FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging as a couple no more

By *ommyxyz OP Man
over a year ago

Crawley

So we are a couple though always had separate profiles, met in Members Club in Clacton ages ago! We have enjoyed lots of parties and clubs together over these years but partner no longer wants to, she’s Happy to go, been to BGS today together but she has no interest in group play. Her right of course but I’d like too! What to do?

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm the same ,group play isn't for me

My other half likes it & meets couples solo & has gone to small parties alone .would that be an option for you.

We've kept our separate profiles too for this.

By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Me and my wife made a deal before we even met the first guy. Our marriage is our marriage. What we do will never interfere with that. We can’t accuse each other of cheating or anything like that. Second we will always make joint decision together when picking who we choose to meet and what we decide to do with them. One or two times we both have had opportunities to break these rules but we have stood strong. One night I went upstairs and led in bed as I was feeling extra d*unk. She stayed down stairs with a guy we have met a few times. They were both naked when I went upstairs and I asked them not to do anything when I’m not there. They agreed. But all of a sudden it went quiet down stairs and the guy was trying to have his way with my wife without me there. We got rid of him straight away. What I’m trying to say is that if you both are on the same wavelength you should not have any issues. Your boyfriend and obviously didn’t appreciate you enough to embrace the fun you can have in a group meeting

By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn

Little different for us, but a recent stroke has left Andy with limited movement of his ldt arm and leg, and unable to have an erection, we have swung as singles, we met on fab 15 years ago, he still wants me to carry on, and so do I, so with his blessing I will carry on