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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any advice for a fresh couple to the scene.....???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change age limit to 50 and move to Lancashire

Good luck on here though

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Any advice for a fresh couple to the scene.....???

I see that you’ve stated on your profile that you don’t give anyone permission to share your pictures so you don’t need any advice regarding being wary and staying safe online as you’ve made it impossible for anyone to share your pictures and you obviously know what you’re doing in that regard.

One piece of advice I’ll give you is don’t let someone who you’ve only known for about an hour gag you and tie you to his bed by your wrists and ankles, even if he promises to be gentle with you and untie you at the end of the night….I wish someone had given me that advice

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Mk Milton Keynes areas unless meets shows x SOCIAL or fun let's chat

Meet men aswell as women

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Be nice

Have fun

WATCH OUT THERE ARE SOME WEIRDO RETARD KNOBS on here smashed out of there brains on blue pill or sniff rubbish.

Most have no photos

Xxxx

Terry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet men aswell as women

Reply to everyone

Be nice

Have fun

WATCH OUT THERE ARE SOME WEIRDO RETARD KNOBS on here smashed out of there brains on blue pill or sniff rubbish.

Most have no photos

Xxxx

Terry"

Why do they need to reply to everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet men aswell as women

Reply to everyone

Be nice

Have fun

WATCH OUT THERE ARE SOME WEIRDO RETARD KNOBS on here smashed out of there brains on blue pill or sniff rubbish.

Most have no photos

Xxxx

Terry

Why do they need to reply to everyone?

Was thinking the same?

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Make sure you know your boundaries.

Be open and honest in your fantasies and what you feel isn't working, communication is key between you.

Don't take it seriously and if you go to events, just enjoy with no expectations.

Don't respond to all messages because if you end up blocking all men for example they can still message you unless you block individually.

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By *abonTedCouple
over a year ago

Midlands & Cheltenham

Know your worth it, know what you want, never compromise be respectful to everyone until they prove they don’t deserve you and enjoy.

That’s what we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest advice would be don't overthink it, at some point just go for it.

The first time is not likely to go well, but then you will have a better idea of what you are looking for and how you feel about swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching with interest as well xx

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By *izredCouple
over a year ago

mid cornwall

If you like Podcasts, listen to the some episodes of the Bedhoppers podcast - it's a great way to hear about some of the highs and lows of being involved in this madness

Also, try to get to a club - its a great way of exposing your self to the lifestyle and getting a feel for if it's what you want.

Enjoy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do things your way, don't let anyone tell you you're doing it wrong. Maintain respect for yourself and the people you meet.

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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway

Don't overthink it as has been mentioned.

Don't be nieve as I was when I first joined. I found out the hard way that there aren't very nice people on here.

There can be clicks, decided yourself what you think about them.

Always play safe and never get to d*unk.

Enjoy the excitement and nerves on your first meet.

Most importantly, just enjoy your time here. Once you've had your first few meets, you will say to yourself why didn't you do this sooner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More and better pictures of him. Lots of cock pics means nothing when you can see what it’s attached to.

Don’t expect anything as the site can get demoralising if you expect too much.

Set your email filters.

Don’t live on the site.

Be lighthearted about the whole experience.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
over a year ago

wonderland.

"Any advice for a fresh couple to the scene.....???

Take it all at your own pace.. Talk lots.. and enjoy x

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Any advice for a fresh couple to the scene.....???

Go to a club on couples and single females night. Whilst single guys are useful they can be intimidating for your first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourselves, enjoy the social elements first and whatever happens will happen. Too many people try and force things onto others and it comes across as super thirsty.

Also as a couple if this is your first time dipping your toes in make sure you de brief fully after each meet and talk about what you liked and did not like. It's all a learning curve that gets better and better each time.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Delete any profile references to Sydney university, copyright claims, ownership or sharing of images.

Discuss what you both want

Discuss it again

Go to a club

Repeat the discussion.

I sound like a dick. But try it

And have fun

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36

I’ve got lost of advice but my biggest piece of advice after many years on here and over 35 years in the lifestyle is to ignore big t and his advice.

Enjoy things your way.

99.9% of men just want tho chuck their muck.

Be true you both of yourselves and don’t take things too seriously.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're still relatively new to this and would 100% recommend a club. Wee had the best time and can't wait to go back

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Agree on your boundaries for the night before you get to any event or club

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

Get to a club night

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Take your time,

Know your boundaries and keep talking with one another.

Relax and be yourselves.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks so much for all of the advice everyone, it is much appreciated!!

xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice for a fresh couple to the scene.....???

the more you over think things the less you'll try. set your own boundaries but go with the flow, you might find that you want to change your boundaries as you go and work out between you how you do that

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