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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What advise would people on here give my friend about joining fab especially that he is a virgin and not experienced much sexually

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

What age is he?

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe that it’s not the best option for loosing his virginity…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What age is he?"
he’s 25 so pretty mature

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

maybe visit a club might be best option for him,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe visit a club might be best option for him,,,"
true actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advise would be don't. Get some life experience before taking it online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think because I had good amount of success before I came off it he wants to experience the same

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Advice - Expect a tough time and lower his expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What advise would people on here give my friend about joining fab especially that he is a virgin and not experienced much sexually

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At 25 I would advise your mate to go and do what 25 year olds do and engage with his age group and be 25 !

Plenty of time for recreational sex when he has grey pubic hair and a top false set

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Tell him not to lead with the fact that he is virgin.

If you identify yourself as one straight away it's likely to put people off... people don't want to be used as cherry popping device.

Gain a woman's attraction/attention/desire by being himself and when the time is right, break it to her... probably not right before sex.

But if the conversation of sex comes up, just causally tell her that you've never actually had sex before... if she's nice she will be understanding, but be prepared for some people to be put off... we all have our preferences.

If she likes him for him, it won't be an issue for her.

If it is an issue for her well that sort of sucks but shit happens.

As it is with everything luck will play it's part.

OR...

Just bare faced lie until you get what you want, fake it 'till you make it sort of thing.

Hope it goes well for him

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Suggest a club or maybe go for "massage"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's a decision only be can make. What is he expecting to get from fab?

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By *asyloversCouple
over a year ago

leicester

As others have said, I'd advise him that Fab (and probably swingers clubs in general), aren't virgin hunting grounds with hoards of eager experienced swingers looking for someone to lay there all still and not be able to locate a clitoris or give anything in return. So make a personal decision to use what resources are available to get good at sex without having sex, or at least competent, confident and respectful. Learn how to take no for answer without brooding about it for months. Be prepared to enjoy things for what they are and not be disappointed if sex doesn't happen. Cleanliness and hygiene are good things to focus on too and not just a doff of the hat to them on the way out of the bathroom. Clean the fingernails and trim or shave where needed. Get some good photos, have a sense of humour and a personality. As for me, I'm just lucky ha ha.

Easy

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By *r not quite virginMan
over a year ago

rochdale

I lost mine on this site. Wasn't the wisest choice I've ever made. So don't do it.

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