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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just browsing the 'new couples' it strikes me just how many want just a single female at first, particularly if they are under 35. Is this seen as the socially acceptable part of swinging these days? At what point do people open up the search to include men and couples and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello nice to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We must be odd then , we just meet with single guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We must be odd then , we just meet with single guys "

Not odd at all, entirely your preference.

This is based on flicking through the 'new couples' section. If only they knew how hard it is to get a single female!

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"We must be odd then , we just meet with single guys

Not odd at all, entirely your preference.

This is based on flicking through the 'new couples' section. If only they knew how hard it is to get a single female!"

I think the reason will be with a single female both parties get to play, as normally the female of the couple is bi-curious. so its a safe first step to see if bringing someone else into the relationship might work. just our opinion

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa


"We must be odd then , we just meet with single guys

Not odd at all, entirely your preference.

This is based on flicking through the 'new couples' section. If only they knew how hard it is to get a single female!"

Lol........its funny really, we've never said we want a single female yet have had several offers over the past year of one !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We must be odd then , we just meet with single guys

Not odd at all, entirely your preference.

This is based on flicking through the 'new couples' section. If only they knew how hard it is to get a single female!

I think the reason will be with a single female both parties get to play, as normally the female of the couple is bi-curious. so its a safe first step to see if bringing someone else into the relationship might work. just our opinion "

It always strikes me as odd how many new couples have a bi-curious female though......

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

I reckon there are 2 possible reasons:

1) If the guy is the one in charge of the decision to swing, then it's the ultimate "goal" for an alpha male - i.e. an FMF threesome

2) If both parts of the couple are still pretty nervois, then there's a big question about how threatening a situation might feel. A single F is rather unthreatening compared to a single guy or a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was on previously and met quite a selection of single females.

No one in charge in our relationship, just something which we know we both enjoy.

No point putting that we are searching for single males when we dont want to meet them...

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Maybe alot of these new profiles are infact single guys with fake profiles or am I getting cynical in my old age...how many of these profile will still be here in a months time

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I reckon there are 2 possible reasons:

1) If the guy is the one in charge of the decision to swing, then it's the ultimate "goal" for an alpha male - i.e. an FMF threesome

2) If both parts of the couple are still pretty nervois, then there's a big question about how threatening a situation might feel. A single F is rather unthreatening compared to a single guy or a couple"

I think you're pretty close there. Speaking as the female half of a new couple the idea of bringing in just one extra person seems easier to deal with. Having only ever been a couple I'm not sure how the dynamics will work with extra people so one extra seems an easier way to start...but from then onwards and upwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my man will look for couples but only at clubs I know what a cock feels like as c has 1 (not a bad size either about 8" ) and I do love women to touch me its not as pressuring with a woman as a couple for me any how xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just browsing the 'new couples' it strikes me just how many want just a single female at first, particularly if they are under 35. Is this seen as the socially acceptable part of swinging these days? At what point do people open up the search to include men and couples and why? "

Think it's just naivety - once they have been on a while , posted on the forums about how hard it is to find the elusive single bi female and how they don't believe a couple will work for them - they will either leave the site or relax their criteria

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We must be odd then , we just meet with single guys "

Hubby is straight but so do we !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cpls looking 4 single fems live in dream land as not many single fems really meet on here anyway just a fantasy a guy talks his partner in bed about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think cpls looking 4 single fems live in dream land as not many single fems really meet on here anyway just a fantasy a guy talks his partner in bed about "

You might be right, very safe option as it will probably never happen for newbies! Mind we have met numerous single ladies but we well verified/ experienced.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I think cpls looking 4 single fems live in dream land as not many single fems really meet on here anyway just a fantasy a guy talks his partner in bed about "

I think you may be right

The majority of couples profiles on here lately seem to be looking for that illusive female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be and not saying it definitely is that the male doesn't like the idea of his partner going with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could it be and not saying it definitely is that the male doesn't like the idea of his partner going with another guy."

Bit selfish that though!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We have never had response from single fems,the only home wife gets to play with women is when we play with couples,and as for previous post I would say lots of us husbands love watching wife with other guys.we have had more mmf than mfmf for that reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im with BUNKIE above and share some of his cynical view ie; false profiles/traps

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We have been on site three years,you get the feel of which people to contact and who to ignore,and yes there are loads of guys pretending to be couples even with verifications we are still careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been on site three years,you get the feel of which people to contact and who to ignore,and yes there are loads of guys pretending to be couples even with verifications we are still careful"

and as we discovered Veris can be faked to - whenever i read a veri i tend to look at thier circle of friends/meets and activity - and if their friends/meets have accepted veris from them; it lessens the risk/..... i think lol

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We have met people who have asked couples and guys who have met us ,we have also spoken to other couples who have asked about guys or couples who we have met , get invited to better parties that way,also can get straight down to fun at clubs ,it takes a while to get known but worth it

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