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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Has anyone had positive experiences with men in their 20s. From my experiences, they come across pretty shallow,fickle as hell and poor social skills. Please can someone prove me wrong?

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By *peedosMan
over a year ago

london

You are right.

Stick to men in their 40s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women that have met me have had positive experiences and say really lovely things about me.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Have to agree with speedo

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"You are right.

Stick to men in their 40s."

What about men in their mid 30s?

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Mid to late 40's just to be safe

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The women that have met me have had positive experiences and say really lovely things about me. "

Such as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women that have met me have had positive experiences and say really lovely things about me.

Such as?"

Intelligent, polite, mature, handsome and all the other nice things. The opposite of your experiences of younger men. But we’re not a monolith tbf

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The women that have met me have had positive experiences and say really lovely things about me.

Such as?

Intelligent, polite, mature, handsome and all the other nice things. The opposite of your experiences of younger men. But we’re not a monolith tbf "

I never implied people were like monolith! You obviously an exception to the rule. I just change my message filter to resolve this issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s key to remember that the average male matures much slower than the average female. I’d say not all men in their 20s will be immature and incapable of sexually treating an older woman correctly but a vast majorly will not….god knows I wasn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women that have met me have had positive experiences and say really lovely things about me.

Such as?

Intelligent, polite, mature, handsome and all the other nice things. The opposite of your experiences of younger men. But we’re not a monolith tbf

I never implied people were like monolith! You obviously an exception to the rule. I just change my message filter to resolve this issue"

I know you didn’t! and I wasn’t implying that you did btw.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I think it’s key to remember that the average male matures much slower than the average female. I’d say not all men in their 20s will be immature and incapable of sexually treating an older woman correctly but a vast majorly will not….god knows I wasn’t "

Yes I do understand and glad you're being honest about yourself. But it's just so disheartening opening up horrendously written messages then trying to have a conversation with them and they just come out with the craziest things which I suspect was trying to be cool or impress but I'm too old for all that crud chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I do understand and glad you're being honest about yourself. But it's just so disheartening opening up horrendously written messages then trying to have a conversation with them and they just come out with the craziest things which I suspect was trying to be cool or impress but I'm too old for all that crud chat."

Possibly trying too hard to impress you as, I know this will sound cheesy but I don’t mean it to be, you look absolutely stunning.

When males are in their 20s it’s all about bravado, alpha status and he who shouts the loudest when in reality, women over the age of around 25 aren’t interested in that.

For me I think I managed to reach an acceptable maturity around…last week

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I think it’s key to remember that the average male matures much slower than the average female. I’d say not all men in their 20s will be immature and incapable of sexually treating an older woman correctly but a vast majorly will not….god knows I wasn’t

Yes I do understand and glad you're being honest about yourself. But it's just so disheartening opening up horrendously written messages then trying to have a conversation with them and they just come out with the craziest things which I suspect was trying to be cool or impress but I'm too old for all that crud chat."

I find that most of the men who message me on here are like that regardless of their age to be honest, luckily I have interacted with men in ways other than through this site and therefore know that not all men are like that, this site just seems to attract them.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Yes I do understand and glad you're being honest about yourself. But it's just so disheartening opening up horrendously written messages then trying to have a conversation with them and they just come out with the craziest things which I suspect was trying to be cool or impress but I'm too old for all that crud chat.

Possibly trying too hard to impress you as, I know this will sound cheesy but I don’t mean it to be, you look absolutely stunning.

When males are in their 20s it’s all about bravado, alpha status and he who shouts the loudest when in reality, women over the age of around 25 aren’t interested in that.

For me I think I managed to reach an acceptable maturity around…last week "

Yes I can sense a fake from mile off. When you're older, you have a wealth of experience and saying "you're hot, meet me, fuck me" isn't charming in my opinion. Need more mental stimulation to get my pussy wet.

(Btw I also been admiring your profile )

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I think it’s key to remember that the average male matures much slower than the average female. I’d say not all men in their 20s will be immature and incapable of sexually treating an older woman correctly but a vast majorly will not….god knows I wasn’t

Yes I do understand and glad you're being honest about yourself. But it's just so disheartening opening up horrendously written messages then trying to have a conversation with them and they just come out with the craziest things which I suspect was trying to be cool or impress but I'm too old for all that crud chat.

I find that most of the men who message me on here are like that regardless of their age to be honest, luckily I have interacted with men in ways other than through this site and therefore know that not all men are like that, this site just seems to attract them. "

It's lovely to hear from a man agreeing with me on this. thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the 20s that you talk too! Depends on many things! Their job can be a good indicator

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Hate to say it but shallow, fickle people with poor communication skills in their 20s tend to age into shallow, fickle people with poor communication skills in their 30s, then 40s and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to disagree with you but that’s been my experience too tbh.

Mrs

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By *M737Couple
over a year ago

Thanet

We as a 20s couple would generally love to prove how well mannered, genuine and fun some can be? Xx

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I don’t think it’s anything to do with age I think on the whole there are a hell of a lot of people who are shallow and have poor social skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are right.

Stick to men in their 40s.

What about men in their mid 30s?"

*Cough*

Over here.

*ahem*

Oh hai

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By *M737Couple
over a year ago

Thanet


"Has anyone had positive experiences with men in their 20s. From my experiences, they come across pretty shallow,fickle as hell and poor social skills. Please can someone prove me wrong?"

Maybe we can prove to you that isn’t always the case for men/ couple in their 20s x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some decent younger men and couples in my time over fab. Just have to find them, like anything worth having. It takes effort.

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By *acksmith22Man
over a year ago

cannock

What about us in 50,s

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By *armale69Man
over a year ago

warrington


"You are right.

Stick to men in their 40s."

C'mon it's all about the 50s not that I am biased in any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really try not to generalise. And certainly no, not all guys in their 20s are a waste of time. Some even like haggard old women

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By *M737Couple
over a year ago

Thanet


"I really try not to generalise. And certainly no, not all guys in their 20s are a waste of time. Some even like haggard old women "

Message us please X

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"You are right.

Stick to men in their 40s.

C'mon it's all about the 50s not that I am biased in any way"

60's is the new 30's - just saying

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We would agree OP although it might just be the age difference and maybe we were like that when we were younger. Both with messaging on here and in person at clubs there no connection at all.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"All depends on the 20s that you talk too! Depends on many things! Their job can be a good indicator "

I meant men from 18 to 23 years old. Yes it does depend on their education and background but regardless of all that, they still act clueless how to treat a woman in a good way. Just seems too inappropriate behaviour that doesn't get my juices wet.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Hate to say it but shallow, fickle people with poor communication skills in their 20s tend to age into shallow, fickle people with poor communication skills in their 30s, then 40s and so on. "

True but generally it's definitely been the case with very young men. Less likely as they get older.

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By *emptme1993Man
over a year ago

manchester

Being a male in my 20s (just about, clinging on to them) I’d beg to differ but then again I can only talk about myself and not for some of the degenerates that make up my age group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not really want a guy with Helen less then 30 as often they brag/talk too much

On the younger guys side is their erection and stamina but many shoot their load too quickly. May try some when we are on hols ie far from home

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Cherry blossom. Me and my wife met a younger guy and he bugged himself up loads saying he had a nice big cock and knew how to use it. He turned up and instantly looked at my wife mummy tummy and could tell he didn’t like it and then when we got him naked he had a little inverted cock and couldn’t get it hard and he blamed it on us

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Being a male in my 20s (just about, clinging on to them) I’d beg to differ but then again I can only talk about myself and not for some of the degenerates that make up my age group "

But you're not the age I'm referring to. I should of written men from 18 to 23

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Cherry blossom. Me and my wife met a younger guy and he bugged himself up loads saying he had a nice big cock and knew how to use it. He turned up and instantly looked at my wife mummy tummy and could tell he didn’t like it and then when we got him naked he had a little inverted cock and couldn’t get it hard and he blamed it on us "

It's "someone else's fault" riles me. I always admit to my faults. But I guess at any age, people can't admit fault. sorry you experienced that. One young guy meet came within less than 1 minute of me touching

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I had two long term sexual partners with a woman in her 40s and another in her 50s (not at the same time)

I don't want to toot my own horn but they loved me and appreciated me very much, as I did them.

There will be plenty of guys in their 20s that are actual gentlemen, hold a good conversation, are funny and witty, sexy as fuck, a good shag... and not arrogant about it all.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

I think a lot don’t know what they are doing or how to respect ladies on here. That also applies to other ages sadly

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By *otally BenettonCouple
over a year ago

shropshire


"Hate to say it but shallow, fickle people with poor communication skills in their 20s tend to age into shallow, fickle people with poor communication skills in their 30s, then 40s and so on. "

I was thinking on similar lines. Messages from guys in the over 20’s age bracket are just as likely to be crude and thoughtless. However, I wouldn’t want to tar everyone with the same brush.

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Cherry blossom. Me and my wife met a younger guy and he bugged himself up loads saying he had a nice big cock and knew how to use it. He turned up and instantly looked at my wife mummy tummy and could tell he didn’t like it and then when we got him naked he had a little inverted cock and couldn’t get it hard and he blamed it on us

It's "someone else's fault" riles me. I always admit to my faults. But I guess at any age, people can't admit fault. sorry you experienced that. One young guy meet came within less than 1 minute of me touching "

That doesn’t sound good if he came that easily. We normally look for guys about our age and the only reason we chose this young guy was because he was super confident and we thought he would carry on the confidence into the bedroom

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Has anyone had positive experiences with men in their 20s. From my experiences, they come across pretty shallow,fickle as hell and poor social skills. Please can someone prove me wrong?"

It's a generational thing I think and it's definitely not just boys. This smash or pass and body count business that they talk about is distasteful as hell. Being charming and making an effort to woo someone is dying out, they want to say hi and in their words, smash!

Op, I heard women in their mid 30s are the new men in their 20s!

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By *ustyMayfair85Woman
over a year ago

Mayfair/Travelling

I have met a younger man on here, late 20s if that still counts. Quite mature with no ego and was excellent at following my lead

Conversely I have met older men who were very much man-children. My worst meet was with an older man.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I have met a younger man on here, late 20s if that still counts. Quite mature with no ego and was excellent at following my lead

Conversely I have met older men who were very much man-children. My worst meet was with an older man."

No was referring to late teens and early 20s. I had many men in the late 20s and early 30s being lovely but the older they get, I think the better from my experience. Sexually I'm quite partial to younger men as they usually have better stamina and enthusiasm. I know there's exceptions to every rule but it astounds me how they behave at that age.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes a older man child would definitely be the worst to experience as you think they should know better at that age but luckily for me I never been with an older man to comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didnt know what he was doing and came within 30 seconds of a mmf.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"didnt know what he was doing and came within 30 seconds of a mmf."

Yeah i had that issue with younger men but I had once a 23 year old, who lied about his age to me, fuck me all night long. It was so good. But he was pretty immature socially

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I’m generally attracted to that kind of age-group, but most can be extremely flakey and don’t really know how to handle me. Have met some lovely ones though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all terrible fucks, us 20 somethings, unless you got a particular itch to scratch

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It's what the block button was made for.

Mid 30's and above and more importantly, on the right page.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"didnt know what he was doing and came within 30 seconds of a mmf.

Yeah i had that issue with younger men but I had once a 23 year old, who lied about his age to me, fuck me all night long. It was so good. But he was pretty immature socially "

I had a guy who was about 50 years old cum within four minutes, so not uniquely a young guy thing!

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

(40 seconds of penetration)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to show any of you that we aren’t all like that

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I found the same of women in their 20s. Also once you scratch the surface full of insecurity. That why I generally dated and causally slept women a fair few years older in my 20s and 30s. I just found older women were more on the same page as me. There is no substitute for wisdom, life experience and humble self assurance. Women are comfortable in their own skin are very attractive. Not that these are qualities exclusive to older women but in my experience it tends to be where I found it.

Although it's fair to say I don't think women in their 20s on the scene are necessarily representative of their peers amongst the general population. The ones I've come across on the scene tend to have a bit more about them. I however did not know about fab or the scene when I was in my 20s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does depend on the younger man. My view is that if the connection is there age doesn’t make a material difference - K

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