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Do successful "Throuples" exist?

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Do successful "throuples" i.e., a poly relationships exist?

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By *orny Pair 666Couple
over a year ago

Wigston

If you ever want to find out

Just kidding we actually have some friends that are in a throuple and they have been going for a few years so far and still strong as far as we know

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We have friends who are in a throuple and have been for quite some time, I guess the key to a poly relationship is getting the dynamic and boundaries to align perfectly, much like any other relationship I suppose.

Mr H.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think as a long term concept it's difficult. Our eldest has had some experience of being in throuples. Personally we much prefer our love life to us and our sex life extended to others. From experience of poly people we know it's very rarely for keeps as more than a couple, difficult to ballance and full of obstacles. However maybe the idea of it working out if you mean long term is for many poly people the wrong idea anyway. The idea of for keeps or forever is not so prevalent I think. Its a bit more free flowing than that I think for many.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Also there is middle ground between deep romantic love, close loving friendship and causal sex. So sometimes a three way friendship can fall somewhere in this ground. But wouldn't say having a close sexual friendship as a couple makes you a throuple to me a throuple is an equal 3 way relationship in terms of love and attachment to each other.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I have a friend who was part of one (male with two females) which lasted 22 years.

It is interesting that when one of the women decided to leave the remaining couple decided to get married.

I guess we will never know what goes on behind those closed doors with feelings, emotions and changing dynamics of relationships, and it is impossible to generalise.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Do successful "throuples" i.e., a poly relationships exist? "

I know throuples that are exceptionally successful and some that have crashed and burned spectacularly.

But throuples are just one very small part of polyamoury and there are so many successful poly relationships. (I know, I'm poly haha)

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


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But throuples are just one very small part of polyamoury and there are so many successful poly relationships. (I know, I'm poly haha)"

Nice

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