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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have our PM's on in chat to talk to couples in private if we want. If we put it on friends only new couples who wish to talk to us can't...

But now more and more single guys just PM and when you say "please chat in room" (We have on our profile couples and girls only. With a polite no single guys thank you), they then send abusive messages or come back in PM's time and time again and again... coming to point that the chat rooms are becoming terrible...

Is this only my feeling ? Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them after declining!

Simples - and then they can't see you either if your cam is on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them after declining!

Simples - and then they can't see you either if your cam is on! "

Does blocking all single guys stop them pm'ing u in chat then?

Cos I think to do each guy who pm is gonna mean OP is spending their time blocking and not chatting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not all single guys are like that (stands on soap box); most are nice polite and chatty.. where gets to point okay lets meet maybe for social to see where it goes..it's just an aggressive small lot now in chats that are pushing very hard... Just don't get it..my block list is getting longer and longer and still they do it...some just go and make a new profile with same old picture.. grrrr Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them after declining!

Simples - and then they can't see you either if your cam is on!

Does blocking all single guys stop them pm'ing u in chat then?

Cos I think to do each guy who pm is gonna mean OP is spending their time blocking and not chatting"

In chat it takes half a second to block anyone pestering you.

I wasn't talking about a blanket ban - but it takes no time to close a pm box, click block next to the users name and crack on with chatting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obi, I tried chat & got so many pm's I couldnt click anywhere so I left chat. I tried 4 / 5 times with the same. I no longer go in chat, so yes I know where the op is coming from.

I think its a case of dropping all the uninvited pms to the bottom of the screen and ignoring them. But then as i said Im no chat expert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just block all pm`s in chat accept for friends. if we want to talk to someone we are not friends with we just pm them or send them an inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to have our pm open to all never know who wants to chat, we find watchin main page is hard sometimes as it moves so quick sometimes if we miss others chat invites it may mean that others cant or dont see our chat invites, we also think its rude not to answer pms, we always reply even if it hi how ru and soz we cant chat, but sometimes we have to turn pm off when we get bombarded with single guys

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa


"we like to have our pm open to all never know who wants to chat, we find watchin main page is hard sometimes as it moves so quick sometimes if we miss others chat invites it may mean that others cant or dont see our chat invites, we also think its rude not to answer pms, we always reply even if it hi how ru and soz we cant chat, but sometimes we have to turn pm off when we get bombarded with single guys

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We do the same .......... I can just about keep up with 3 pm conversations going on, but that's all, and some single guys are very nice and funny too so I don't like to block them ......what does drive me nuts in pm is when you are replying to someone and a new pm comes up and your message automatically goes onto the new message!!!!

Very irritating!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them after declining!

Simples - and then they can't see you either if your cam is on!

Does blocking all single guys stop them pm'ing u in chat then?

Cos I think to do each guy who pm is gonna mean OP is spending their time blocking and not chatting

In chat it takes half a second to block anyone pestering you.

I wasn't talking about a blanket ban - but it takes no time to close a pm box, click block next to the users name and crack on with chatting!"

ahh ok.. i dont use chat often, very rarely and i know from blocking on a message it can take forever for the page to load up once blocked

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't use chat very often cos I can't stand people like Obi being wittier than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the chat rooms and can easily keep up...the block button is so handy... But I can't get in them anymore.. Laptops fooked

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

We used to respond politely but too many came back with rude comments, that of they pm US we just ignore it, which is a shame as we had some fab conversations with some males, if they ask in the room if they can pm US we normally say no, then pm them if we like their profile. Admittedly we dont go on chat as much as we used to due to us often being on different shifts!

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