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"Certain terms that have been so widely used now have a stigma attached to them that can make people not want to use them to describe their relationships or elements of them. So instead of using these terms and dealing with the comments that come with it, what other names do you use for these types of relationships? " Whats it all about heh!! Way to many labels daily! Not enough with a calibrated mindset,nor knowledge of some lifestyles. The net is full of merkiness tbh. By next yr there will be another label to contend with! | |||
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"Certain terms that have been so widely used now have a stigma attached to them that can make people not want to use them to describe their relationships or elements of them. So instead of using these terms and dealing with the comments that come with it, what other names do you use for these types of relationships? Whats it all about heh!! Way to many labels daily! Not enough with a calibrated mindset,nor knowledge of some lifestyles. The net is full of merkiness tbh. By next yr there will be another label to contend with!" I'm not a fan of labels in general but so.etimes they come in handy, especially when describing our dynamic to someone. Hence why I asked the question. | |||
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"Certain terms that have been so widely used now have a stigma attached to them that can make people not want to use them to describe their relationships or elements of them. So instead of using these terms and dealing with the comments that come with it, what other names do you use for these types of relationships? Whats it all about heh!! Way to many labels daily! Not enough with a calibrated mindset,nor knowledge of some lifestyles. The net is full of merkiness tbh. By next yr there will be another label to contend with! I'm not a fan of labels in general but so.etimes they come in handy, especially when describing our dynamic to someone. Hence why I asked the question. " Communication is very bespoke and personal to diff people. And certain expressions and meanings,mostly many differ over it because of experience,or lack of it! Even as so much and tools are a available in this day and age. The human race has not developed in people skills heart and mind attainment! Much is led my following,emotions in the wind,the next Vogue and in thing!! | |||
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"Certain terms that have been so widely used now have a stigma attached to them that can make people not want to use them to describe their relationships or elements of them. So instead of using these terms and dealing with the comments that come with it, what other names do you use for these types of relationships? " I'm unsure what a caregiver relationship is? Is this one partner caring for another who is disabled? | |||
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"I know some make me squirm. DDLG, AB and CNC areca bit uncomfortable for me, but each to their own. " Caveat: I have no experience of the above. So am in no position to judge | |||
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"Certain terms that have been so widely used now have a stigma attached to them that can make people not want to use them to describe their relationships or elements of them. So instead of using these terms and dealing with the comments that come with it, what other names do you use for these types of relationships? " Nurturing Dom/me? | |||
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"I know some make me squirm. DDLG, AB and CNC areca bit uncomfortable for me, but each to their own. " This is why I asked because generally people don't like those terns. They cause all kinds of arguments and debates. I've had a lot of abuse for saying I'm in a DDLG relationship which is why I wondered if there was other terms people used. | |||
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"Certain terms that have been so widely used now have a stigma attached to them that can make people not want to use them to describe their relationships or elements of them. So instead of using these terms and dealing with the comments that come with it, what other names do you use for these types of relationships? I'm unsure what a caregiver relationship is? Is this one partner caring for another who is disabled? " Lol The NHS trust funded. Wait by the end of this year there will be another 5 more to the long complicated list! Its all by design to headfuk the masses and bring about disorder. I said earlier,we human have not even developed the better basics if communications ,yet we have every tool under the Sun!!  | |||
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"I know some make me squirm. DDLG, AB and CNC areca bit uncomfortable for me, but each to their own. This is why I asked because generally people don't like those terns. They cause all kinds of arguments and debates. I've had a lot of abuse for saying I'm in a DDLG relationship which is why I wondered if there was other terms people used. " Is it not a balanced respectful loveing partnership! An others getting into the scrum and jostling powerplay and bullying. Ffs | |||
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"I think what works between two consenting parties works. The ddlg title can (to those outside the dynamic) give rise to uncomfortable assumptions. Thats why I thought 'nurturing dominant' may decsribecthe dynamic better. What thoughts do you have OP? " I'm not sure to be honest. I've seen them termed as caregiver which is why I used it in the title. It's one of those things that automatically makes people jump to the wrong conclusions, people see DDLG and automatically think age play which isn't always the case. | |||
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"Sometimes I wish I grew up in a tribe in the middle of nowhere so I never have had to read this bullshit "Why is it bullshit? | |||
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"I think what works between two consenting parties works. The ddlg title can (to those outside the dynamic) give rise to uncomfortable assumptions. Thats why I thought 'nurturing dominant' may decsribecthe dynamic better. What thoughts do you have OP? I'm not sure to be honest. I've seen them termed as caregiver which is why I used it in the title. It's one of those things that automatically makes people jump to the wrong conclusions, people see DDLG and automatically think age play which isn't always the case. " Agreed. Alot of people instantly go for the age play thing and that's definitely not us | |||
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