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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known. "Why does this sound really racist to me? | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Yep, I get appreciation for differences, but this is white supremacism. Literally. | |||
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"Why do people have a problem with this? When I see plenty of women's profiles demanding BBC only lol. You go get what you want OP I rate it "Exactly
It's like saying that a male domination in BDSM is misogyny. Or people into CNC actually condone r*pe. People tend to pick and choose which kinks they have moral concerns about. | |||
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"Why do people have a problem with this? When I see plenty of women's profiles demanding BBC only lol. You go get what you want OP I rate it "I didnt think it was that bad it's not like it's only body parts the op mentioned wich dosnt seem to offend on here surprisingly | |||
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"There’s nothing wrong with the OP’s post. Seriously, have we lost our objectivity with regards to what is actually racist and what’s not. Nothing to see here, move on…" this.... people are dying to be offended when no offence is given x | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"You need to use both parts of the brain as it isn't | |||
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"There’s nothing wrong with the OP’s post. Seriously, have we lost our objectivity with regards to what is actually racist and what’s not. Nothing to see here, move on… this.... people are dying to be offended when no offence is given x" Exactly  | |||
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"Why do people have a problem with this? When I see plenty of women's profiles demanding BBC only lol. You go get what you want OP I rate it "I agree with this 100% | |||
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"I think people are often uncomfortable when race is an aspect of sexual desire. However it's important to remember that lots of desires and kinks are based in expoloring uncomfortable and darker aspects of life. So my first reaction is sounds a bit racist. However who are any of us to police or shame the sexual desires of consenting adults? Personally I find this uncomfortable but if consenting adults want to indulge in race play then that is for them to chose." What does that mean? You're a nut, crazy as a coconut! | |||
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" You have got to be kidding with the comments right? Seriously how many posts are dedicated to BBC and those who have a preference. They literally just switched it over and people lose there shit "There were two people thinking it's racist and a few people mildly shocked by the comment. People losing their shit is a huge exaggeration don't you think  | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Don’t be a snowflake. Do you post when people say BBC wanted ? Silly comment. | |||
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"Tbf, he hasn't said anything derogatory. Perhaps if he said no Asian or no Black it might come across as offensive. Really he just seems to be looking for somebody different to himself, don't see the problem." What? How many women posts do you see saying black men only or no Asians and no one says anything…. | |||
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"Why do people have a problem with this? When I see plenty of women's profiles demanding BBC only lol. You go get what you want OP I rate it "Absolutely. Can’t stand tosspots being offended over every single thing. Grow up snowflakes. | |||
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"I think people are often uncomfortable when race is an aspect of sexual desire. However it's important to remember that lots of desires and kinks are based in expoloring uncomfortable and darker aspects of life. So my first reaction is sounds a bit racist. However who are any of us to police or shame the sexual desires of consenting adults? Personally I find this uncomfortable but if consenting adults want to indulge in race play then that is for them to chose. What does that mean? You're a nut, crazy as a coconut! "As your OP states, Non white women: "That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? "You are wanting to engage in race play, that of, white superiority in sex play. It's not a hard concept to understand and one you no doubt understand will divide opinion due to it being read as racist. Much as I wasn't bothered by your OP, as there's plenty of white BBC cock worshipping on here, I am only responding as you stated above: " You're a nut, crazy as a coconut! "Referencing "coconut" without doubt put racism centre stage as there's little need for that type of come back. | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Because you are part of a growing percentage of society who seek to be offended | |||
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"I think people are often uncomfortable when race is an aspect of sexual desire. However it's important to remember that lots of desires and kinks are based in expoloring uncomfortable and darker aspects of life. So my first reaction is sounds a bit racist. However who are any of us to police or shame the sexual desires of consenting adults? Personally I find this uncomfortable but if consenting adults want to indulge in race play then that is for them to chose. What does that mean? You're a nut, crazy as a coconut!
As your OP states, Non white women: That love to worship a hard white cock.
Are you out there? You are wanting to engage in race play, that of, white superiority in sex play. It's not a hard concept to understand and one you no doubt understand will divide opinion due to it being read as racist.
Much as I wasn't bothered by your OP, as there's plenty of white BBC cock worshipping on here, I am only responding as you stated above:
You're a nut, crazy as a coconut! Referencing "coconut" without doubt put racism centre stage as there's little need for that type of come back.
"Actually, I was using the word coconut because it's a lyric from a song called Frontier Psychiatrist... Which was the name of the guy posting the message. So it was actually a little inside joke/reference that I was wondering if anyone would pick up on. But alas, no. In no way a racial slur or anything to do with race... At least from my perspective. So not sure why you jumped on that so fervently. | |||
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"I think people are often uncomfortable when race is an aspect of sexual desire. However it's important to remember that lots of desires and kinks are based in expoloring uncomfortable and darker aspects of life. So my first reaction is sounds a bit racist. However who are any of us to police or shame the sexual desires of consenting adults? Personally I find this uncomfortable but if consenting adults want to indulge in race play then that is for them to chose. What does that mean? You're a nut, crazy as a coconut!
As your OP states, Non white women: That love to worship a hard white cock.
Are you out there? You are wanting to engage in race play, that of, white superiority in sex play. It's not a hard concept to understand and one you no doubt understand will divide opinion due to it being read as racist.
Much as I wasn't bothered by your OP, as there's plenty of white BBC cock worshipping on here, I am only responding as you stated above:
You're a nut, crazy as a coconut! Referencing "coconut" without doubt put racism centre stage as there's little need for that type of come back.
Actually, I was using the word coconut because it's a lyric from a song called Frontier Psychiatrist... Which was the name of the guy posting the message. So it was actually a little inside joke/reference that I was wondering if anyone would pick up on. But alas, no.
In no way a racial slur or anything to do with race... At least from my perspective.
So not sure why you jumped on that so fervently. "'I don't know what you mean' is a phrase you use a tad too frequent on a race thread you started. | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Surely it's just the white version of BBC, making it BWC. Personally I don't care what colour it is, well I wouldn't want green  | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?
Surely it's just the white version of BBC, making it BWC.
Personally I don't care what colour it is, well I wouldn't want green "And didn't notice the non-white women  | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
Mrs"Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied. | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Because you’re easy to offend. Pointing out obvious differences and playing on them from a kink point of view, doesn’t mean treating a person of a different colour/creed/religion/sex/gender/size/whatever as inferior or being antagonistic towards them in an everyday or socially normal setting. No different to BBC. They are all adjectives. Being offended by them is a choice, and is subjective. | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied. "You've literally proved my point | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied.
You've literally proved my point"I'll remember to [disclose ethnicity] on every thread I comment on  Pro tip
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"Why do people have a problem with this? When I see plenty of women's profiles demanding BBC only lol. You go get what you want OP I rate it "It's weird both ways tbh but (some) black men encourage it because it gets them laid | |||
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"I think people are often uncomfortable when race is an aspect of sexual desire. However it's important to remember that lots of desires and kinks are based in expoloring uncomfortable and darker aspects of life. So my first reaction is sounds a bit racist. However who are any of us to police or shame the sexual desires of consenting adults? Personally I find this uncomfortable but if consenting adults want to indulge in race play then that is for them to chose." Perfect explanation | |||
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My first thought was do people honestly do that? Followed by a thought of is that similar in context to a D/s dynamic where the submissive is subject to derogatory comments? At the end of the day, if it’s consenting adults engaging in whatever activity, it’s down to them.
But reading back through the thread, I don’t believe the OP was suggesting this, more stating a preference - no different to a preference for hair colour, height, body shape etc etc.
People are a ometimes too quick to read into a statement something that is not there. Maybe asking for clarification is a better way of gaining an understanding rather than jumping to conclusions
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"Misunderstanding this as racist is not evidence of people being too easily offended. The irony is that plenty in this thread calling others too easily offended also misunderstand racism. What a day "And in turn being easily offended. Where’s that gif of the man ironing his face? | |||
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" Why does this sound really racist to me?" Only to you apparently! | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Does asking for a woman make you sexist ? | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied. "Actually, I think there has to be context and intent for the use of the word coconut to be a racial slur. And I was just quoting a song in this case. I guess people read into things and see what they want through their own internal lens in a way that fits their individual preprogrammed biases and perceptions though. And for the record, coconut is lovely, especially in a bounty. And that's not a racial slur either, just refering to the chocolate bar.  | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied.
Actually, I think there has to be context and intent for the use of the word coconut to be a racial slur.
And I was just quoting a song in this case.
I guess people read into things and see what they want through their own internal lens in a way that fits their individual preprogrammed biases and perceptions though.
And for the record, coconut is lovely, especially in a bounty. And that's not a racial slur either, just refering to the chocolate bar. "Exactly this. I had to go Google the meaning as a racial slur. Seems everything can cause offence now lol | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied.
Actually, I think there has to be context and intent for the use of the word coconut to be a racial slur.
And I was just quoting a song in this case.
I guess people read into things and see what they want through their own internal lens in a way that fits their individual preprogrammed biases and perceptions though.
And for the record, coconut is lovely, especially in a bounty. And that's not a racial slur either, just refering to the chocolate bar.
Exactly this.
I had to go Google the meaning as a racial slur.
Seems everything can cause offence now lol"Coconut has been a slur for many many many years its not a new thing | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?
Yep, I get appreciation for differences, but this is white supremacism. Literally. "Would it have been more acceptable if he's said a floppy white cock?  | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied.
Actually, I think there has to be context and intent for the use of the word coconut to be a racial slur.
And I was just quoting a song in this case.
I guess people read into things and see what they want through their own internal lens in a way that fits their individual preprogrammed biases and perceptions though.
And for the record, coconut is lovely, especially in a bounty. And that's not a racial slur either, just refering to the chocolate bar.
Exactly this.
I had to go Google the meaning as a racial slur.
Seems everything can cause offence now lol
Coconut has been a slur for many many many years its not a new thing"Cool good to know. | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"is it any more sp than a woman only wanting black men? Is having a preference racist? | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Is it because you're a snow flake or possibly you have a small soft floppy? | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Because you want it to.Any complaints about ladies/gay/bi men wanting BBC for example? | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied. "Not a racial slur - you’re just trying to make it one. ‘You’re a nut, you’re as crazy as a coconut’ is from the sketch ‘Frontier Psychiatrist’ by an old Canadian comedic duo Wayne and Shuster and sampled by Avalanches. If you’re going through life jumping on stuff like this you’re wasting your precious time remaining - how about putting that indignation into something worthwhile | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied.
Not a racial slur - you’re just trying to make it one. ‘You’re a nut, you’re as crazy as a coconut’ is from the sketch ‘Frontier Psychiatrist’ by an old Canadian comedic duo Wayne and Shuster and sampled by Avalanches.
If you’re going through life jumping on stuff like this you’re wasting your precious time remaining - how about putting that indignation into something worthwhile "Coconut is a slur in certain contexts and has been for a very long time | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied.
Not a racial slur - you’re just trying to make it one. ‘You’re a nut, you’re as crazy as a coconut’ is from the sketch ‘Frontier Psychiatrist’ by an old Canadian comedic duo Wayne and Shuster and sampled by Avalanches.
If you’re going through life jumping on stuff like this you’re wasting your precious time remaining - how about putting that indignation into something worthwhile "I'll file that in the long isle of fucks I give | |||
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied.
Not a racial slur - you’re just trying to make it one. ‘You’re a nut, you’re as crazy as a coconut’ is from the sketch ‘Frontier Psychiatrist’ by an old Canadian comedic duo Wayne and Shuster and sampled by Avalanches.
If you’re going through life jumping on stuff like this you’re wasting your precious time remaining - how about putting that indignation into something worthwhile
I'll file that in the long isle of fucks I give "Okay buddy You and (and another on this thread) are frothing at the mouth when in fact you just missed a clever bit of banter based on a forum user’s profile name - utterly without any racial context or overtone. 
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"As a non white woman I'm not offended and don't see this as racism. There's a difference between racism and preference in my personal opinion. Wondering how many of those that are jumping up and down about this are white men?!
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Much as I'm a white guy, I wasn't jumping up and down at the thread, more his language. As the OP recognises, "coconut" is a racial slur, however loosely applied.
Not a racial slur - you’re just trying to make it one. ‘You’re a nut, you’re as crazy as a coconut’ is from the sketch ‘Frontier Psychiatrist’ by an old Canadian comedic duo Wayne and Shuster and sampled by Avalanches.
If you’re going through life jumping on stuff like this you’re wasting your precious time remaining - how about putting that indignation into something worthwhile
I'll file that in the long isle of fucks I give
Okay buddy You and (and another on this thread) are frothing at the mouth when in fact you just missed a clever bit of banter based on a forum user’s profile name - utterly without any racial context or overtone.
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"Perhaps if the op had phrased the first sentence slightly differently it would have given the post a different,totaly non controversial slant is,if say he'd just said any non white women prefer a white cock,that's nothing more than a preference. Add worship to the sentence and its still asking for a woman's preference, it just sounds a bit more provocative" I want my cock to be worshipped though, by a naughty slut that adores cock and is a great cock sucker. Why should I compromise to placate people? | |||
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"Certainly don't compromise to placate,its your thread and you can do what you want! Just out of curiousity...how many non white lady's have messaged you?either worshiping or pointing out you're not a deity "Who made a claim of being a deity? | |||
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"Surely that's pretty much essential for worship?" I'm not saying that it is. Seems like a leap. | |||
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" You have got to be kidding with the comments right? Seriously how many posts are dedicated to BBC and those who have a preference. They literally just switched it over and people lose there shit "Tbf most of the “BBC” posts end up being racist too | |||
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"The whole “thing” around racism is so complex that people don’t know whether they’re supposed to be offended or not….." By people, you mean white people. Non-white people are very clear on what is offensive and what’s not. After all, we tend to be the ones that racism is perpetrated against. Which is why, oftentimes the confusion is bemusing and an unwanted extra for us. | |||
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"Certainly don't compromise to placate,its your thread and you can do what you want! Just out of curiousity...how many non white lady's have messaged you?either worshiping or pointing out you're not a deity "His cock is the deity, not him | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"Because you want it to... It would be a preference if it was a woman... Possibly even if it was a black man asking for white women | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?
Because you want it to... It would be a preference if it was a woman... Possibly even if it was a black man asking for white women "so true you like what you like next you all will be going on about people liking dad bods/BBW only tall men haha grow up people | |||
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"Certainly don't compromise to placate,its your thread and you can do what you want! Just out of curiousity...how many non white lady's have messaged you?either worshiping or pointing out you're not a deity
His cock is the deity, not him "Ah...that's very amusing! | |||
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"That love to worship a hard white cock. Are you out there? Make yourselves known.
Why does this sound really racist to me?"It’s in no way racist. | |||
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