jeans odd but a man in a skirt they do.

Mrs

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not for me , each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should just wear what they feel comfortable in

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By *oybCouple
over a year ago

West Sussex

I quite like it personally, there's something very intriguing about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big turn off for Mrs

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

I'm a huge admirer of anyone who feels good being them... we go to taboo and fetish nights and I love that anyone can be anyone... I cant make a personal opinion on what it does for me as it would be very very much down to an individual and not just because of a way of dressing xx

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not for me, but everyone should just do what is good for them.

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By *ilthy couple 111Couple
over a year ago

boston

i love it, so naughty, and i love naughty sex

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By *eelslover300TV/TS
over a year ago

flitwick

Its definitely something that has its admirers but equally many who either have no feelings towards it or do not like it. Basically the same for any kink or fetish. I've found most to be accepting of it even if it's not for them but that's my own personal experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us but everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me. In the most respectful way possible I like my men to be manly in the bedroom and it wouldn't have that effect if they were wearing womens underwear. That's just me though, plenty of people would enjoy it, just do you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience many women don't like it, some are neutral (fine if it floats your boat, but does nothing for me), and a few - the minority - like it, some a lot. Like anything to do with sex, and life in general, there is a huge variation!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Does nothing for me but whatever floats your boat, if we were all into the same thing life would be boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres some ladies that do like it and get off on it.

but alot of them dont like it

Ive always presumed that they think your something else ( bi or prefer just men )

when it becomes ladies upon ladies its all fine not a problem with the sexy lingerie

sort of being 2 faced the comment is best suited "

How is it two faced not to be attracted to a man wearing womens underwear?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

In my experience, I get quite a few women who love my look, but never enough to want to meet.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Personally, for me it does nothing, but each to their own and no judgement."

Same...

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

"Not for me personally but different strokes for different folks

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agree

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

It doesn't interest me and I wouldn't meet a guy who was wearing female undies.

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By *inkyfuntimes OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm a huge admirer of anyone who feels good being them... we go to taboo and fetish nights and I love that anyone can be anyone... I cant make a personal opinion on what it does for me as it would be very very much down to an individual and not just because of a way of dressing xx "

Thank you! That is an open minded and kind thing to say!!

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By *inkyfuntimes OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm all for it, I'm not sure why it needs a label though, if your comfortable in a dress wear a dress.

You never really see women crossdressers or hear of them which I find odd, no one questions or finds a women in trousers/joggers/jeans odd but a man in a skirt they do.

Mrs "

That’s a very interesting observation!! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it incredibly arousing seeing a guy wearing women's knickers and stockings, there's just something about a bulging cock and the sensation of the stockings and suspenders for me

Mrs

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Does absolutely nothing for me, it's a massive turn off

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By *inkyfuntimes OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I find it incredibly arousing seeing a guy wearing women's knickers and stockings, there's just something about a bulging cock and the sensation of the stockings and suspenders for me

Mrs"

Thanks! Pity there aren’t more people like you! Lol

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I'm a female that cross dresses, but for me it's far more than just sticking on a t shirt and pair of jeans.

Make-up to change facial shape, addition of stubble, changing hairstyle.

Then strapping down chest, underwear which flattens bum and hips, wearing soft pack, shirt, tie and 3 peice suit, to get more masculine body shape.

(Pic on my profile)

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Majority of straight women are attracted to masculinity not femininity, same as straight men are attracted to a feminine woman. A few guys like muscular women or a more boyish type of girl but I don’t know many straight men who like either to be honest.

So it shouldn’t be surprising that a big tattooed bearded bloke would be more attractive to women than a guy prancing around in a bra and knickers.

Sorry Op, if you like dressing up accept that it’s not for the majority but if you’re lucky you may meet one of the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wearing female leather and PVC

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

As I see in here, and have long understood …. many, in fact probably most women do not like the idea of men in women underwear / clothes etc.

I am however, and always will be, grateful to perhaps the minority of ladies who do enjoy ladies ‘with a little extra’

. I have a few times met such ladies, and indeed been out with ladies … and they are genuinely, one in a million, which is probably an accurate percentage.

I fully accept the principle of ‘each to their own’, I too have things that I do not find a turn on in any way … but many others do.

R xx

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"I'm a female that cross dresses, but for me it's far more than just sticking on a t shirt and pair of jeans.

Make-up to change facial shape, addition of stubble, changing hairstyle.

Then strapping down chest, underwear which flattens bum and hips, wearing soft pack, shirt, tie and 3 peice suit, to get more masculine body shape.

(Pic on my profile)"

Fabulous

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Most of them will not like it. Lingerie is for them alone, I think that's the majority message.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Doesn’t do anything for me, nothing to do with lingerie is for women. I just don’t see it as a turn on. Feel free to carry on, but pass me by.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Most women don't like it.

Think of it this way...

Would you be attracted to a woman that had dressed herself up to look super masculine?

Fake beard, fake muscles and a bald cap, boobs wrapped up tight to hide the chest, fake hairy chest... no doubt wearing a large strap on with your name on it

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By *anddXXXCouple
over a year ago

London

Massive Turn Off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It naturally brings out my Sadist side. I wouldn't like my partner dressed up it would demasculate him in my eyes. But in others if they are happy, beautiful.

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

Interesting reading some of these comments!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Does nothing for me. But i know john has met tv's in the past. Jo

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By *itty HoodooCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

This

couldn’t agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do I think about it?

I fully support it and think it's great. I wish the world was more accepting

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

everybody should be who they are ... i treat nobody different ... we have a staff member whos trans we also have a couple who are gender fluid ... all people to me

be you life is too short not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it incredibly arousing seeing a guy wearing women's knickers and stockings, there's just something about a bulging cock and the sensation of the stockings and suspenders for me

Mrs

Thanks! Pity there aren’t more people like you! Lol "

It's different stroked for different folks - if we all liked the same thing the world would be boring lol. And i guess as well that some people might find it hard to be open about that kind of kink

Mrs

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't fine men in women's clothing or lingerie sexy, but if it makes them happy, go for it.

Nita

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"I find it incredibly arousing seeing a guy wearing women's knickers and stockings, there's just something about a bulging cock and the sensation of the stockings and suspenders for me

Mrs

Thanks! Pity there aren’t more people like you! Lol

It's different stroked for different folks - if we all liked the same thing the world would be boring lol. And i guess as well that some people might find it hard to be open about that kind of kink

Mrs"

It would indeed be a boring world and I would guess

most people would find it hard to be open about it.

It's probably more of an acquired taste to be honest,

if your first experience of it is a good one then you are more likely to explore further,

at least that's what happened for us anyway and we have a lot of horny fun with it

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By *andi_CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I was lucky to meet someone on here that was really into me dressing but she has moved away..

I still look for the elusive unicorn of a couple looking for a cd to play with....

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

"I was lucky to meet someone on here that was really into me dressing but she has moved away..

I still look for the elusive unicorn of a couple looking for a cd to play with...."

I wouldn’t say a Unicorn … they do exist, just very much a very very special rarity … as I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for my wife it does nothing but I get to enjoy it and she don’t mind x

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