FabSwingers.com forum: No shows

By *ustauseer OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone else recently found that lots of people are no shows to organised meets?

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset

It can happen, I’ve had people go radio silent on the day of meets but never just not turn up. It’s quite pathetic they don’t have the balls to say I’ve changed my mind.

I normally chat to people for a while first and out the fantasist’s. I also insist on exchanging phone numbers and finalising any meet by text, this quite often eliminates the chaff.

But nothing’s fool proof.

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By *e13guyMan
over a year ago

Lewisham

A guy would be mad to no show on you. You're gorgeous.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't really meet ,but I've seen a fair few threads recently where people have been stood up.

Always report them op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I had it recently.. it was my first meet from here too

not off to a great start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first joined we had a few no shows, it’s the main reason we prefer club meets now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so frustrating you speak for ages then organise a meet get worked up then nothing arghhhhhh life is to short for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my old profile it got so bad that 1 in 10 might turn up. I got so fed up I left, I soon came back but it's not much better now.

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

First few months looked like things had changed for the better (had previous profile) then as if planned, suddenly had far more no shows than meets.

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By *IRTHY4GIRLMan
over a year ago

Blackpool/London

"Yes, I had it recently.. it was my first meet from here too

not off to a great start "

How can someone not show up for a meet with you

My answer Not man enough

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Yeah, I've had plenty.

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By *lsiePTV/TS
over a year ago

Gateshead

"I don't really meet ,but I've seen a fair few threads recently where people have been stood up.

Always report them op "

Ooh is being no-showed a reportable offence? It's payback time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess being realistic,if people can't be arsed to keep reservations and appointments in vanilla world, there's no hope they will have the guts to be brave and message to cancel a meet! Sadly all part of ghosting I guess?

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