FabSwingers.com forum: Hard to digest....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So how does this work..

Alot of female profiles list that they are professional, are working, hence have limited time due to work and family; and they don't want ONS and are looking for regular meets,yet they have over 40+ in person verification meets (not from parties)...

Still pondering.. And trying to digest..

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"So how does this work..

Still pondering.. And trying to digest.. "

It’s enough to keep you awake at night !

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"So how does this work..

Still pondering.. And trying to digest.. "
Over what period of time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spose it depends over what period of time, could be years.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Maybe they're from a time when they did want one night stands

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Hard to swallow indeed (excuse my pun)

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

and ??? ... im in a very important job that has me working silly hours ... im married and we have older kids ... i look for regular mainly and ive got a few regulars but i still look for meets in between ...

regular does not mean exclusive and ive been on this scene with hubs for 30 plus years if id kept my original profile i opens when fab started it would make 40 meet very very small indeed ...its swinging hard working family type couple's are basically the core of the scene ...

no swinger should be worried about how many the have or have not meet and if others think that way then they are hardly swingers ..

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I wouldn’t worry about what others are doing

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

I'm a hard working professional with a family and limited time, but I use my time wisely. I see some people regularly and some new people in clubs

It's my time to do with as I wish. Not sure what the issue is??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha... Not to that extent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would say within 12 months..

"So how does this work..

Still pondering.. And trying to digest.. Over what period of time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Spose it depends over what period of time, could be years. "

In this case, I'm talking months.. Hence the curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they're from a time when they did want one night stands"

Fair shout.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"and ??? ... im in a very important job that has me working silly hours ... im married and we have older kids ... i look for regular mainly and ive got a few regulars but i still look for meets in between ...

no swinger should be worried about how many the have or have not meet and if others think that way then they are hardly swingers ..

Agreed, and one shouldn't. The curiosity was more around pre requisite of a meet that was indirectly proptional to the verifications (within 12 months)..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t worry about what others are doing "

I never do, it was just an observation..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a hard working professional with a family and limited time, but I use my time wisely. I see some people regularly and some new people in clubs

It's my time to do with as I wish. Not sure what the issue is??

No issue at all. It was an observation, on what I read on the profiles against verifications within last 12 months..

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

"I'm a hard working professional with a family and limited time, but I use my time wisely. I see some people regularly and some new people in clubs

It's my time to do with as I wish. Not sure what the issue is??

No issue at all. It was an observation, on what I read on the profiles against verifications within last 12 months.. "

No issue but you've made a post saying it's hard to digest

Strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a hard working professional with a family and limited time, but I use my time wisely. I see some people regularly and some new people in clubs

It's my time to do with as I wish. Not sure what the issue is??

No issue at all. It was an observation, on what I read on the profiles against verifications within last 12 months.. "

We can't really suggest any offers of understanding, as we're not looking at the profile you are.

It could be through social meets/gatherings, maybe meets from a previous profile.

It really doesn't matter though, if for whatever reason it isn't for you, stroll on by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And that's what I did...

"I'm a hard working professional with a family and limited time, but I use my time wisely. I see some people regularly and some new people in clubs

It's my time to do with as I wish. Not sure what the issue is??

No issue at all. It was an observation, on what I read on the profiles against verifications within last 12 months..

We can't really suggest any offers of understanding, as we're not looking at the profile you are.

It could be through social meets/gatherings, maybe meets from a previous profile.

It really doesn't matter though, if for whatever reason it isn't for you, stroll on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And that's what I did...

I'm a hard working professional with a family and limited time, but I use my time wisely. I see some people regularly and some new people in clubs

It's my time to do with as I wish. Not sure what the issue is??

No issue at all. It was an observation, on what I read on the profiles against verifications within last 12 months..

We can't really suggest any offers of understanding, as we're not looking at the profile you are.

It could be through social meets/gatherings, maybe meets from a previous profile.

It really doesn't matter though, if for whatever reason it isn't for you, stroll on by.

I meant without the forum post.

Honestly, if you spend time trying to work out why people do things the way they do here, it'll drive you crazy and distract from the possible fun you could be having.

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