FabSwingers.com forum: How soon do you go bare with a regular

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One for the couples and singles with regular lovers/fwbs etc

Was a lover to a couple for 4 years...started off first few meets with a condom....then we all agreed bare was more fun... i did not see others so made sense....

So from third meet bare it was...utterly amazing....

How quickly did this happen for you

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Minimum of 6 months. 2 full clear sti panels 3 months apart, but only after I've reached a level of trust where I can be pretty certain they wouldn't put me at risk with anyone else.

I can count on two fingers the times I've not... One was when I was mentally in a horrific place and was on a self destructive path anyway (and I scared myself stupid was then sober and celibate for 6 months and 2 clean tests myself).

The other, well he's my boyfriend, I'd known him 25+ years, knew all about his sexual history, how safe he is, who he has unprotected sex with and, when he was last tested...

It was an educated risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met someone new bit ago . Social meet first then played but not full sex then condom . Said preference was bare so ordered home test Kits from Lloyd ph since played bare. We just have trust we don't play bare other places. No play is 100% safe just do what make you confy reduce risks

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I don't think I'd ever get to that point with a guy tbh,

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Never. We wouldn't expect anyone to be exclusive to us

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By *asyloversCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Never, lol.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Nope. Never. Just no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback with anyone on fab is a bad idea, everyone lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How quickly did this happen for you"

Totally varies with the individual people involved. Some are always femidoms or condoms or dams or various combinations.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

I wouldn't do it with anyone other than my partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never did but after a long break and 30+ years older we may do that and Helen often says a dick with a condom does not feel real

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By *t2022Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We have / developing a friendship with a guy who seems legit, he is keen for this.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, that is for us only

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