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Is Swinging a physical or psychological thrill..

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Mainly for couples really, but all others more than welcome

We've discussed with couples that while extremely enjoyable playing with others is possibly the mental thrill than physical gratification.

When you have sex with your partner, nobody else can (with the exception of regular play friends over a decent time) can know the little things that push you over the edge..

Maybe the naughty thrill of doing something society frowns on, the kick of someone new, watching your partner, doing things impossible with lust you two (improvisation with toy's aside ) 'reclaim' sex after, social elements etc..

Thoughts please x

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Sorry!!

..playing with others is possibly more the mental thrill than physical gratification..

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By *randMrs397Couple
over a year ago

durham

Within our dynamic where I like to watch the wife with other people I would definitely day its mentally stimulating, for her I'm not too sure.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely both. I enjoy working out what makes a new person tick, seeing the little unique twitches, working out how to quicken their breath...

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

It's Definitely a big turn on mentally.Totally agree that for it to get to a point of being totally satisfying you need to really meet up more times to know what buttons to press.We love the excitement and anticipation of meeting new people who hopefully will become naughty friends.Also as a couple it can be difficult to actually be both totally attracted to both in another couple that has always been problematic sadly.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

More of a mental rush watching the other half play in a couple swap.

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Within our dynamic where I like to watch the wife with other people I would definitely day its mentally stimulating, for her I'm not too sure."

Oh do ask and cum back

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Definitely both. I enjoy working out what makes a new person tick, seeing the little unique twitches, working out how to quicken their breath..."

Nicely put!

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"It's Definitely a big turn on mentally.Totally agree that for it to get to a point of being totally satisfying you need to really meet up more times to know what buttons to press.We love the excitement and anticipation of meeting new people who hopefully will become naughty friends.Also as a couple it can be difficult to actually be both totally attracted to both in another couple that has always been problematic sadly. "

Yes, in agreement! Mutual attraction is a stumbling point we find

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"More of a mental rush watching the other half play in a couple swap."

Honestly, what other half.. but yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly for couples really, but all others more than welcome

We've discussed with couples that while extremely enjoyable playing with others is possibly the mental thrill than physical gratification.

When you have sex with your partner, nobody else can (with the exception of regular play friends over a decent time) can know the little things that push you over the edge..

Maybe the naughty thrill of doing something society frowns on, the kick of someone new, watching your partner, doing things impossible with lust you two (improvisation with toy's aside ) 'reclaim' sex after, social elements etc..

Thoughts please x

"

I totally agree when you say that nothing beats being intimate with your partner. But with swinging, for us it's the sharing of pleasure with other people that we find horny. Knowing that we are both getting turned on watching each other be pleasured by someone else, or giving pleasure to someone else, is what we love...if that even makes sense haha

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, for sure.

We do things differently swinging than we do together.

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Deffo both ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put it simply...

It's so wrong it's right!

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Well some cerebral comments in line with our thoughts.. But thank you for the PM's! Really nice to hear this is not a tick list thing for many as us x

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By *eyeY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"Mainly for couples really, but all others more than welcome

We've discussed with couples that while extremely enjoyable playing with others is possibly the mental thrill than physical gratification.

When you have sex with your partner, nobody else can (with the exception of regular play friends over a decent time) can know the little things that push you over the edge..

Maybe the naughty thrill of doing something society frowns on, the kick of someone new, watching your partner, doing things impossible with lust you two (improvisation with toy's aside ) 'reclaim' sex after, social elements etc..

Thoughts please x

I totally agree when you say that nothing beats being intimate with your partner. But with swinging, for us it's the sharing of pleasure with other people that we find horny. Knowing that we are both getting turned on watching each other be pleasured by someone else, or giving pleasure to someone else, is what we love...if that even makes sense haha

Mrs"

Absolutely the point! Unadulterated pleasure without hindrance.. Looking in each others eyes at 'that' moment.. Wow!!!

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"More of a mental rush watching the other half play in a couple swap.

Honestly, what other half.. but yes"

My wife.

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